It's not weird when boobs are pressed against you while hugging, but it is if a dick is. amirite?

It's only weird if your dick is hard.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

It's also kind of weird if the boobs are hard.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Hehehehehua

by Anonymous 1 year ago

This🤷🏼‍♀️

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Putting the irrelevant comparison aside (vagina, not boobs, would be equal to dick)...boobs are literally right there on the chest. It's kinda hard not to press them against someone unless you do a side hug.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

"Give me that Christian side hug"

by Anonymous 1 year ago

My fav song of all time.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

And well, the same thing can be said for guys. But I'm assuming the situation is if the guy gets an accident "hard on". There's nothing he can do. It's super unfortunate.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

If you can do it successfully without making things more awkward, clench your thigh. If you tighten the muscles it requires more blood and draws it away from the dick and the hard goes away. Tends to work for me, I've been in this unfortunate situation before

by Anonymous 1 year ago

how long was your hug lol

by Anonymous 1 year ago

He doesn't know. He passed out from clenching his thigh too much.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

passed out wood

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Copy. Hug tighter.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

all I do is side hugs with like anyone lmao

by Anonymous 1 year ago

It's kinda hard not to press your dick on someone during a hug, it's just there.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Yeah, we need to worry just if the woman just rubs her vagina against you while hugging. Idk, seeems quite off

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Who hugs pelvis forward 😵‍💫

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Christian Side Hug

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Boobs aren't genitals. Dicks are.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Then why are boobs treated as such? (I know they aren't, just pointing out how they are often treated the same)

by Anonymous 1 year ago

People have foot fetishes, yet feet are not genitals. Boobs are just a really common fetish. They're great. Everyone loves them, including other women, and apparently a lot of gay guys, even.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Yeah but I think it'd be pretty weird if someone's feet were pressed against me during a hug…

by Anonymous 1 year ago

What about in a universe where we have hot dogs for fingers so we get really good at doing things with our feet?

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Or Katawa Shoujo, that one girl... the double-amputee whose name eludes me at the moment...

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I read an article which describes why are boobs different than all other organs. It is said that boobs don't have any direct relation in reproduction but when they are fondled or say played with, women's body secret hormones inside of body which are only released while having sexual encounter. Having any other fetish like feet can be sexy but it doesn't secret hormones like boobs.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Interesting. Though I wonder if that could be a result of conditioning and experience over time, or if people are just naturally wired like that. Or maybe intimately touching anywhere can cause sexual arousal, and then trigger the hormonal response. Now I just have more questions than i do answers.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

A woman's breasts also swell with blood during sexual arousal, just like the vulva. Human females are the only mammals that have permanent breasts regardless of pregnancy- all other female mammals just have teats. This shows that women's breasts were a part of natural selection, that our early human male ancestors were sexually aroused by females with breast tissue, and mated with them. Our male ancestors were biologically hardwired to find breasts sexually attractive, just like we do.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Boobs are not a fetish in 99% of cases. Fetish: "a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an ABNORMAL degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc."

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Because our society is gross and objectifies women so much that anyone with female anatomy has to suffer for it

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Plenty of women get fixated on boobs as well

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Can confirm, am gay.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Does your girlfriend know :O

by Anonymous 1 year ago

My wife is also a gay. We gay together. Double the boobs. It is like Christmas every day.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

No one is sad on Titmas

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Chad

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Yea, it's almost like women are also indoctrinated into that society

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Women can be agents of patriarchy as men can. It's a system - not specific behaviours that men do to women.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Imagine telling queer women that the only reason they find women attractive is because they are agents of the patriarchy.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Plastic boobies are patriarchy?

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Everything is the patriarchy to people who use phrases like "agents of patriarchy". It can't just be "treat everyone equal", it's "men, specifically, ruined the world, even when women are doing it". That's how you know it's not about equality.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

To be fair, men have ruled the world for a long time and it's still a struggle in many ways to come away from that. But yeah these agents of woke are doing more damage than good with their extremism.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Well yea. Women are part of society as well, they can contribute to sexism, just as well as men

by Anonymous 1 year ago

It's not gross that men are attracted to parts of women's body's, that they're biologically designed to be attracted to.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Attraction is actually a conditional factor and not necessarily a biologically inherited one. Hence why we no longer go weak at the knees for a woman's neck or ankles. If society normalised women's breasts like we have men's, there would be a decline in sexual attraction towards them. This isn't to say we wouldn't care for them anymore, but they would be about as attractive as a jawline or muscle tone. The sexual link would be broken.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

No one is saying you can't be attracted to boobs, and not be gross... We are saying that the amount of negative attention the female body gets, simply for being there, is bad

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I just say let all the boobs out.... Like max people will stare for a month and then it will be normalized.....

