> alright, so entertain me, and maybe you will be lucky enough to meet me.. Lol, I've seen some girls on dating apps having similar lines in bio. They are bored because men who write them aren't original. And men aren't original because they write to a lot of women, because that's the only way to be at least somewhat productive. Basically, dating apps are designed to keep us grinding, and never finding anyone. That'd also be more profitable

by Anonymous 2 years ago

It's a numbers game. You're right too.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Then when you put effort into a message the woman accuses you of copy+pasting the message to everyone because they can't believe you actually put effort in.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Unfortunately its cuz a lot of guys do that. They ruin it for the rest of you

by Anonymous 2 years ago

My dog's name is Freya.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Kind of like medicine. If everything was curable then the money would be almost nonexistent

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Not exactly. Dating isn't supposed to be that complicated. Healthcare is very complicated

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Pfft, not according to Avril Lavigne.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Had to google =(

by Anonymous 2 years ago

it's not like the women are original themselves or write anything original. chatgpt can write better bios than 99% of women on dating apps.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

ChatGPT can get more girls than any man, either. Dating apps are cringe

by Anonymous 2 years ago

"I want a good conversationalist." = "I will only respond in one word sentences."

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Ever since I figured out what it's supposed to feel like when the other person reciprocates. It's super frustrating how little that happens.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Yep. The harsh truth is most (key word: most, not all) women on dating apps expect men to do all the work in talking and if they don't impress right away, will ignore them for the 10 other guys lining up to talk to her.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

I had a 3 question rule when talking to women on dating apps. I will only invest up to 3 questions at a time to keep the conversation going. But once I'm 3 attempts deep and have only gotten boring / low effort responses I just leave the situation.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

That's not a bad rule.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

The only time I got ghosted was because I refused to give him money through cashapp or send him giftcards. 🤣

by Anonymous 2 years ago

I've been ghosted several times because…I guess my tailored responses to the prompts I encountered weren't good enough.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Guys I have spoken to on hinge have ghosted me because I don't want to put out in the first 5 minutes of talking.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

And then guys who actually want a genuine meet and greet suffer because of that. It's a vicious cycle.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Idk man I'd be luck to get a match. Then maybe I can corroborate your story. It's been 8 months lmfao.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Oof, that hell of streak lol

by Anonymous 2 years ago

It can be difficult to navigate the dating scene and find someone who is truly interested. It is understandable to become frustrated when it seems like people are not taking the search for a relationship seriously. It is important to remember that everyone is looking for something different and it is not always easy to find the right person.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Probably because people keep asking them the same "wyd?" questions and expecting some deep answer to their generic and shallow questions

by Anonymous 2 years ago

There are only so many questions you can ask. I try and ask about their points. Most of the time even that ends because they either, "haha don't check this app that much" or they just apparently can't carry a conversation. And then when I try to see if they'd prefer to meet in person or text…that's usually the end of it. There's literally no winning a lot of the time.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

True but that's not always the case. Male or female people will ghost you even if you actually try to engage in an interesting conversation with them 🤷‍♂️

by Anonymous 2 years ago

I met my wife on hinge but what OP is saying is true imo. Every attempt to have a conversation on any dating app, not just hinge, was like pulling teeth for me. I would match with a woman and start a conversation and all I was ever met with was one word answers or answers that don't further the conversation. They just genuinely seemed disinterested. Which is fine but if you're not going to engage then why did you swipe? My wife was the first woman I met on those apps that actually made an effort. Needless to say it was very much appreciated and now were married. I honestly think the sheer volume of guys on those apps just make women tired lol.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

It's just about compatibility. If you feel the other person can't or won't keep up minimal conversation with you then there's no reason to procede to get each other's real contact info. Little invested, little lost

by Anonymous 2 years ago