+509 I should be able to ask my boyfriend not to talk to a girl who has made it very clear that she wants to sleep with him, and doesn't care that he has a girlfriend, amirite?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Ask him not to talk to her, but you should trust him and he should respect you.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

There's some drama behind this post...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Stop cockblocking your boyfriend

by Anonymous 13 years ago

If you don't trust him enough to not sleep with her, maybe it's time to take a good long look at your relationship with him. Just sayin'

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's not even about trust, at least not for me. If I was in this situation with my boyfriend, I would trust him not to cheat on me. However, his continuing to talk to her is only encouraging her to keep pursuing him, and also, it's a bit disrepectful of me. She's being disrespectful, and if he keeps encouraging it by talking to her, then he is also disrespecting me. On another note, I have guy friends, but i feel so guilty when they tell me they like me or something. I'm not trying to get them to like me, but it makes me feel like, did something i say or did bring this on? I don't know, it makes me feel guilty.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'd say talk to him. You don't own your boyfriend; you can't demand he don't talk to anyone, especially if said girl is a friend. Sit him down, and try to talk reasonably about this, about how you feel, about what you think the other girl's intentions are, how you're afraid he might cheat, etc.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

If you trusted him you would know that he wouldn't cheat on you. You're not his mother, you can't tell him who he can and can't talk to. Guys do have brains, they will know how to say no to this girl if she tries to have sex with him.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

In a perfect relationship, you should be able to trust your boyfriend as everyone here is telling you to do. The fact is, whether you like it or not, guys will be tempted. I think its perfectly acceptable to ask him to stop talking to her.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Whose relationship is ever perfect? Other than that, I agree with the rest of your post.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Oh no, I certainly believe no relationship is perfect. I was just exaggerating that even though you should be able to trust him, that's probably not the best thing to do seeing as how no one has a perfect relationship.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

That's not right. If you really trust him, you should be confident in him that he won't cheat. It's insulting too. Just because a girl wants to sleep with him doesn't mean that he'll go along with it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago