+42 Guys: Finding a girl with all these qualities: doesn't nag, doesn't change her mind every 30 seconds, doesn't expect equal treatment one second and special treatment the next, loves you for who you are and doesn't try to 'fix' you, tells you what's wrong and doesn't expect you to 'guess', is impossible. amirite?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Needle in a haystack my friend

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You called?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I've met like two girls in my entire life who are like what you described

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Seems that someone's bitter.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Of course it's impossible. There is no "perfect" girl. Everyone on this planet is going to have some flaws. And on my opinion, being with someone who's perfect, would be kind of.. boring. Quirks are what make people different and exciting. Being with someone who does everything right all the time, every day would provide to spontaneity, no mystery. Just the same blah, every. Single. Day.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

**NO spontaneity

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Notice how all the GIRLS are voting this down. OT: They ask for everything but have nothing to return. Finding a girl with even one of these qualities is rare as it is.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

i like how the girls voted no way and the girls commenting are sayin theyre that girl.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Any girl who says they don't do any of those things are lying. All girls nag and are indecisive. Get over it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

i'm not indecisive i do nag tho i will admit that.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Don't forget bewbs.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

found her

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It annoys me how ever damn girl that says "I'm fine" and gets mad when their boyfriend doesn't notice their lies ruins that phrase for the rest of us. I zone out a lot, so I get asked, "Are you okay?" a lot, and no one ever believes me when I say I am. But I'd like to believe that I have most of those qualities (not all, I never have an opinion and can't make a decision to save my life and I always think I'm nagging too much when I'm discussing making plans with someone).

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Also, excluding my obviously perfect self, I know a lot of girls like this. Unfortunately, they always like really stupid guys.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

The problem with this is that guys hate girls that nag, so we keep our mouths shut when something is wrong, because you'll just think we're overreacting and being bitchy, when it's what we feel. Then you get upset when we DONT tell you how we feel. Get it?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I think it's obvious that no one's perfect. It's ridiculous to expect that of anyone all the time. Don't we all want special treatment at one time or another?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You could've stopped after "doesn't nag"

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Also, all you girls who are like "hehe you found her! I'm right here! I'm so perfect hehehee!" get over yourselves. You're annoying.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's also hard to find the perfect guy, haha :) not that I'm saying I don't do those things sometimes. ESPECIALLY changing my mind.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

People are so picky these days, lacking one quality and it's the end. I, as a girl, go by two rules: 1. They make me happy 2. Im attracted to them (and I dont mean only physically). The point of being with someone is to form a deeper connection than with usual people, someone who will accept your faults and adore your quirks because you both know no one is perfect and thats okay. Maybe stop looking at the things that annoy you and look at the things that dont, otherwise you wont truly be happy.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

no one is perfect get over it. you have to learn to love someone flaws and if you can't you will never appreciate the good things in her. the same goes for girls with guys. but i could also just be me being bitter because i am told all the time what a great girlfriend i would be yet i've never been asked out.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

i personally wouldnt want a girl like that. it would be too boring

by Anonymous 13 years ago

finding a guy who doesn't desire sex all the time, doesn't make sandwich jokes, who doesn't spend a ton of his time playing video games, and who doesn't act like a douche bag is hard to find. yeah, hurts when it's the other way around, doesn't it? ;)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

oh, and did i mention that you guys who are agreeing with this are most likely overlooking the girls who don't have these qualities and date the bitches who do?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

"I want to date a nice guy who likes me for who I am!" then us nice guys get friend zoned and you girls go date some douchebags. Deal with it

by Anonymous 13 years ago

^ No you obviously did not mention it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Okay I don't expect equal treatment one second than special treatment the next, I don't try to "fix" the guys I date, and I don't change my mind every 30 seconds. But I do fit the rest. I have to say, I have NEVER met a girl who has each of these qualities.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

......uh, hi there. Just gonna sit here while all of y'all ignore me.....

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'd like to think I have most or all of these qualities at least most of the time, yet I've never been asked out...You know how guys always complain about "the friend zone"? Yeah, sucks for girls too.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You forgot "attractive", "interesting to talk to" and "not a total attention whore all the time". Then you'd be right, no one with all those qualities exist.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Wow. If you're so picky you're never gonna find a girl. Everyone has flaws. You just have to learn to accept them sometimes.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Hah, I love how all girls are like "THAT'S MEE!" Yeah, I admit. I'm indecisive and probably won't tell you if I'm mad or not. But at least I admit it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I respect those who admit their faults a hell of a lot more than those who deny them.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I think pretty much everyone, guys and girls, have some of these qualities. Everyone has imperfections.. Not every girl is the stereotypical little moody bitch. Some try to be great girlfriends.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You say this, but really you just like the hot slutty girl who is bound to put out, how girls want the perfect man, but somehow end up dating ass holes then complaining about it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I think some people took this to seriously. Yes its an impossible person to find, girls are emotional as fuck, especially in relationships.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I think a lot of times when girls are indecisive it's just them not wanting to make the decision for you. Other than that, those are super annoying qualities and it's really not hard to find a girl who doesn't nag, or only like you for looks/money, etc.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

exactly... i dont want to be the sterotypical gf who has her bf whiipped and i get whatever i want despite his wants, i dont want to make them feel like i am deciding for them.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

But then I can see how it's uber annoying if we never chose. But why wouldn't they feel the same way, not wanting to be controlling? I guess it's all a game of moderation.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

they cant even be mad... it takes 2 to "what do you wanna do idk what do you wanna do?" so by default they are just as indecisive as you

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It definitely does.

by Anonymous 13 years ago