+183 Kids and marriage should be talked about before dating or on a first date, amirite?

by Anonymous 1 year ago

No, that is a red flag if someone wants to discuss the distant future on a first date or before.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

My wife and I discussed whether we were wanted to get married or have children in the future on our first date. It wasn't a committment, it just was a way to prevent wasting eachother's time. There is nothing wrong with discussing relationship goals on the first date.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Dude its called long term planning for a reason!

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I agree. Or having kids and wanting to date someone, who doesn\'t want to be a step-parent.

by Anonymous 1 year ago