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+212You'd rather someone be mad at you than disappointed in you, amirite? Also about mad and disappointed
+576When parents are mad at you, it's like "meh, whatever", but when they're disappointed in you, then it's like the world is ending, amirite?
Also about mad and disappointed
+555It's almost worse when someone says, "I'm not mad, I'm disappointed in you." At least when someone's mad, you know how to fix it, amirite?
"I just didn't expect this kind of thing from you"
I got that a lot as a kid
"I know that you're better than this."
"not only am i mad, i'm also disappointed."
You think that's hurtful, wait until someone is, sorely disappointed in you.
"I am just deeply disappointed in you" is what I got one time as a kid
What about, "I'm so mad at you for being this disappointing" ?
Anger is caused by transgression. Disappointment by failure. While in the former case you can rationalize being a rebel, the latter care only makes you a loser.