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I don't think being comfortable with your solitude is the way to being actually happy. amirite?
by Anonymous1 year ago
I think that "being comfortable with your solitude" means loving yourself enough to the point you enjoy things even if there's no one around to share them with.
by Anonymous1 year ago
in all seriousness no facetiousness what are the benefits of being "totally vulnerable" with someone? like what are the actual inherent benefits of vulnerability ?
being vulnerable has negatively affected my life literally every time
by Anonymous1 year ago
I'm not really even sure what "vulnerable" means in this context. I've heard it in connection to being in therapy, being forthcoming with your feelings, etc., but I'm not sure how that equates to being "vulnerable".
by Anonymous1 year ago
I mean those are pretty good examples of emotional vulnerability, I just dont get it tho. literally everytime ive been vulnerable w someone it either made no difference at all or I regretted it lol
by Anonymous1 year ago
What I mean is, how do those things make a person vulnerable? What are you vulnerable to, in those cases?
by Anonymous1 year ago
It's a different ratio for everyone, but probably most people need a mix. I'm not sure I've heard anyone advocating that we don't actually *need* other people around.
by Anonymous1 year ago
I'm very comfortable to my solitude, in fact, I prefer that to being with some people - not all, but some - like the ones who have an opinion on everything and their opinion is the only one that counts.
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