-103 A man should stop acting like a victim when a woman hits him. It is a completely different thing compared to when a man abuses a woman. Amirite?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Theoretically not different. And if you say "it's different because men are stronger, than you're being sexist, thus making your argument invalid.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

The word you're looking for is stereotyping, not sexist. And it has been scientifically proven that most men are stronger than most women.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

a) No, I'm thinking of sexism. Nice try though. b) I know it's been proven... considering men have fucking testosterone. c) women will still bitch and complain if you tell them men are stronger, hence the reason I said what I said

by Anonymous 13 years ago

A) Sexism: discrimination or devaluation based on a person's sex, as in restricted job opportunities; especially such discrimination directed against women.Saying men are stronger than women is not saying women are inferior because of it. B) Testosterone has nothing to do with strength, it has to do with masculinity. Muscles are made of proteins, and testosterone barely, if at all, affects your muscle mass or strength. Plus, women have testosterone too. C) EDUCATED women will not bitch or complain, they will at least fucking Google it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

a) Stereotyping is discrimination, thus meaning that your previous statement about it being stereotyping as opposed to sexism is invalid. b) LOLOLOLOL testosterone doesn't effect your muscle mass? Yeah because female body builders take testosterone just because they don't want tits anymore.. c) If a woman really is educated, she sure as fuck won't have to use an internet search engine to find "facts" about certain topics. You can keep going if you'd like. I have no problem schooling you on what is and is not sexist.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

A) Stereotyping is just saying "most ____ do ____" and not acting on it. Discrimination is saying "___ are not as good as ___" and teasing/segregating because of your belief that one race/sex is less human than another. B) Testosterone does contribute to muscle mass, just not as much as you're making it seem like it does. Gay men are no less muscular (generally) than straight men, and they have less testosterone. C) Just because someone is educated doesn't mean they know everything. In this case, I meant educated as in taking the time to research something rather than jumping to conclusions, which an educated person would do, while an uneducated person would just spew nonsense.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

a) stereotyping is a form of sexism b) you just contradicted yourself. Also, gay men have less testosterone? learn some fucking science you ignorant human being. c) I meant educated as in DON'T FUCKING USE GOOGLE FOR ANSWERS. actually leave the house and talk to people who are ACTUALLY knowledgeable on a certain topic.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

A) You're just saying the same thing over again, even though I just proved you wrong. Stereotyping is not the same thing. B) I didn't contradict myself. The first time I said it barely affects it, and the second time I said it doesn't affect it as much as you're putting on. Pretty much the same thing. And yes, gay men have less testosterone. If you're a man who has older brothers, the more older brothers you have, the more likely you are to be gay, because that's just that much less testosterone you receive in the womb because your older brothers got all of it. C) Again, you just repeated the same thing you said before even though I made a point against you. You're saying that if I choose to get my information from the internet, that makes it less true than if I got it from a scientist? No, it doesn't, because it's the same information.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

a) I'm saying it because it's true. stereotyping = is a form of racism, sexism, etc. b) the first time you said it doesn't contribute much, if at all, the second time you said it does. I wasn't making it seem like it was the only factor is muscle growth. also, yeah, still trying to sound like you know what you're talking about. it has nothing to do with how much you get in the womb. It's not like your mother has a certain amount, and you just take a small portion, the human body creates testosterone. homosexuality does not affect the production of testosterone c) yes I did repeat myself here, because there's no point in looking up your shit on google. It will give you countless different answers, meaning your points are invalid.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

A) Stereotyping is assuming someone does or is something because of their race/religion/sex. Sexism is discriminating against someone or not allowing them to do something because of their race/religion/sex. So, while they ARE related, they are most definitely not the same thing. B) http://www.cracked.com/article_18693_5-bizarre-ways-your-siblings-made-you-who-you-are_p1.html C) An educated person knows how to tell if a site is credible, and how to weed out different answers and combine them with their knowledge of the outside world to get the right answer.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

a) keep arguing, stereotyping is a form of sexism. b) Not even going to bother. Try asking a fucking doctor. c) STOOOOOOOOOP reading shit online, regardless of a sites credibility. wikipedia is a credible site.. yet anyone can go type up an article full of bullshit and for a short period of time it may pass off as an actual article. Learn to go ask PEOPLE who know what the fuck their talking about as opposed to sitting online and reading garbage. I'm done arguing with you, you cannot back up any of your statements with REAL information. The point I was trying to make before being trolled was that men have just as much right to act a victim when being hit as women do. The only difference is that men who are abused by women don't speak up as much, they merely accept the abuse as opposed to reporting it. I can find you a whole internet page on it if you'd like, seeing as you tend to believe them oh so god damned much.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