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Bare breasts would never be "normalized." Straight men are hardwired to be be sexually attracted to women's breasts.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

They can be because I've gone to nude beaches and even though everyone is boobs out naked, it's considered normal.... Like, yeah, I was fascinated for the first 5 boobs I saw, then it was all normal

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Odd number of boobs

by Anonymous 1 year ago

eh I'm more of a butt man

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I love it all, but I'm definitely a leg and ass man.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

We're not really hardwired to love breasts; it's just socialization. Other people prefer butts, or toesies.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Men are hardwired to love breasts. Human females are the only mammals with permanently enlarged breasts, regardless of pregnancy. All other female mammals have teats. This is due to natural selection. Proto human males were sexually attracted to females with breast tissue and mated with them.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Interesting, but im gonna need a good vetted source for that first claim then >straight men are hardwired to be be sexually attracted to women's breasts

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Because if they weren't, women with permanently enlarged breast wouldn't have gotten an advantage in the sexual selection process in litteraly every cultures and ethnicities.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Well this is why your not god(you'd be v boring), there are countless unimaginable possibilitys why would it be the one you think is right? Your some person living 10000+ year after the event with no evidence and you barely have an imagination , just keep an open mind & know on things like this no one can be right

by Anonymous 1 year ago

You say this as if gay women aren't also attracted to them??

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I spoke from my point of view, as a straight man. I never meant to exclude gay women.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

As if men are never objectified I can flaunt my dick everywhere

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Umm, boobs are a sexual organ….biologically speaking. Humans are wired that way

by Anonymous 1 year ago

boobs are permanent on humans specifically because they're meant to be attractive.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

>on humans specifically because they're meant to be attractive. Lmao, no. Most likely they're permanent to signal sexual maturity in a female human. Mens chest stick out a little bit too, though not as prominent.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

>to signal sexual maturity in a female human Isn't that almost the same thing? Aren't "traits that signal sexual maturity/fitness" exactly the things that humans are hardwired to find sexually attractive?

by Anonymous 1 year ago

No. Leg, armpit, and pubic hair would also be signals of sexual maturity and at least by social conditioning we don't find that attractive. Beards are a signal of sexual maturity for human males but a lot of women don't find those attractive. Same thing with a guys balls.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

They are not treated as such. It is just the messed up american world-view where boobs are somehow taboo. The rest of the world doesn't really make such a big deal out of boobies. Unless to point out how nice they are.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Pretty sure America inherited that taboo from the UK

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Because of an oversexual, and sexist society

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Because they can feed the offspring and carry on the species into the next generation. They are a visual indicator of fertility.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Yeah free the nips

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Also the size of boobs don't change when you get aroused and dicks do. And boobs are (normally) able to be felt in a hug when the owner is not aroused whereas dicks aren't. It's not the fact the dick is present that is the problem, it's the connotation behind why you can feel it.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

also, a hard dick sends a different message but some women will push their boobs into a shoulder or arm or elbow on purpose so idk what i'm talking about

by Anonymous 1 year ago

No one said anything about a hard dick. Just soft ones. If you feel it, the person will back away automatically

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Breasts aren't genitals but they're sexual body parts.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Why do nearly all women want their breasts to get attention during sex, opposed to say their big toe? Why do you consider a penis's only function to be related to sex considering it is used for other things about 10000% more? The only bit of human anatomy dedicated solely to sexual pleasure is the clitoris.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Apparently nipples are genitals, but not boobs.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

It'd be weird if a vagina was pressed against you while hugging which I think is a better comparison

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Scissor hug.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Taco Tap?

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I just got an image of people randomly scissor hugging in public lol

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Well it isn't that weird I mean unlike the penis it doesn't wrap around the leg threatening your safety

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I was think more of the way a girl would have to hug you to have it pressed against you, they'd have to straddle your leg or something

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Oh yes yeah I was on the same page definitely

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Penises can wrap around legs!? 🫣

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Your's doesnt?

