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It's not weird when boobs are pressed against you while hugging, but it is if a dick is. amirite?
by Anonymous2 years ago
It's only weird if your dick is hard.
by Anonymous2 years ago
It's also kind of weird if the boobs are hard.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Hehehehehua
by Anonymous2 years ago
This🤷🏼♀️
by Anonymous2 years ago
Putting the irrelevant comparison aside (vagina, not boobs, would be equal to dick)...boobs are literally right there on the chest. It's kinda hard not to press them against someone unless you do a side hug.
by Anonymous2 years ago
"Give me that Christian side hug"
by Anonymous2 years ago
My fav song of all time.
by Anonymous2 years ago
And well, the same thing can be said for guys. But I'm assuming the situation is if the guy gets an accident "hard on". There's nothing he can do. It's super unfortunate.
by Anonymous2 years ago
If you can do it successfully without making things more awkward, clench your thigh. If you tighten the muscles it requires more blood and draws it away from the dick and the hard goes away. Tends to work for me, I've been in this unfortunate situation before
by Anonymous2 years ago
how long was your hug lol
by Anonymous2 years ago
He doesn't know. He passed out from clenching his thigh too much.
by Anonymous2 years ago
passed out wood
by Anonymous2 years ago
Copy. Hug tighter.
by Anonymous2 years ago
all I do is side hugs with like anyone lmao
by Anonymous2 years ago
It's kinda hard not to press your dick on someone during a hug, it's just there.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Yeah, we need to worry just if the woman just rubs her vagina against you while hugging. Idk, seeems quite off
by Anonymous2 years ago
Who hugs pelvis forward 😵💫
by Anonymous2 years ago
Christian Side Hug
by Anonymous2 years ago
Boobs aren't genitals. Dicks are.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Then why are boobs treated as such? (I know they aren't, just pointing out how they are often treated the same)
by Anonymous2 years ago
People have foot fetishes, yet feet are not genitals. Boobs are just a really common fetish. They're great. Everyone loves them, including other women, and apparently a lot of gay guys, even.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Yeah but I think it'd be pretty weird if someone's feet were pressed against me during a hug…
by Anonymous2 years ago
What about in a universe where we have hot dogs for fingers so we get really good at doing things with our feet?
by Anonymous2 years ago
Or Katawa Shoujo, that one girl... the double-amputee whose name eludes me at the moment...
by Anonymous2 years ago
I read an article which describes why are boobs different than all other organs. It is said that boobs don't have any direct relation in reproduction but when they are fondled or say played with, women's body secret hormones inside of body which are only released while having sexual encounter. Having any other fetish like feet can be sexy but it doesn't secret hormones like boobs.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Interesting. Though I wonder if that could be a result of conditioning and experience over time, or if people are just naturally wired like that. Or maybe intimately touching anywhere can cause sexual arousal, and then trigger the hormonal response. Now I just have more questions than i do answers.
by Anonymous2 years ago
A woman's breasts also swell with blood during sexual arousal, just like the vulva. Human females are the only mammals that have permanent breasts regardless of pregnancy- all other female mammals just have teats. This shows that women's breasts were a part of natural selection, that our early human male ancestors were sexually aroused by females with breast tissue, and mated with them. Our male ancestors were biologically hardwired to find breasts sexually attractive, just like we do.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Boobs are not a fetish in 99% of cases.
Fetish:
"a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an ABNORMAL degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc."
by Anonymous2 years ago
Because our society is gross and objectifies women so much that anyone with female anatomy has to suffer for it
by Anonymous2 years ago
Plenty of women get fixated on boobs as well
by Anonymous2 years ago
Can confirm, am gay.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Does your girlfriend know :O
by Anonymous2 years ago
My wife is also a gay. We gay together. Double the boobs. It is like Christmas every day.
by Anonymous2 years ago
No one is sad on Titmas
by Anonymous2 years ago
Chad
by Anonymous2 years ago
Yea, it's almost like women are also indoctrinated into that society
by Anonymous2 years ago
Women can be agents of patriarchy as men can. It's a system - not specific behaviours that men do to women.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Imagine telling queer women that the only reason they find women attractive is because they are agents of the patriarchy.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Plastic boobies are patriarchy?
by Anonymous2 years ago
Everything is the patriarchy to people who use phrases like "agents of patriarchy".
It can't just be "treat everyone equal", it's "men, specifically, ruined the world, even when women are doing it". That's how you know it's not about equality.
by Anonymous2 years ago
To be fair, men have ruled the world for a long time and it's still a struggle in many ways to come away from that.