AALLLLLLLLLSO nice job voting your comments up, and mine down. Troll harder.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm not going to argue with you about this point, but I'd just like to say... I didn't do that. I don't care if you believe me or not. Just thought I'd let you know...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

At least the woman can fight back.If a man fights back suddenly he's the one abusing.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

there's actually a video on youtube where a woman slaps a male police officer, so the police officer slaps her back. The comments usually consist of "THAT BITCH (woman) DESERVED IT. >:C "

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Thinking like this is why women aren't, and can't be equal. If a woman wants to hit like she's a man, then she should be hit like one, it's bullshit to let a man have to sit there getting beat up by a woman, defenseless unless someone chooses to help him. Spousal abuse is spousal abuse, whether it's from the man or the woman, in either case the victim is helpless because the man (when the woman is abusive) is a wife beater if he hits her back, and the woman (when the man is abusive) is - classically - afraid she'll be killed, or something. Long story short, don't try and say it's different when women abuse men. It's one thing when she's just playing around, but when she's really hitting him, it's the same as if he was really hitting her.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I agree. Most domestic violence is initiated by the woman. I think the quibble here is that most of the time the woman just slaps the man or punches him weakly, and most of the time men really end up hurting the woman. So yeah of course if a woman hits you and it legitimately hurts a lot, then punch her back just as hard or harder. But if she just slaps the man and it barely hurts him then he should beat the crap out of her.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

oops! Shouldn't, not should

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Abuse is abuse. There's women out there that can beat a guy's ass without even trying that hard.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

OH cause guys are the sexist dirtbags right?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

All women are good for is makin' mah dinner and poppin' out sons to take over my ego-inflated legacy. She's a delicate little flower, so of course.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You ignorant fool! Abuse goes both ways.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Notice how the OP used the word ''hits'' for the first sentence and ''abuses'' for the second. That just makes the whole statement unequal.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

well techincally, it would be abuse in both circumstances, so its truly not that unequal. They take abuse as any unwanted hands, or unwanted contact on that persons body. so, a woman HITTING a man, would still be abuse, and a man ABUSING a woman, could just be hitting.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

... The point of the comment you replied to was the fact that the original poster already made the post biased to make it sound worse in the case of a man hitting a woman.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Violence is never the answer- both ways.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm glad that spousal abuse it starting to be taken seriously in both cases, not just when a man hits a woman. My dad knows a woman who got arrested a couple of weeks ago for hitting her husband. Spousal abuse is spousal abuse. It all needs to be stopped.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's not limited to physical abuse, though. Women can be nasty bitches, and if they emotionally abuse their partner, then it's just as bad. I'm a feminist, not in the sense that I think I'm entitled to everything better than a man, but in the sense that both genders need to be on equal planes on multiple issues. This would be one of those issues.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Sometimes, it seems like emotionally abusing someone is worse. They lose all their self esteem and self worth. My horse back riding trainer was with a man who did that to her and her daughter, and treated her son really well. She finally left with the kids and neither want to see him because he was so cruel to the three of them. :| Now she's with another man and the three of them have completely changed. It's really nice to see, actually.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

That's good she got out of there. Abusive relationships of any level are horrible for all parties involved, and I wouldn't wish it on anybody.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yeah, everyone is really proud of her for leaving. She's got a good job and could've left a long time ago, but she was scared. Now she's got a good man she's engaged to and he treats those two kids like gold - especially her daughter after all the things her father has said to her.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Good, I'm glad she was strong enough to do so. Those kinds of relationships are so poisonous, but so hard to escape.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Double standards all the way. It's so vivid. What does it mean???

by Anonymous 13 years ago

To all the idiot women out here, when a man beats the shit out of you I will see what you will say after.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

What would us "idiot women" say? That it's ok for men to get beat on physically and emotionally, too? Domestic abuse is a horrible thing all across the board, and nobody should have to put up with it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

The US law states any physical violence to be abuse. It is not gender specific. By your logic, those boyfriends and husbands that are murdered or mutilated are not victims and have no rights. lolwut.

by Anonymous 12 years ago