I think that "being comfortable with your solitude" means loving yourself enough to the point you enjoy things even if there's no one around to share them with.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

in all seriousness no facetiousness what are the benefits of being "totally vulnerable" with someone? like what are the actual inherent benefits of vulnerability ? being vulnerable has negatively affected my life literally every time

by Anonymous 2 years ago

I'm not really even sure what "vulnerable" means in this context. I've heard it in connection to being in therapy, being forthcoming with your feelings, etc., but I'm not sure how that equates to being "vulnerable".

by Anonymous 2 years ago

I mean those are pretty good examples of emotional vulnerability, I just dont get it tho. literally everytime ive been vulnerable w someone it either made no difference at all or I regretted it lol

by Anonymous 2 years ago

What I mean is, how do those things make a person vulnerable? What are you vulnerable to, in those cases?

by Anonymous 2 years ago

It's a different ratio for everyone, but probably most people need a mix. I'm not sure I've heard anyone advocating that we don't actually *need* other people around.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

I'm very comfortable to my solitude, in fact, I prefer that to being with some people - not all, but some - like the ones who have an opinion on everything and their opinion is the only one that counts.

by Anonymous 2 years ago