+334 Some guy needs to write a book called 'Meanings of stuff guys say and do' so girls could understand, amirite?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Or a book called "Stop trying so hard to read into mens actions so hard and confusing yourself"

by Anonymous 13 years ago

ignore the double statement.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

or that. guys could explain that sometimes what they do doesnt mean anything.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

How 'bout you write the book? I'd read it! ;)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'll write the one about girls, that'd be so easy

by Anonymous 13 years ago

That book would be empty

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Ugh. Like my friend I was talking to the other day, and we were explaining what our names meant. And when I told him my meaning, he said 'Fitting.' and I don't know if I should read into that or if there's nothing behind it :/

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Nothing behind it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I think I've figured out guys. What they do and say is exactly what they mean. If a guy starts throwing crumpled paper at you, it is simply because he is bored and you are a good target. If he consistently bugs you purposely and you give a response, he simple does it because it is easy entertainment. Guys, let me know if I'm on the right track here.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yes you are on the right direction, but it will more frequently be the person they like than other people

by Anonymous 13 years ago

So does that mean the boy who throws paper wads at me in math and the one that pokes me constantly in English might like me? Greeeeaaaat.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It depends, he might just be messing with you

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Ha, see? Right there, that's not straightforward.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

its an 80-20 kinda thing

by Anonymous 13 years ago

hmm. Okay, fair enough.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm on your side on this one but since he doesn't actually know the guy nothing he says is going to be 100%

by Anonymous 13 years ago

HAHAHAHAHAHA

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Are you kidding me? If anybody needs to write a book it would be girls. I'd suggest a title such as: "Not Overanalysing 101" or "Why Sometimes (I'm Fine) Means (I'm Not Fine At All And You Caused It)".

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well 1. We cannot write a book called "Not Overanalyzing 101" because obviously that is all we ever do... ever. Though someone writing that book for us would be extremely helpful. 2. It seem to me you have the whole "I'm (not) fine." girl mindset thing down; get writin'!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'll start on chapter 1 : begging for forgiveness. xD

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Let me know when it's done and I will buy the first copy and over analyze every last sentence.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Seriously I would try writing this now what with that suggestion except I can't speak for all girls. >.< However, know this: If a girl says she's cold, she probably wants you to hug her. Or at least have your sweater. Although if she's asking to go somewhere warm, it could easily be neither of the above, unless she didn't ask right away. But that's just me.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

As a girl myself, even I can admit that we are way more complex-minded. It's just the nature of being. Guys recklessly think, but have more control over certain situations, they think one step at a time. Whereas girls think so complex it's like every thought is a piece of yarn in a ball...but having more thoughts/emotions means we have more negative results such as drama, insecurities, etc.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Meaning a man can get from point A to point B well aware of every processed step, and a woman gets from here to there with theories and controversies of how she got there, why she got there, and what'll happen when she gets there.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I agree with this for some guys, but not for others. The problem children here seem to be guys who are super friendly, because it's hard to tell if they're acting how most guys act if they like a girl because they like you or if they act like that to everyone. Most guys, though, are open books, and girls only get confused because they're trying to look for signs that he likes them instead of looking at his behavior realistically. Girls on the other hand...well...we can be really hard to figure out. The only consistent thing is that most girls will react well if you give them chocolate. A girl will also usually put in an extra effort to look pretty, or might start doing something different if you happened to mention you like it, if she likes you. Of course, there could be other reasons for this (homework, season, special events...the list goes on). OP, I have to say, I feel you. I thought I had guys figured out, but then I met this one...

by Anonymous 13 years ago