It is NEVER no strings to take a girl's virginity. No matter what the girl says

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I thought it wouldn't matter too, actually. But after losing it to a random guy, I couldn't help getting super attached. I tried to act like it was nothing, but it was just a bad situation. It sucked for both of us, because he couldn't help that he had no feelings for me, and I pretty much went crazy because I couldn't get over him. So... yeah that's my really awkward and sad story. Haha, I'm sure some girls can and have pulled it off, but I definitely regret it and I know he does too. So hopefully that answered some of your questions, at least!

by Anonymous 11 years ago

tl;dr

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Also, I don't understand why a guy would WANT to. As a girl, I couldn't help but feel really awkward for the guy because I had no idea what i was doing and it hurt terribly. Not to mention whole bleeding aspect..

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I know. That was just from personal experience..

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Honestly virginity is meaningless to me. Though perhaps I'll feel different once I actually lose mine.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I've never cared about virginity. When I lost mine, it wasn't like a life-changing thing for me.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Why is taking someone's virginity so much different than other sex?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

i meant for guys. why is it so much better for them

by Anonymous 11 years ago

It's supposedly tighter.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

thanks

by Anonymous 11 years ago

what how?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I have a Jewish girlfriend whom I really care for but I do not see us getting married. I sense that in the near future she will want to have sex with me but I don't know if I should take that choice away from her because I wouldn't be with her for many years or so. In effect, I'm worried about the attachment that will arise but I don't know if it's my place to take her choice away from her because I think it may hurt her in the end. Perhaps if I tell her what I feel, she'll have some input regarding this. Also, regarding the post, I'd be concerned when doing that.

by Anonymous 11 years ago