We hate tech so much when it is even slightly slow in obeying our commands that we'll curse at it. Imagine how shameful that'd be if we treated a person like that: tech makes us abusive, amirite?

Tech has no feelings. People do.

We were abusive prior to the existence of tech.

Hmm... No tech allows us to be abusive without hurting somebody

I disagree. There's a difference between yelling at an inanimate object and yelling at a person.