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If you are one of those naturally beautiful girls. No plastic surgery, or excessive makeup and sluttly clothes. But a naturally beautiful person, you really hate it. Everyone always stares. Guys either are too shy to even talk to you, or wont stop trying to pick you up. While girls hate you on sight. It's quite lonely, amirite?

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This post. Has terrible wording. And punctuation. It's almost. Unbearable. And it really. Sucks being sexy, amirite?

@DanielJames This post. Has terrible wording. And punctuation. It's almost. Unbearable. And it really. Sucks being sexy, amirite?

Couldn't have. Said it better myself. Boohoohoo, conventionally attractive people; sucks when people just give you pretty much anything you want with no effort on your part, amirite?

@Black_No_1 Couldn't have. Said it better myself. Boohoohoo, conventionally attractive people; sucks when people just give...

bahaha, the first comment made me laugh. but a lot of the drop dead gorgeous girls at my school have like no friends cuz every one just expects them to be bitches. theres not that many, but a few that ive talked to have been sooo shy but really nice and ive never see them with or talking to anybody.

@Black_No_1 Couldn't have. Said it better myself. Boohoohoo, conventionally attractive people; sucks when people just give...

It kind of does suck. We didn't ask for it, but assholes like you act like we did. Fuck off.

Anonymous -23Reply
@It kind of does suck. We didn't ask for it, but assholes like you act like we did. Fuck off.

Actually, I'm well-aware "your" looks are no achievment of your own(if anyone deserves credit, your parents do)- which is why it is absolutely the most ridiculous and invalid reason for ego. Perhaps if "you" didn't take advantage the way you usually do, and develop such a huge ego, people might be able to muster up some sympathy.

Oh boo. Stop complaining about being pretty. I'm sure it's absolutely awful to have to naturally look good all the time.

Anonymous +29Reply
@Oh boo. Stop complaining about being pretty. I'm sure it's absolutely awful to have to naturally look good all the time.

You go around for a day looking naturally good and see how it is. Could you stand the constant staring? The glares and snide remarks, people expecting you to be a bitch? People to scared to talk to you, and if you are shy, not having anyone to talk to? Could you go around only being "good looking" with nothing more to you, because hardly anyone else cares about anything but that? And this post, not once did they really complain, it was pointing out a fact.

Anonymous -17Reply
@You go around for a day looking naturally good and see how it is. Could you stand the constant staring? The glares...

I think I could stand that.
I don't think it's your looks that turn people away, it's your personality. Who wants to befriend the girl who freaks out over people looking at her? I don't expect pretty people to be bitches by the way.

Anonymous +13Reply
@I think I could stand that. I don't think it's your looks that turn people away, it's your personality. Who wants...

I don't freak out, really when I am walking and someone stares I just ignore it. How can a personality turn people away when they don't take time to get to know it? You may think you can, and yea i would too, until i had to live it, non-stop. I am not trying to be a bitch, I am trying to get my point across. I am actually a very nice person, this topic just really bugs me.

Anonymous -1Reply
@I don't freak out, really when I am walking and someone stares I just ignore it. How can a personality turn people...

The thing is however, whether or not you are talking about you this isn't right. I don't know many people who immediately think BITCH when they see a pretty girl. I'm comfortable with my self to not go into a fit of jealousy when I see a girl. Pretty girls have a lot of friends if they have a good personality. Looks aren't everything and yes, maybe people stare, but you should take it in stride. Be thankful you're pretty and get over it if it's the only thing you can find to complain about.
And honestly, your personality is turning me away right now...

Anonymous 0Reply

You pretty sure those girls don't hate you on sight because you're an arrogant bitch?
Just sayin'.

Anonymous +29Reply
@You pretty sure those girls don't hate you on sight because you're an arrogant bitch? Just sayin'.

I am not an arrogant bitch. Did I ever say it was me that looked like this? No. I pointed out what I saw happening to alot of shy nice girls who happen to be beautiful.

Anonymous -2Reply

"I'm naturally drop dead gorgeous, woe is me." Oh yeah, fyl. /sarcasm

plenty of guys are willing to befriend you, plenty of girls don't care about shallow jealousy. Do nerds get annoyed at being smart, do sporty people get pissed because there athletic? be happy with what you got because the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.

