-40 friends with benefits is morally acceptable, amirite?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Oh, oops. I thought you said "unacceptable." Sorry, had too much faith in the common person's ethics.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

ethics based on what?

by Anonymous 15 years ago

Humans have built in ethics that don't have to be based on anything.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

But they are. They are based on many things. Which ethics are we talking about?

by Anonymous 15 years ago

General ethics in how to behave in society.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

Why does friends with benefits violate those?

by Anonymous 15 years ago

Relationships between people should be treated as more special than that.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

No, It messes up the Friendship. One person always gets hurt in the end.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

You can't just play with people's emotions like that. Sure, it's fun but eventually one of you will want more.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

it's not necessarily playing with people's emotions. yes, it can be, and some people do treat friends with benefits badly, but it can be perfectly fine.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Not to mention, with anything even slightly sexual, your soul and your emotions are involved much more than anyone wants to admit, or even realizes.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

here's what i dont get: if you like them enough 2 make out and stuff, why dont u like them enough 2 go out with them?

by Anonymous 15 years ago

Good Question

by Anonymous 15 years ago

I mean, I'd love to fuck a pornstar, but I wouldn't want to go out with one...

by Anonymous 14 years ago

i think it's because most people are afraid of commitment. not being together really gives you a lot less responsibly and..obligations.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

But don't you think that titles are just a bit immature? I mean, if you like eachother, you like eachother. Yay.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS FTW!!!!!!!!!!!

by Anonymous 15 years ago

-slaps your hands- No, bad.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

You guys need to lighten up and learn to live a little...lol.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

hahaha I think we could be great...friends.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

;)

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Hey Now! ;)

by Anonymous 14 years ago

haha I'm just saying.. ;)

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Oh my... :P

by Anonymous 14 years ago

sex doesn't have to be about emotions, it can be just for fun

by Anonymous 15 years ago

Well, I'm just put it out there, my ignorant little young thought- That's whorey.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I think it's just lazy.You get all the perks of a sexual relationship without all the responsibility. And yeah that SOUNDS great and all, but I think after a while it becomes unhealthy. Someone will end up getting hurt. It happened to my best friend. She was fuck buddies with some guy and was hurt when she found out about the 8 other girls. That's a problem, emotions are inevitable. And plus, what happens when you WANT to tie sex and emotions again? After being fuck buddies for long enough sex might just not mean as much anymore. And that will suck because sex is a big part of a relationship (lack of, or abundance of sex really).

by Anonymous 14 years ago

And plus, what happens when you WANT to tie sex and emotions again? well, it's a risk. any kind of relationship is.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I'm talking about personally reconnecting them. It would be an inner-self struggle.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I voted this up to make it 69.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

"Hey, I don't like you like that, but let's have sex. And then when we see each other in public, we'll just be friends." "Okay!" no

by Anonymous 14 years ago

i dont think this is bad! My bestfriend and i are like this! for the 2 or more hours that he is over we are more than bestfriends but once he leaves we go back to being bestfriends,

by Anonymous 14 years ago

that IS a relationship basically... My boyfriend is my best friend when he is away and when he is with me... but when he is with me he is also more than that. THAT is a relationship

by Anonymous 14 years ago

But thats the thing! he is YOUR boyfriend. this Kid is JUST a Best friend.. My best friend

by Anonymous 14 years ago

that IS a relationship basically... My boyfriend is my best friend when he is away and when he is with me... but when he is with me he is also more than that. THAT is a relationship

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I guess I think it's always based on the person and situation. Sometimes both people will know what they're signed up for sometimes something different will happen, it just always depends

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Lets say that a few months or weeks ago, i got out of a bad break up. I wouldn't want another boyfriend for a looooooong time But, just because i don't have boyfriend, doesn't mean I dont want to have someone i can kiss, etc. But if i'm not emotionally ready, it would make everything MUCH more complicated then just having like a fuck buddy. Maybe eventually, that person and I could evolve into something better. but if youre not emotionally ready, and you are physically ready, you gotta do what you gotta do.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I don't see much of a problem with it as long as both people agree to a set of rules they come up with and they break it off if they become emotionally attached (assuming that's something they don't want)

by Anonymous 13 years ago