+558 It's really hard being a good boyfriend. You gotta be nice, but not too nice, mean but not too mean, affectionate, but not too affectionate, have a solid routine but still be spontaneous, funny but not too carried away, caring with a hint of douche, selfless but still holding your identity, sensitive but still manly. Girls are just freaking complicated, amirite?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Not all girls. Basically if you're sweet and can make me smile, I like you :P

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Yeah, getting the girl is the easy part. Having the girl stay around is what's difficult

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Depends on the girl. Personally, if I was a guy, I wouldn't want one of those picky types any way.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

No. You just have to be yourself.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

If you find the right girl, she'll think all you do is perfect. I'm not the perfect girlfriend, I have a fear of talking on phones, I actually care about my friends and won't blow them off for my boyfriend, though most girls will, and I treat people like they treat me. But hopefully we'll all meet someone who is okay with who we are.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I do agree with this, but some guys are freaking complicated too. Make up your mind, should we make you a sandwich or suck your dick?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Both?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Girls are complicated. We're just on two different worlds. But the whole point of love is to care for each other despite the conflict, which may or may not be frequent. Luv Clo

by Anonymous 14 years ago

You don't have to be everything, you just have to know when the right time to be everything is. The trick is to read the girls emotions and know how to respond.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

And don't you forget it ;)

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Moderation is good.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I agree. But the the same goes for being a girlfriend. We have to want to be with you, but not be too clingy. Know how to have fun, but have class. Show affection, but not be too touchy. Be interested in your life, but not smother you. Tell it how it is, but not be bitchy. It's just as hard, man! That's why their's compromise! :)

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I don't want a guy with a touch of douche or a guy who's mean. The rest though is hard for me to not want.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

(+Me): Mm, "a touch of douche" doesn't sound like a good thing, but trust me, if he lacks it, he may as well be a chick. There has to be a certain level of arrogance there, even if it is miniscule. As for mean, I think OP is trying to say that girls expect guys to be able to hold their own and not be all wishy-washy, mainly with their friends.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Girls really are complicated. But we are really tuned in to knowing peoples' emotions and reading signs, so we know how other girls work. I don't know how I could ever interpret a girl if I wasn't one.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I shall also add that not all girls are the same, just as not all guys are the same. That makes it a hell lot more complicated and in some cases, simpler :P

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Mean but not too mean? You shouldn't have to be mean at all...

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Not rly, all you gadda do is juz make her a sandwich, that's all.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Yes guys should be mean and douchey sometimes... I personally wouldn't want a guy who is always sweet and nice.. I'd get bored.... I agree, we girls are complicated. Lol.

by Anonymous 14 years ago