Not only did some fat old bald man force himself on me, now I get to be reminded of it every time I look at my child! w00t!
No. Pretty sure most girls would prefer it to have happened with someone they cared about.
You definitely wouldn't be reminded of that everytime you saw them. Maybe the first month or so, but after a while you'd love them and would be able to get past that. Cause, y'know, they're your child. You wouldn't just be like, "My child just graduated college with and is headed off to medical school, but is coming back this weekend to feed the homeless. But i hate him, because he's a rape baby and i can't even stand the sight of him."
And one advantage to having a baby rape baby (Yes, i said advantage, sue me) is, it saves you potentially years of fighting over custody. Chances are high that you AREN'T going to spend your life with your highschool sweetheart.
Yes, because every girl wants to be raped by someone they care about.
Not to mention that being raped and giving birth to the child as a teen-ager would result in an insanely amount of resentment in that chiles life...
I'm guessing this post is about the guilt you are going to feel if you have a baby with someone you like, because you MADE that choice; as opposed to someone forcing you to have that baby. In reality, though, rape is a horrible experience that noone wants to go through and the guilt of having a baby with someone you like is much less painful than rape.
Can you explain this? I don't get it, and I'm sincerely interested in how you came to this conclusion.
To anyone who doesn't get it: If you're a teen girl who's pregnant, you're going to be judged no matter what. Unless, of course, it was a rape baby; because then it wasn't your fault. But if you had it with someone you were with at the time, everyone would call you a whore and a slut. That's just how society is.
Of course, even if the girl honestly did get raped and had a baby as a result, a lot of people still might not believe her and still call her a slut, even though it wasn't her fault at all.
Personally I would definitely rather have a baby with someone I cared about, even as a teenager, than get raped and have a baby, or even get raped at all.
If a girl is not mature enough to face the consequences of her actions, then she is not mature enough to have sex.
"If a girl is not mature enough to face the consequences of her actions, then she is not mature enough to have sex." Yes, but girls still will do it, and they still get pregnant.
Yes, I was not trying to disagree with anything you said in the first comment. I was simply adding my own opinion to it. I am quite aware that girls and guys both will still have sex, even though they are not ready to handle to consequences of teenage pregnancy. My town has a rather high teenage pregnancy rate.
Of course, some people take every precaution possible and still manage to get pregnant. It just happens sometimes.
But people will still judge you as if you had completely unprotected sex, and that's just the way it is.
Yes, I know that.
I don't know how to say this in a way that won't sound offensive, but that seems like a rather selfish reason. You would rather deny your child a relationship with their father than face the consequences of your actions?
I understand what you're saying, but I don't know, I'm preettty sure if I got raped I really wouldn't be all that relieved that society wasn't judging me at that point.
The answer is...no girls really know what they want. They need a man to tell them. That's the reason for these sick rape fantasies.
Um, what the fuck is wrong with you?
Consensual sex > rape
I don't care how unprotected it is. I would rather have sex with someone willingly and get pregnant by accident than have sex by force and get pregnant by accident.
You are crazy. People will still look at you like a whore; it's not like you'll announce to the world you were raped or anything.
This is the dumbest thing I've read in a while.
This is stupid, no offense. ._.
To justify that you had a baby, your main argument is because it wasn't your fault..
That's basically the only difference; you get to avoid responsibly for not being "pure". And even then, you'd have responsibility for the child. You did say chances are, you would keep the child as opposed to the rapist. ._.