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Love is, for the most part, a proactive choice. Almost everyone has inner beauty on some level, in the same way someone you love is beautiful to you, so which person actually winds up being as beautiful to you as they are inside mostly depends on who you choose to spend enough time with to discover that beauty. In that regard, there's no right or wrong answer. Whoever you choose to love is an okay person to love, and if you decide to stop loving them, or the other way around, that's rough, but it's still also okay. It's even okay not to choose anyone. The same reasoning applies to friendship.
Well, that's the way it used to be, but society today is much too spoiled, selfish, and narcissistic to commit to love or loyalty unless it's to their smart phone.
Rather than sacrifice and make any effort, it's easier to just walk away and find some other sucker to "hook up" with for a few weeks.
I'd rather be alone, than play that game.
RL I think you are right don't even know why these selfish things get married - except to have the party and gifts.
They get married for possession, hence selfish, until the sex gets predictable and they start getting on each other's nerves. Then they run.
Relationships take work, including keeping things interesting and exciting..
No, I have never chosen who to love, nor to stop loving them. It is an involuntary reaction.