But yeah these agents of woke are doing more damage than good with their extremism.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Well yea. Women are part of society as well, they can contribute to sexism, just as well as men
by Anonymous2 years ago
It's not gross that men are attracted to parts of women's body's, that they're biologically designed to be attracted to.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Attraction is actually a conditional factor and not necessarily a biologically inherited one. Hence why we no longer go weak at the knees for a woman's neck or ankles. If society normalised women's breasts like we have men's, there would be a decline in sexual attraction towards them. This isn't to say we wouldn't care for them anymore, but they would be about as attractive as a jawline or muscle tone. The sexual link would be broken.
by Anonymous2 years ago
No one is saying you can't be attracted to boobs, and not be gross... We are saying that the amount of negative attention the female body gets, simply for being there, is bad
by Anonymous2 years ago
I just say let all the boobs out.... Like max people will stare for a month and then it will be normalized.....
by Anonymous2 years ago
Bare breasts would never be "normalized." Straight men are hardwired to be be sexually attracted to women's breasts.
by Anonymous2 years ago
They can be because I've gone to nude beaches and even though everyone is boobs out naked, it's considered normal.... Like, yeah, I was fascinated for the first 5 boobs I saw, then it was all normal
by Anonymous2 years ago
Odd number of boobs
by Anonymous2 years ago
eh I'm more of a butt man
by Anonymous2 years ago
I love it all, but I'm definitely a leg and ass man.
by Anonymous2 years ago
We're not really hardwired to love breasts; it's just socialization. Other people prefer butts, or toesies.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Men are hardwired to love breasts. Human females are the only mammals with permanently enlarged breasts, regardless of pregnancy. All other female mammals have teats. This is due to natural selection. Proto human males were sexually attracted to females with breast tissue and mated with them.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Interesting, but im gonna need a good vetted source for that first claim then
>straight men are hardwired to be be sexually attracted to women's breasts
by Anonymous2 years ago
Because if they weren't, women with permanently enlarged breast wouldn't have gotten an advantage in the sexual selection process in litteraly every cultures and ethnicities.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Well this is why your not god(you'd be v boring), there are countless unimaginable possibilitys why would it be the one you think is right? Your some person living 10000+ year after the event with no evidence and you barely have an imagination , just keep an open mind & know on things like this no one can be right
by Anonymous2 years ago
You say this as if gay women aren't also attracted to them??
by Anonymous2 years ago
I spoke from my point of view, as a straight man. I never meant to exclude gay women.
by Anonymous2 years ago
As if men are never objectified I can flaunt my dick everywhere
by Anonymous2 years ago
Umm, boobs are a sexual organ….biologically speaking. Humans are wired that way
by Anonymous2 years ago
boobs are permanent on humans specifically because they're meant to be attractive.
by Anonymous2 years ago
>on humans specifically because they're meant to be attractive.
Lmao, no. Most likely they're permanent to signal sexual maturity in a female human. Mens chest stick out a little bit too, though not as prominent.
by Anonymous2 years ago
>to signal sexual maturity in a female human
Isn't that almost the same thing? Aren't "traits that signal sexual maturity/fitness" exactly the things that humans are hardwired to find sexually attractive?
by Anonymous2 years ago
No. Leg, armpit, and pubic hair would also be signals of sexual maturity and at least by social conditioning we don't find that attractive.
Beards are a signal of sexual maturity for human males but a lot of women don't find those attractive. Same thing with a guys balls.
by Anonymous2 years ago
They are not treated as such. It is just the messed up american world-view where boobs are somehow taboo.
The rest of the world doesn't really make such a big deal out of boobies. Unless to point out how nice they are.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Pretty sure America inherited that taboo from the UK
by Anonymous2 years ago
Because of an oversexual, and sexist society
by Anonymous2 years ago
Because they can feed the offspring and carry on the species into the next generation. They are a visual indicator of fertility.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Yeah free the nips
by Anonymous2 years ago
Also the size of boobs don't change when you get aroused and dicks do. And boobs are (normally) able to be felt in a hug when the owner is not aroused whereas dicks aren't.
It's not the fact the dick is present that is the problem, it's the connotation behind why you can feel it.
by Anonymous2 years ago
also, a hard dick sends a different message but some women will push their boobs into a shoulder or arm or elbow on purpose so idk what i'm talking about
by Anonymous2 years ago
No one said anything about a hard dick. Just soft ones. If you feel it, the person will back away automatically
by Anonymous2 years ago
Breasts aren't genitals but they're sexual body parts.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Why do nearly all women want their breasts to get attention during sex, opposed to say their big toe?
Why do you consider a penis's only function to be related to sex considering it is used for other things about 10000% more?
The only bit of human anatomy dedicated solely to sexual pleasure is the clitoris.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Apparently nipples are genitals, but not boobs.
by Anonymous2 years ago
It'd be weird if a vagina was pressed against you while hugging which I think is a better comparison
by Anonymous2 years ago
Scissor hug.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Taco Tap?
by Anonymous2 years ago
I just got an image of people randomly scissor hugging in public lol
by Anonymous2 years ago
Well it isn't that weird I mean unlike the penis it doesn't wrap around the leg threatening your safety
by Anonymous2 years ago
I was think more of the way a girl would have to hug you to have it pressed against you, they'd have to straddle your leg or something
by Anonymous2 years ago
Oh yes yeah I was on the same page definitely
by Anonymous2 years ago
Penises can wrap around legs!? 🫣
by Anonymous2 years ago
Your's doesnt?
by Anonymous2 years ago
Not last time I checked ☹️
by Anonymous2 years ago
There there, I hear your condition is rare and not genetic.
by Anonymous2 years ago
you know those corners on a desk?
by Anonymous2 years ago
Well, you don't have arms on your hips, so there's no need to thrust anyone with your dick or or vagina when hugging.
by Anonymous2 years ago
I get weirded out when any body part of another person is pressed against me.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Air hug.
by Anonymous2 years ago
There's all those studies about human contact being really important for survival, but there are still a fair amount of people who just prefer not to be touched. We are a very wide spectrum of species.
by Anonymous2 years ago
I was in that group that didn't want any physical contact for a while. Then I started getting more accustomed to it gradually and now I enjoy a casual hug and such.