@Saigot plenty of guys are willing to befriend you, plenty of girls don't care about shallow jealousy. Do nerds get annoyed...

Nerds do get annoyed at being to smart for the general public to know what the fuck they're saying. That's why intelligent people are more likely to do drugs and not try hard in school.

Anonymous -2Reply

I really like this. It isn't like you're gloating. But not moping either. I like it (:

Ok I'm hoping that's what's up with me.

It's a hard knock life? Do you know how many people would love to be in that situation? Those girls who hate on you for being beautiful and the guys who don't talk to
you aren't worth your time anyway. If I thought I was naturally beautiful like how you described I sure as hell wouldn't get upset about stuff like that.

... conceited to the max.......

Anonymous +14Reply

Those girls who hate you on sight aren't even worth befriending if they are so judgemental. There are always those who will care about you no matter what you look like.

@Soup Those girls who hate you on sight aren't even worth befriending if they are so judgemental. There are always those...

Well it's not like those pretty girls are always so friendly. After all, in my school, the pretty girls are the popular girls, and they are all bitches and sluts(They will talk about how ugly you are and will be extra nasty in the hallways, they are to me, and I don't even talk to[or about] them!!). I know that's not how all pretty girls are, but we steer clear so we don't feel bad.

Anonymous +13Reply
@Well it's not like those pretty girls are always so friendly. After all, in my school, the pretty girls are the...

Most of the bitchy girls are pretty girls, but not all the pretty girls are bitchy girls. I hope you take that into account.

Oh yea...being sexy must be TERRIBLE.You gotta be jealous of all those ugly fucks.

Anonymous +9Reply

what kind of clothes would you consider "sluttly"?

Anonymous +6Reply
@what kind of clothes would you consider "sluttly"?

Tops that barely cover your boobs, and skirts so short you don't have to look up to see everything. Clothes that make people wonder "if you are going to wear that little, why wear anything at all?"

Anonymous +2Reply

I can honestly say I've never witnessed anything like that in my life. If anything the gorgeous girls obtain a flock around them, begging for friendship.

There are some absolutely gorgeous girls at my school... And they're popular. And they seem nice. This post is stupid.

I heard someone say something similar the other day. Enoby, I think her name was...

Anonymous +4Reply

Oh, I feel so bad for you. (Note the sarcasm.)

Anonymous +4Reply

Yeah, it REALLY sucks being pretty.

@open_mind_open_soul Yeah, it REALLY sucks being pretty.

Never said it sucked, just that it was lonely! Seriously, learn to read people!

Anonymous -2Reply
@Never said it sucked, just that it was lonely! Seriously, learn to read people!

Saying it's lonely is the same thing. You're complaining about it. Boo you, poor lonely beautiful girl. You must be a bitch if no one talks to you. Other pretty people have friends.

@open_mind_open_soul Saying it's lonely is the same thing. You're complaining about it. Boo you, poor lonely beautiful girl. You must be...

I was more stating a fact then complaining. Just thought that people should realize the beautiful girls who aren't the bitches and sluts, the nice or shy ones, often are lonely. Thanks for proving my point about judging people who look good. I must be a bitch if noone talks to me? When did I say noone talks to me? I have friends. It's more difficult to make friends when everyone always judges that you are a bitch or hates you because you look better. It's just assumed that because the person looks good life is handed to them on a silver platter, I just want to make people aware it isn't. Yes, I would rather look average then the way to do, but hey, that's me and I have had experiences that have made me decide that

Anonymous -1Reply
@open_mind_open_soul No. Just no. ALL the beautiful, non-bitchy girls I know are surrounded my friends.

Amen. Honestly, even the bitchy pretty girls I know have tons of friends. And scientifically, people like attractive people more, so this lonely thing is bullshit.

@open_mind_open_soul No. Just no. ALL the beautiful, non-bitchy girls I know are surrounded my friends.

