+140 I hate dyed hair with a passion, amirite?

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Do you like flattering clothes? Makeup? Just wondering. I get the aging gracefully thing. I'm not going grey I just like being lighter blonde. But I do think natural beauty is even more beautiful on some people.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

I started going gray at 26. Hell, no. Judge me all you want, but it's been dyed for 20+ years.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

What a strange thing to hate. I'm sure plenty of people have no problem with their hair greying but just prefer having a different color (like a natural blonde wanting to be brunette or vice versa).

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Weird.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Well at least you admit it's an irrational judgment. May those people proceed to live their lives with vibrancy and joy. I hope they never allow some random petty judgment to decide for them.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

How do you know someone has dyed hair? Some are noticeable for sure, but I would say the majority of women I know have pretty good dye jobs and keep up with touch ups. At what age do you start to assume a woman would be grey?

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Well if Op assumes that a person's hair is dyed I'm sure that's enough reason to judge them, right?

by Anonymous 2 years ago

You're right. So silly of me to doubt OP's all knowing eye

by Anonymous 2 years ago

They probably don't like "unnatural hair colors"

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Do you also hate non skin colored clothes?

by Anonymous 2 years ago

all my shirts have realistic navels & nipples drawn on them

by Anonymous 2 years ago

-OP probably

by Anonymous 2 years ago

What a weird thing to care about

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Why do you judge people with unnatural colors though? Clearly that has nothing to do with fear of aging or anything.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

I hate the unnatural colors. It makes everyone look so washed out and pasty like they just lost a lot of blood.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Maybe people are just naturally curious and want to experiment with their appearance because life is short? Whether someone keeps their natural hair colour their whole life or have a rainbow on their head, why should this concern you? This goes for before and after the hair going grey. I never understood why dying your hair after it naturally turns grey is seen as trying to fool yourself and others. You can age with dignity and still prefer to wear coloured hair.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

> but it really does make me irrationally upset. You are absolutely correct, it is irrational.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

It's definitely an unpopular opinion, I don't go around sharing it with folks. I just think there is a lot of value in accepting your body how it is and learning to appreciate your natural hair color.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

You must not get laid alot

by Anonymous 2 years ago

You're assuming a lot about people. Many people dye their hair to try different styles it's no different than tanning (except that it's less unhealthy by a large margin) or makeup. Maybe you think you would look better as a blonde or with red hair and age has nothing to do with it.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

It never looks better than natural

by Anonymous 2 years ago

i'm alright with it. i don't really care what other people do with their appearance.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Ok boomer

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Blonde and brown are fine tho. Everything else looks stupid asf

by Anonymous 2 years ago

I just hate having dirty blonde hair, if I go grey I go grey 🤷‍♀️ but I despise my natural hair colour (on me). I don't know anyone in my personal circle who's actually scared of going grey! We just like dying our hair for various reasons

by Anonymous 2 years ago

I started going gray when I was 12 and died my hair for years. Meh. Love my gray now but it took a while to adjust.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

To each their own but this is a weird thing to have irrational anger over lol. Am I happy about my grey hairs that seem extra kinky compared to my normal curly hairs? Not really, but I do love burgundy hair and it happens to cover the greys. So how do you feel about women who dye their hair grey? Is that ok? Or does that push your button extra hard??

by Anonymous 2 years ago