+291 Sending a girl flowers anonymously isn't creepy, it's sweet and thoughtful, amirite?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Even if they're from some 64 year old? Pssshhhhh.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

But you don't KNOW who they're from, and you never will. All you know is that someone went out of their way to send you flowers. Still not into it?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I kind of want to do this...even though she won't ever know it was from me but it might make her smile :D

by Anonymous 14 years ago

:D Agreed! Just to make her smile...There's nothing more thoughtful than going out of your way just to make someone smile, amirite? Wow. Making the above question a post.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

hmm either do it and let the girl know who you are, or don't do it at all, unless you're planning on telling her it was from you. If I got flowers, I would want to know who they are from.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

oh and if they girl likes u, then send it to her, but not if she doesn't know u even exist. that's not how u start a relationship.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

There is a middle ground somewhere in there, you know.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

How do you explain the psychological studies that show that people tend to prefer anonymous gifts because events which are more rare or difficult to explain trigger stronger emotional reactions, and generally result in prolonging the happy feeling induced by receiving a gift? Additionally, how could anyone aware of the above fact justify choosing to make their identity known at the sacrifice of the impact of the gift and, likely, the happiness of the gift receiver? Isn't the purpose of sending a girl flowers to make her happy and, if so, why would you choose to make her LESS happy than you could by telling her (at least immediately) that you sent them?

by Anonymous 14 years ago