Everyone ones version of beautiful is different, so the girls you think are beautiful could be just nice looking compared to some. Just saying. And then you must live in a good area. Where I live most girls are either goth, sluts or tomboys. So maybe a girl who looks beautiful stands out more, I don't know. Until you have lived my life, and seen how it is, please don't judge. You are talking about my personality, of which you know nothing of. I realize to many people being beautiful is the thing they aspire to be, just saying to those who are it isn't as amazing as everyone makes it out to be.

Anonymous -1Reply
@Everyone ones version of beautiful is different, so the girls you think are beautiful could be just nice looking...

You're too retarded to argue with. Seriously, you're stupid. I'm done now. Spoiled 'oh-guys-I'm-too-pretty' bitch.

@open_mind_open_soul You're too retarded to argue with. Seriously, you're stupid. I'm done now. Spoiled 'oh-guys-I'm-too-pretty' bitch.

Why is it when people have nothing to say back they always retort with insults to the person, "you're too retarded to argue with" maybe you just can't out smart me. "you're stupid" what do you base THAT assuption on? The fact we disagree? or the fact that I have an unusual opinion? I am NOT spoiled, I never said I was too pretty, and I am not a bitch. I am just defending my point.

Anonymous -3Reply
@Why is it when people have nothing to say back they always retort with insults to the person, "you're too retarded...

I'm not arguing with you any more because you repeat your same irrelevant points. And I'm getting tired of explaining why they're wrong.

@open_mind_open_soul I'm not arguing with you any more because you repeat your same irrelevant points. And I'm getting tired of...

You really don't say why they are wrong, you say no and an insult. I repeat the same points, in different ways trying to explain them so you can understand. I have made other points. And yes, often in an argument you stick to the same points, they are the one you are defending.

Anonymous -1Reply
@You really don't say why they are wrong, you say no and an insult. I repeat the same points, in different ways...

I explained why you were wrong. You restated the same thing. I'm not replying to anything else. So bye.

I agree, it must be a lot worse to be naturally pretty than to think you're ugly enough to avoid approaching because you're so self-conscious. Seriously, poor pretty people having to deal with people admiring them.

/sarcasm

Anonymous +3Reply
@I agree, it must be a lot worse to be naturally pretty than to think you're ugly enough to avoid approaching...

Admiring? HA! People don't just admire, they STARE! If you are out in public, you are constantly watched, it can get creepy. And you get alot of people who hate you, just cause you look good.

Anonymous -1Reply
@Admiring? HA! People don't just admire, they STARE! If you are out in public, you are constantly watched, it can...

Well that's better than being stared at because you have a deformity. And if people hate you, it's because you're a bitch about looking good.

Anonymous +7Reply
@Well that's better than being stared at because you have a deformity. And if people hate you, it's because you're a...

I'm not a bitch about looking good. I don't walk up to a random person on the street and say "boohoo I look good and hate it!". I just walk past them and they seem to suddenly hate me. People would call it jealous, I don't know. And yes, it is better then being stared at because you have a deformity, but really, is there a reason to stare at either? Everyone always thinks it's justifiable because the person is "hot". Guess what, staring at anyone regardless of their appearance, is rude. And judging someone by their appearance is wrong. Just because it is judging a good looking person it is okay, and I am the bitch? excuse me.

Anonymous 0Reply
@I'm not a bitch about looking good. I don't walk up to a random person on the street and say "boohoo I look good...

Honestly, people aren't looking you and "suddenly hating you". I see pretty people all the time and I don't feel any emotional attachment at all. My point is that people who complain about looking good are ungrateful; and you're pretty arrogant if you think everyone you see is staring at you and making judgements.They're not.

Anonymous +6Reply
@Honestly, people aren't looking you and "suddenly hating you". I see pretty people all the time and I don't feel...

"Suddenly hating me" no, i guess not. Yet, alot have made negitive judgements towards me before they even know me. Emotional attachment, no, I know that doesn't happen. But people judge harshly. My point is that why because someone looks good do they have to put up with stares, comments, and judgement, plus have to deal with people who seem to think it is justified. I am complaining, about how people treat and judge good looking people. Yes, sometimes I like how I look. More often, no. I have had experiences that turn me against it. I do not think everyone is staring at me, I do have eyes and can SEE that people are. The judgements, that is an assumption, but seeing the comments on this post, I can see that I was right. Yes I am fortunate to look good, I realize that. I just hate how people treat people who do look good.

