We tend to make life more complicated than necessary. There are simple solutions to our problems, but we make things complicated. Unsure if someone is mad at you? Ask if he/she is mad and if so, then talk about it. Not sure how someone is feeling? Ask him/her. Feeling upset about something someone said? Tell him/her why you feel upset instead of yelling and making more people upset. It's as simple as that, amirite?