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Dear boys in the friend zone; IT'S BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT HOT, amirite?

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Well that's not nice.

there is more to a relationship than looks...

Ummm yes because a girl is gonna date every guy who's hot. You make girls look like shallow bitches. I'm pretty sure girls have A LOT of good looking guy friends who they just don't have chemistry with.

cunt...

Anonymous +22Reply

I mean, it's true, I'm not very attractive, but you don't have to be so rude about it...

Anonymous +7Reply

No, I've been told I'm pretty good looking. I just want to be great friends with a girl before I date her but apparently that's not how things work. Apparently, girls just want to date some guy they've only known for like a week or two. Every girl I have ever been "best friends" with has gotten a boyfriend and completely forgotten about me. No more friend zone for me because I'm no longer worried about "ruining our friendship."

@StickCaveman No, I've been told I'm pretty good looking. I just want to be great friends with a girl before I date her but...

I actually do the same as you! Except, it's the guys that completely forget about me and move on.
I mean, if I'm gonna be in a relationship with someone, I wanna know what their like first before just gettin' ahead of myself.

@iceeselenawiz I actually do the same as you! Except, it's the guys that completely forget about me and move on. I mean, if I'm...

I know, right? I think it takes away that awkwardness of not knowing what to say when you're first dating a person too.

@StickCaveman No, I've been told I'm pretty good looking. I just want to be great friends with a girl before I date her but...

Why do you think any relationship other than "dating" is a failure? You aren't a "nice guy" if you don't value your friendship at all and are just using it as a medium to get a date. A real nice guy actually values a woman as a person, and doesn't believe she is morally obliged to date with them as a "reward" for being nice.

If you're not worried about "ruining your friendship", as you stated in your last line, you obviously never cared about the friendship in the first place. It's just a stepping stone to sex with you, isn't it?

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@Why do you think any relationship other than "dating" is a failure? You aren't a "nice guy" if you don't value your...

I didn't ask these girls out because I liked the fact that I was friends with them and I thought that by asking them out, I would ruin the friendship. As time passed, they'd end up getting boyfriends, and we would eventually stop talking to each other. This is what ended the friendship. If I had known the friendship was just going to fade away, I would have asked these girls out myself. But no, I chose to 'save the friendship' by not expressing my feelings towards them.

It has nothing to do with sex, Mr/Ms Presumptuous. If you actually knew me, you'd realize that I'll do just about anything to maintain a strong friendship I have with someone. They were the ones who stopped communicating with me, and so that's when I ultimately decided to give up on them. Hope this answers your questions.

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improper use of a semicolon. IT'S BECAUSE YOU DON'T KNOW GRAMMAR.

Fine we'll deal with that if you stop complaining about how badly the hot bad boys treat you

Anonymous +4Reply

Guys: you won't be friend zoned if you take care of your acne. If my skin has to be flawless, so does yours. I notice this doesn't apply to everyone... oh well.

MacaroniSalads avatar MacaroniSalad Yeah You Are 0Reply

My very best friend is unbelievably good looking and I friend zoned him within a week of meeting him. My boyfriend is not "hot" at all. Call me crazy but for me, it's whether they have the same sense of humor as I do or not.

Anonymous -8Reply

Don't you people realize that a girl and a guy simply cannot be friends. A guy will not waste his time with a girl he knows he's been rejected by.

Once I asked a girl for her number, and she gave it to me, and we talked, then she started talking ABOUT HER MOTHER FUCKIN BOYFRIEND! Never talked to her again.

Anonymous -27Reply
@Don't you people realize that a girl and a guy simply cannot be friends. A guy will not waste his time with a girl...

Uh maybe YOU can't be friends with a girl because if your own selfish reasons, but girls and guys can be just friends.

@Don't you people realize that a girl and a guy simply cannot be friends. A guy will not waste his time with a girl...

Maybe if you valued the opposite gender as people, rather than just potential sex partners, you'd see that you can appreciate them in a totally platonic way?

Anonymous +2Reply

Ok, if you don't want to date them, stop leading them on!

btw, talking to a guy is considered leading on, especially if he's not attractive.

Anonymous +24Reply
@Lettuce Ok, if you don't want to date them, stop leading them on! btw, talking to a guy is considered leading on...

Talking to a guy is considered leading them on
Talking to a guy is considered leading them on
Talking to a guy is considered leading them on
Talking to a male human being /definitely/ equals flirting no matter just what you say if you just so happen to have a vagina

god forbid, I'm a fucking slut

Edit:

talking to him and being friendly, and not rejecting him if he asks you out

So, just trying to be a nice person means leading them on

okay

I do agree on the not rejecting if he asks you out part, but doesn't that make it clear he doesn't see you a friend and you'd be purposelessly leading him on? Kind of reminds me of that Facebook thing running around 4chan with "he came to see me at 12 just for my birthday with flowers and chocolateee (: I have the best friend everrr!!!".

What is the /fucking deal/ with "friendzone!!!!" lately anyway, never knew it only now started existing, geez.

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