-138 My boyfriend and I can be deeply in love, committed, and devoted to each other even though we are only fourteen, amirite?

by Anonymous 15 years ago

wow, same here :)

by Anonymous 15 years ago

i know, he seems like the most perfect person in the world to me <3

by Anonymous 15 years ago

I felt the same way when i was your age. Then a year and a half later, i woke up and realized that i didn't love him and i wanted something else with my life. Enjoy this while it lasts, because it WON'T last forever.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

he is my second boyfriend... i went through a relationship with the first where i thought i was in love...when we broke up, a year and a half later, and i started dating my current bf, i realized i rly do love him, bc i have some serious comparison...

by Anonymous 15 years ago

don't say you love him because you're comparing him to your ex, that never works, but i can't judge your relationship with him. I hope you both have happy lives together.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

This is my first boyfriend and same with him, so we dont know what its like to be with anyone else.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

it's nice to have a comparison it puts things in perspective...

by Anonymous 15 years ago

yeah but im glad i didnt have earlier boyfriends so i cant say that the other one was better at something than the current one.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

tell me about you guys! i love hearing love stories hahahah

by Anonymous 15 years ago

I believe you really do think you're in love and you're going to be together for the rest of your life, but one or both of you are going to change a lot as you grow up and what happened to Jeskafaith is probably going to happen to you too.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

i've been through going out with a guy, and realizing what i thought was love wasnt...so now i know what it rly is....love.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

save this and reread it in 3 years.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

Who gives a shit

by Anonymous 15 years ago

LOL at hannah, errr aren't yall a bit young to be talking bout being in love?? I mean when you guys grow up and get married you'll realize that what u think is love wasn't but the idea of falling in love... Yes there is a difference. Well i guess time will tell. Enjoy it while it lasts :)

by Anonymous 15 years ago

It's always the anonymous person who speaks the truth.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

It's really hard to say if you can truly know what love is and be committed to each other at fourteen. Most fourteen year olds are definitely not mature enough to know (no offense), and this relationship will be over in a year at the max. I hope for your sake that I'm wrong.. but the likelihood of you two staying together forever is slim to none at the moment.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

i started dating the boyfriend i had before this one in 7th grade and it lasted well over a year.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

I have a friend whose older sister met her boyfriend in the sixth grade and they started going out then and now they're getting married.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

Well my sister in law dated this one guy since fifth grade and their relationship lasted for ten years. TEN. They thought they were in love and they broke up because they didn't love each other. And she met my brother and after a few months their married. Not all love lasts, it depends on weather you're ready for years of struggling and commitment. Firsts love have less than a 30 percent chance of surviving more than five years

by Anonymous 15 years ago

Yes, you can. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

well it can happen but the chances of it working out are really slim...especially since y'all are so young.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

Well when I was 12 I started dating this guy. For two 1/2 years we were togeather and we thought we were in love. And we were like you: deeply commited, best friends, etc. Now when him and I turned fifteen and went to highschool we realized we weren't in love. We grew up and matured and found out that our 'love' wasn't what we thought it was. Not even our two 1/2 year relationship survived. You might think you are in love, trust me I've been there. But deep down your not, you don't know what it is. None of us do- and we won't realize it til were a LOT older and mature. And for some, we realize it too late

by Anonymous 15 years ago

I don't mean to soud so bitchy. I mean if you think your love can survive....You have your work cut out for you, but you should keep trying. Just don't flaunt it around, otherwise you'll get alot of people on you bad side. Hope everything works out for you and your bf

by Anonymous 15 years ago

It's rare and unlikely, but it can happen.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

I met my boyfriend at 14, and we've been dating for 5 years now, but the people above are right. Your idea of love changes, the love I had for my boyfriend now is different from what it use to be, I'm just glad that it changed for the better.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

maybe, but thinking you are in love and finding out you're not can happen to *anyone* no matter your age. what i am trying to say is that people of any age can be on love. even 14.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

However much you may disagree with me, your too young to know what love is. You may care deeply for him, and someday you may actually love him, but not yet. That doesn't mean your feelings should be cast aside, they are important, and I don't mean to belittle them. But love, true love, is something rarely seen in this world. It is difficult to grasp, something to be cherished. But it takes time to build, it can be building before you ever even meet the person you will love like none before, and none again. But at age 14, it can not yet be there. Though if you care for this boy, and he for you, it could be, someday.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

that's how i always say it- not that you're in love, but that you have the potential to love, which is just as important.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

thanks, that sounds very sage:)

by Anonymous 15 years ago

This is like my boyfriend and me; we've been going out for just over 10 months and i really like him. I'm not positive its love but at this age it feels like love. Who knows we might not last forever but its the best feeling right now <3 (:

by Anonymous 14 years ago