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I think this has to do with the fact that I wasn't really touched as a child. My parents were not too open with their affection. That doesn't mean I never required it, I was simply trained to find it alien.
by Anonymous2 years ago
why does everyone like comparing breasts to genitals
by Anonymous2 years ago
It's not as weird if you line them up
by Anonymous2 years ago
That's why they got the christian side hug! For rough riders with Christ love.
by Anonymous2 years ago
I disagree. When hugging another woman I intentionally crouch so there is no boobie contact; conversely I lean into the crotch of men when hugging. This was all a joke, except the boobie part
by Anonymous2 years ago
Dicks can be used as a weapon. Boobs can't.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Yea, it's also weird if someone presses their vagina against you when hugging, which is a much better comparison that actually makes sense.
by Anonymous2 years ago
are boobs genitals? big NO
by Anonymous2 years ago
Double standard friend.
by Anonymous2 years ago
no it's not, you're imagining it
by Anonymous2 years ago
Gotta go with the ass-out hug unless it's your SO
by Anonymous2 years ago
You must be a bro
by Anonymous2 years ago
It's only weird if you're not into dick. Maybe you should consider not hugging dicks if that's the case.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Well, nobody's groin area should be touching at all when hugging... If you do that you're doing it wrong 😅
by Anonymous2 years ago
Boobs are just bags of skin.
by Anonymous2 years ago
wat
by Anonymous2 years ago
bags of sand.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Like, bags of sand.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Depends on who we're hugging.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Boobs are typically (when not being sexualized) associated with comfort. Dicks, not so much.
by Anonymous2 years ago
If it's her dick, it's gonna be interesting.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Because dick only press against things if it have a boner
by Anonymous2 years ago
If a woman presses her boobs against a man while hugging, the resulting dick pressed against her is kinda her fault. :)
by Anonymous2 years ago
How? Are we supposed to detach them or something so that its more appropriate for you?
by Anonymous2 years ago
More sleazy predators with dicks than boobs. Go figure.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Boobs have sexual connotations because we (speaking from an American perspective) as a patriarchal society decided they do.
A dick is a literal sex organ. that's the point of it, that's why it's there.
by Anonymous2 years ago
I like boobs in my face much more than dick
by Anonymous2 years ago
Boobs you are expecting bc you can see them, a dick is a little more of a surprise.
by Anonymous2 years ago
I mean if it was erect sure
by Anonymous2 years ago
speak for yourself....
by Anonymous2 years ago
I'm completely uncomfortable letting anyone besides my kids and spouse hug me with my breast pressed against them . Either a side hug or hand shake depending on who it is
by Anonymous2 years ago
I wish I'd known this sooner
by Anonymous2 years ago
Boobs are always boobs no matter what state the woman is in. If you feel dick…. someone's REALLY excited to see you.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Boobs don't go *sproing* when people are horny, dicks do
If you can feel a dick pressing into you, the dick's owner probably wants to bone you and that realization is probably awkward
by Anonymous2 years ago
I feel lucky to be tall enough and able to hug someone with getting really close ...
by Anonymous2 years ago
Especially if they all are from the same person
by Anonymous2 years ago
Because boobs are just there and you cant do much about them meanwhile the cock you can feel it mostly when youre hard.
by Anonymous2 years ago
Men's breasts also press against you during hugs. Have you found this weird, OP?
by Anonymous2 years ago
Can women feel our dicks during a hug?
by Anonymous2 years ago
Well yeah that implies the other person is aroused if you feel a dick while hugging someone. Boobs are just there and don't get bigger or smaller depending on arousal, so it's normal.
by Anonymous2 years ago
If you were to feel hard nipples, it's also weird.
Get the difference now?
by Anonymous2 years ago
Brought to you by: ✨Someone with a dick✨
by Anonymous2 years ago
i kind of get why it's weird for a dick, but idk. folks with dicks get erections for completely nonsexual reasons all the time as far as i understand. it's involuntary. so while i would be weirded out by it, i wouldn't assume the person with their erection pressing against me was inherently some kind of creep or pervert.
… at least i would try not to assume LOL
by Anonymous2 years ago
I've never noticed a dick pressed against me… doesn't it seem like if you do, you're hugging wrong? Lol
by Anonymous2 years ago
What about boobs AND a dick?
by Anonymous2 years ago
You definetly never had a fat friend
by Anonymous2 years ago
Well, I am kinda fat… :-(
by Anonymous2 years ago
Wtf kind of power-thrust, "my dick walks through the room before me", pelvis pulverize hugs are you doing, my dude? I dig it
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