Thanks for this one - i think you may have just helped me realize how I can start to get over my ex-boyfriend! Thanks so much!
but those memories, without that person, cease to be the same. I mean, nothing fun that we do is fun in its own right, but is special because of the people we share it with. So when you miss those awesome times you had, aren't you really just missing being with certain people?
My mum has a mental disorder that makes her not be herself, she's just not the same person anymore. At the beginning it hurt me a lot because it's basically like she died and someone is in her place. But thinking about this memories thing is what helped me get through.