"The only thing a boy should ever want to change about you, is your last name (:" Yes, girls, keep thinking you can be as selfish and clingy and awkward as you want, and a boy will come along who you'll never ever have to sacrifice anything for... amirite?

+332 "The only thing a boy should ever want to change about you, is your last name (:" Yes, girls, keep thinking you can be as selfish and clingy and awkward as you want, and a boy will come along who you'll never ever have to sacrifice anything for... amirite?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Maybe not everything, but both of them should be willing to change for the good of the relationship.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Exactly. :)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

This reminds me of part of a comedy special.''I hate those fairytale princesses because they teach girls to just wait for a guy while he has to go fight 3 continents of monsters and find a way to unlock everything and he gets to where ever she is most likely a tower and then discovers she was asleep and didn't even get ready to be rescued.I mean atleast meet him halfway because you can atleast out of the tower with a batting ram unless your rapunzel just use your hair as an escape rope i mean how much would that hurt.''basically the metaphor for those you didn't get it is that the fairytales say girls just have to wait for a guy while he has to do everything in a relationship. I hate those girls who just wait for ''him'' because they took stuff like the saying ''someone will like you for who you are'' personally i always thought that was for all relationships

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I know. Exactly! I mean I'm not saying a girl should do all this crazy stuff to impress a guy, but in a relationship, don't think you can pass off insane jealousy or bitchiness or clinginess as "just my flaws and they're BEAUTIFUL"

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yeah i know. The bitchiness one would suck either way though.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I believe a girl should never try to change a guy and a guy should never try to change a girl. You are who you are.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

But exposure to the people around you does tend to change you. Being in a relationship does involve change at one point for both parties.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

But that happens naturally, and not by choice. No one's deciding to change anyone.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

No, but still change is inevitable and it is pretty much by choice. People do change and sometimes you do have to change parts of yourself because of/for your SO. Now if you just find a random guy and want to change him into your ideal then yeah, it's shitty, but I don't think(hope...) people really do that?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Like I said, not the natural change. When one person in the relationship tries to forcefully change the other to fit their ideal love. It's sad how many people I've seen doing this.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Those people are idiots >.>.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Yet most girls date idiots/douchebags whom they've only dated because they're hot and they want to change them to not being an asshole... Yeah, seems like most teenage girls and girls in their 20s agree with you.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

you sound a lot like some "nice guy" who's spiteful that he's never gotten a girlfriend

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I was merely stating how I act, not how 'most' girls do. Don't really know what point you're trying to make though?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I'm not changing my personality for a guy. I don't care if it means I'll live alone forever, I've just seen too many of my friends change for the worse to get a guy.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

If you do change while in a relationship, it should be for the better and if you change for the worse, it's probably time to get put of that relationship.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I think thats the problem, what defines a "better" change, there opinion of better, and your opinion of better may be opposites.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

That's true. You could think you're changing your boyfriend/girlfriend from having an attitude to being nicer but they could see it as you turning them into a pushover or something. So yeah you're right

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Get **out.... Wow I just noticed this mistake haha.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

There seems to be a lack of male input here (thanks MW3), so I'll throw in my opinion. If a guy is serious about a girl, then he likes her personality already and there's no reason for him to want her to change in any large ways. That being said, wanting some small things to change shouldn't be totally out of the question for either side. If one person really likes something that the other isn't really into, they should at least change their ways and be supportive. No one should be against making small changes in themselves that would make their partner happy.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Compromise is key in relationships. I don't think the key is "changing" but compromising for certain situations. Like say you like spicy foods and your S.O does not, so you will change your dining habits to not cook spicy foods for dinner when they are over. A relationship is TWO people, made up of ONE couple; so each decision is a mutual compromise between the two.

by Anonymous 12 years ago