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Girls: If you want guys to stop having high expectations of perfect boobs and a nice ass in a girl, maybe you should stop having high expectations of every guy being a football player or track star able to bench 250 on a rep or run a 4.7. If you say girls with small boobs can be beautiful, then so can skinny guys be attractive, amirite?
I never said I expected that.
I don't mind skinny guys... I just don't like it when they're skinnier or shorter than me I don't know why. I feel like a giant.
I feel the same way, I like having a girlfriend smaller/skinnier than me, it makes me feel like I have something to protect
Guys with rock-hard abs and huge biceps are rather creepy and not fun/comfy to cuddle with.
Who ever said that all girls prefer really strong and buff guys? The media? They're the same ones that said all guys only want girls with massive boobs and butts, and tiny waists.
So in actuality, none of us live by this, yes? So can we ignore it, please, and just be attracted to whomever we find attractive?
While we're at it, let's hold hands and sing Kumbiya.
There are a lot of people, at least at my school, who think this way. Stop thinking everyone is all nice and caring about "what's on the inside" because there are VERY few who do that and too many who care about muscles for guys and boobs for girls.
I didn't say it was what's on the INSIDE--just that different people are attracted to all kinds of body types.
It's instinctual to prefer men with muscles and girls with big breasts because stronger guys were needed to protect the women, and women with bigger breasts were more physically capable of mothering children (generally speaking). It's just been exaggerated and manipulated into this sick thing by the media.
And, of course, the media is capable of brainwashing people into thinking that they're the ONLY IMPORTANT things, in order to sell a product. So people who buy into it are more likely to go for a certain body type because they're told it's better, than one they actually prefer, themselves.
I agree, but saying none of us live like this is just bull.
That was definitely an accidental over-generalisation. I apologise.
it's cool, I actually agree with you tho
Then all is well! ...yes?
I would never date a guy who could bench 250. He clearly spends to much time in the gym (when we should be having sex)
Alright...;)
I like skinny guys... :)
I actually don't really like huge muscles, toned i like I guess but any more and it's not overly attractive to me.
I like tall/lanky, skinny and kind of goofy to be honest aha as long as a guy has an awesome sense of humour and loves me I'm happy :)
Skinny guys are well sexy.
I don't like the guys with all the muscle , but I don't like them with none. I prefer guys that are a little chubby , but are strong and can defend me.
damn it! you are speaking my language! I have a freakish metabolism so i don't really ever exercise... I'm also too preoccupied with other things to motivate myself to hit the gym... I can eat like a horse and still have tiny boney ass wrists... i'm tall and thin; you have no idea how hard it is for a guy to find 28x34 pants... Some people complain about having to lose/keep the weight off... yeah well i dare you to see what it's like to actually not be able to gain enough weight so that you wear a pant size that actually exists.
Just cuz i'm skinny and can't change it, doesn't mean i'd make for a bad boy friend. My image may not be anyone's first choice, but there's a hopeless romantic underneath, gimme a chance.
haha no way that's my size!
But I don't even like jocks..
I think you mean a 4.4, not 4.7
Repping 250 and running a 4.7 is not that hard. With dedication anything can be accomplished. Besides, if a girl has the standard of needing a "man" with muscles or she wont date you, then you're not suited for her.
@1156370 (ckwbeliever): I have a disorder to where I can't make that. I workout a lot, and I can't do that. Just because of that, I can't get some girls even though I'm like best friends with them.
Don't say things can be done with dedication and hard work.
ya? what disorder? I beat cancer going from a frail kid in junior high to a varsity football player in high school. if you're hitting a plateau that's different. If you have a muscle disorder, it doesn't kick in when you bench 235 and not 250.
saying you have a disorder is a cop out, and any girl that wont date someone singularly because of that is not worth the time.
Gastroschisis. Look at the scar on my profile pic. I can't gain muscle naturaly, I work my ASS off to be able to bench 135. Thank God for my leightweight, I can run miles and miles, but I'm not fast, or strong. I have a really lean body type, and a lot of girls aren't attracted to me because of it.
then you're going after the wrong girls. if anyone cares that you aren't how society tells you to be they are not worth it. Being fast or strong has absolutely no use in life after sports.
Yes, you're right, but that's not what the post is about, nor what I'm saying. The post and I are only talking about girls, and many girls find lack of muscle unattractive. They're my best friends, they're not bitches, they just happen to be unattracted to me.
And they aren't the wrong girls, they're really nice. I mean, you can't blame someone for not wanting a relationship with someone you aren't attracted to.
Changed it for ya.
thanks!
No problem. :>
my boyfriend is a track star, but he's not overly muscular. in fact, he's the skinniest person i've ever met in my life. he eats like a pig, too.
Sorry this post is old and I am not trying to bring it back or anything of the sort but I am NOT a girl that prefers an overly muscley guy. So yes, there are many existant girls out there who like skinny/lanky guys. On the other hand, MANY, and I mean MANY guys feel the need to always comment on girls` bodies. Sometimes, their bodies are even compared to other girls`. It`s disgusting. I`ve also seen numerous times that a guy would not date a girl because of her body type. BOOBS AND BUTTS ARE JUST SLABS OF FAT, GET OVER YOURSELVES. That is all.
Actually, not many guys. Just like if a guy says "so many girls just want some drop dead gorgeous guy", that's obviously not true. It goes both ways, it isn't a one way street.
That is true. It`s not a one-way street. I`ve seen girls drool over guys` abs and muscles and I just roll my eyes. But we can argue forever about this one point that I will bring up: it seems like more guys than girls are judgemental when it comes to outward appearance rather than inward.
WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOUR APOSTROPHES