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Not last time I checked ☹️

by Anonymous 1 year ago

There there, I hear your condition is rare and not genetic.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

you know those corners on a desk?

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Well, you don't have arms on your hips, so there's no need to thrust anyone with your dick or or vagina when hugging.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I get weirded out when any body part of another person is pressed against me.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Air hug.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

There's all those studies about human contact being really important for survival, but there are still a fair amount of people who just prefer not to be touched. We are a very wide spectrum of species.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I was in that group that didn't want any physical contact for a while. Then I started getting more accustomed to it gradually and now I enjoy a casual hug and such.  I think this has to do with the fact that I wasn't really touched as a child. My parents were not too open with their affection. That doesn't mean I never required it, I was simply trained to find it alien.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

why does everyone like comparing breasts to genitals

by Anonymous 1 year ago

It's not as weird if you line them up

by Anonymous 1 year ago

That's why they got the christian side hug! For rough riders with Christ love.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I disagree. When hugging another woman I intentionally crouch so there is no boobie contact; conversely I lean into the crotch of men when hugging. This was all a joke, except the boobie part

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Dicks can be used as a weapon. Boobs can't.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Yea, it's also weird if someone presses their vagina against you when hugging, which is a much better comparison that actually makes sense.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

are boobs genitals? big NO

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Double standard friend.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

no it's not, you're imagining it

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Gotta go with the ass-out hug unless it's your SO

by Anonymous 1 year ago

You must be a bro

by Anonymous 1 year ago

It's only weird if you're not into dick. Maybe you should consider not hugging dicks if that's the case.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Well, nobody's groin area should be touching at all when hugging... If you do that you're doing it wrong 😅

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Boobs are just bags of skin.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

wat

by Anonymous 1 year ago

bags of sand.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Like, bags of sand.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Depends on who we're hugging.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Boobs are typically (when not being sexualized) associated with comfort. Dicks, not so much.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

If it's her dick, it's gonna be interesting.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Because dick only press against things if it have a boner

by Anonymous 1 year ago

If a woman presses her boobs against a man while hugging, the resulting dick pressed against her is kinda her fault. :)

by Anonymous 1 year ago

How? Are we supposed to detach them or something so that its more appropriate for you?

by Anonymous 1 year ago

More sleazy predators with dicks than boobs. Go figure.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Boobs have sexual connotations because we (speaking from an American perspective) as a patriarchal society decided they do. A dick is a literal sex organ. that's the point of it, that's why it's there.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I like boobs in my face much more than dick

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Boobs you are expecting bc you can see them, a dick is a little more of a surprise.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I mean if it was erect sure

by Anonymous 1 year ago

speak for yourself....

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I'm completely uncomfortable letting anyone besides my kids and spouse hug me with my breast pressed against them . Either a side hug or hand shake depending on who it is

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I wish I'd known this sooner

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Boobs are always boobs no matter what state the woman is in. If you feel dick…. someone's REALLY excited to see you.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Boobs don't go *sproing* when people are horny, dicks do If you can feel a dick pressing into you, the dick's owner probably wants to bone you and that realization is probably awkward

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I feel lucky to be tall enough and able to hug someone with getting really close ...

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Especially if they all are from the same person

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Because boobs are just there and you cant do much about them meanwhile the cock you can feel it mostly when youre hard.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Men's breasts also press against you during hugs. Have you found this weird, OP?

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Can women feel our dicks during a hug?

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Well yeah that implies the other person is aroused if you feel a dick while hugging someone. Boobs are just there and don't get bigger or smaller depending on arousal, so it's normal.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

If you were to feel hard nipples, it's also weird. Get the difference now?

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Brought to you by: ✨Someone with a dick✨

by Anonymous 1 year ago

i kind of get why it's weird for a dick, but idk. folks with dicks get erections for completely nonsexual reasons all the time as far as i understand. it's involuntary. so while i would be weirded out by it, i wouldn't assume the person with their erection pressing against me was inherently some kind of creep or pervert. … at least i would try not to assume LOL

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I've never noticed a dick pressed against me… doesn't it seem like if you do, you're hugging wrong? Lol

by Anonymous 1 year ago

What about boobs AND a dick?

by Anonymous 1 year ago

You definetly never had a fat friend

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Well, I am kinda fat… :-(

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Wtf kind of power-thrust, "my dick walks through the room before me", pelvis pulverize hugs are you doing, my dude? I dig it

by Anonymous 1 year ago