Anonymous 0Reply
@I agree, it must be a lot worse to be naturally pretty than to think you're ugly enough to avoid approaching...

Omg, i recognize myself completely in what you say! I feel supported. Thank u so much. I too walk on the street and suddenly there are girls who give dirty looks and immediately give comments to their girlfriend thats walking beside them. Its SOo rude! They dont know you at all so its obvious they are yealous. Also in university the majority of the females in my group are really aggressive towards me but in a subtle way, u know, cause they dont want to be caught in the act by other people. And ppl who do like me even came up to me to tell that they talk about me and that they were together looking at my online portfolio( im a fashionmodel). But nobody ever came up to me to say, hey how nice that ur a model nice pics!! They just ignore me but stare at me when they think i cannot see it
.Besides, from the content of the comments on this site i immediately recognize if the writer is pretty herself or if shes ugly. The ugly/average pll make fun of this problem and act not understanding at all. Even jealous....

Anonymous -1Reply
@I agree, it must be a lot worse to be naturally pretty than to think you're ugly enough to avoid approaching...

Thank You! I am glad at least some people realize this or experienced this and I'm not just crazy.

Anonymous -1Reply

to bad you won't find any of those people on this site

Anonymous +2Reply

My name is Keri...

Anonymous +2Reply
@My name is Keri...

I'm so very, fly on my...

While i understand what you are saying, it's kind of...dumb. Are people really never ever happy with their lives? And honestly, youreupset cause you're pretty?

@loveyoualattexx While i understand what you are saying, it's kind of...dumb. Are people really never ever happy with their lives?...

not cuz theyre pretty... cuz the effects it brings. girls talking shit, being jealous, people expect you to be a bitch

Anonymous +1Reply

I don't think they are conceited, they aren't complaining, just saying it is kinda lonely. They aren't talking about the popular pretty girls, but the shy ones who don't know how to handle how they look. Often if you are how the op describes, then it seems like people can't see past the appearance to the personality. Yes, there are people who will, but the majority don't.

Everyone else has to deal with those problems..

Not to say "I'm beautiful so life sucks," but it is annoying when you're in shape/generally attractive but your friends have no self-confidence or they're overweight so they talk about how lucky you are and how much their life sucks.

@I know how you feel. It kinda makes you feel bad, eh?

Kind of, but not really. More awkward because I'm never sure what to say- my clothes still fit me? I don't eat as much? I talk to boys more because I go up to them, instead of waiting for them? I don't want to be rude but I want to give advice.

You sound like Bella Swan.

AnnieMcManuss avatar AnnieMcManus Yeah You Are +1Reply

It's about me

I have been TOLD I'm really pretty. They could have been just being nice, but this never happens to me. I have pleanty friends because I'm out-going. I don't know who would hate you because you're pretty. I personally think a lot of my friends are prittier than me. Sorry if that doesn't work out for you though.

Anonymous 0Reply

a lot of the really really pretty girls at my school have no friends cuz every one expects them to be stupid bitches

it's funny because this person is ugly, and wants to feel purdy.

Anonymous 0Reply

Just to clear this up, I am not trying to complain it sucks being beautiful, I am stating that it has it's downsides. Yeah, if you work really hard and exersize everyday, eat right, etc and end up looking good, then yes you would love everything that comes with the beauty you worked for. But, if you are born with it, it isn't the same. It is like money. If you work hard and get rich, so many benifits it is awesome. Yet, if you were born into it alot of the time you are concidered "spoiled bitch", "airhead heiress" or you never know if people like you for you or your money. Yeah a lot of people with money fill those categories, but not all. It isn't fair to the ones who aren't like that to be steryotyped just because they have money. I am just trying to point out the flaws of being Naturally beautiful. I also never said it was me who looked naturally beautiful. The comments on this post, prove my point of the assumptions and steryotypes made.

Anonymous 0Reply

Yeah, um, fuck you.

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