Cheating is fine as long as you don't get caught. amirite?

So if your wife were to murder you in your sleep it would be okay as long as she didn't get caught?

by Anonymous 2 years ago

You… I like you… your logic is good logic…

by Anonymous 2 years ago

I don't agree with op, but this isn't exactly the same thing

by Anonymous 2 years ago

I think you can see what they were getting at though

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Nice try, but one is a crime the other isn't no matter how much you try to argue morality. And I disagree with OP by the way.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

What makes something a crime? Why is murder a crime? What if we collectively agreed that cheating deserved prosecution?

by Anonymous 2 years ago

"People incapable of feeling guilt usually do have a good time." - Rust Cohle, True Detective

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Popular opinion for cowardly assholes who can't just break off their current relationship 👍

by Anonymous 2 years ago

For OP it's Better to be called a coward by internet strangers than lose his house, kids, and 50% of his income the next 18years lol

by Anonymous 2 years ago

How you can tell op is a sociopath, they have no empathy for anyone involved and their only reasons why cheating is bad is the consequences of getting caught. Pro tip op if you don't want to out yourself as a sociopath don't ignore that most people view long term dishonesty and betrayal as morally bad.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Some people that do bad things know it's wrong. Others (you) convince themselves that the bad thing they do isn't bad so they can feel better about it. You're a bad person.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

you obviously only care about yourself, just get the divorce

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Or break it off and come clean, but that would be way too hard for you to accept responsibility now isn't it? So basically, you want to act like a child

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Cheating is cockroach behavior. There is never a justifiable reason for it. It's not "fine if you don't get caught". *You* just don't feel guilty until you get caught.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

5 years. Doesn't that kind of mean you want to be with that other woman more?

by Anonymous 2 years ago

We only meet up about twice a week for drinks and sex. We click sexually and on a personal level, but I don't think it'd work out if we lived together. Also I have kids.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

So you want to hurt your wife *and* your kids. Wow, upstanding citizen.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

No, that's why I take extraordinary measure not to get caught..

by Anonymous 2 years ago

And you're also not very bright clearly.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Yet the possibility still exists that you could be caught despite all your precautions. And if you were, multiple people would suffer emotionally (your wife and kids). What kind of person considers this an acceptable risk? I don't think many people would say "A decent one."

by Anonymous 2 years ago

until your partner gets stds.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

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by Anonymous 2 years ago

Just say you don't want to take responsibility for your actions. I don't get why people cheat. If you know you need more than one partner, get into an open relationship and date someone who feels the same way instead of breaking someones trust

by Anonymous 2 years ago

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by Anonymous 2 years ago

OP forgets that STDs are a thing.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

If you're so nonchalant about it why not tell your wife? After all the mistress knows you said. Are you scared to tell your wife cause you know she'll leave? She deserves to know. Besides what if she ends up actually being OK with it? Then you just made it toxic for no reason

by Anonymous 2 years ago

If a person has urges to cheat on their partner, just end the relationship.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

That's a lot of words to say you're selfish and don't care about your wife.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

No. I think if you need to cheat you shouldn't be in a " manogamous " relationship bc you're lying. To be clear I have no issue with ppl having multiple partners, just don't lie to them. If people were honest with themselves and others we'd see a lot less of this.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Sounds like you don't care about your marriage if you can't respect your wife enough to commit. Some people are in open relationships, and cool with having other partners. You're obviously not in that. Tell your wife and see what she thinks.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

John McCririck, is that you?

by Anonymous 2 years ago

You are supposed to be faithful you lowdown coward. If I murder someone and no one finds out, is it alright? Just because someone doesn't know, doesn't mean that it's alright.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

You are supposed to be faithful you lowdown coward. If I murder someone and no one finds out, is it alright? Just because someone doesn't know, doesn't mean that it's alright.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

You are supposed to be faithful you lowdown coward. If I murder someone and no one finds out, is it alright? Just because someone doesn't know, doesn't mean that it's alright.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

When I've met folks who cheat, it's often because they feel something is lacking in the relationship or marriage. So what's lacking, that makes you drift away from your wife? Or is the cheating in of itself the enjoyable aspect of it? Cause I've seen that as the reasoning as well

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Woke up and chose to speak facts.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

But if he gets caught divorce will take the man for everything, so screw people guilting men or even women to come clean to their partners. Divorce can be really messy in case especially for the bread winner.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Don't cheat on your spouse and it isn't a problem

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Easier said than done. I'm in a bunch of men's group for middle aged men. A lot are miserable and a good amount have had their wife cheat on them then divorce them taking everything from the man. Not making an excuse for cheating just telling you how the real world works kid

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Other people doing terrible and shameful things is no excuse to do them yourself.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

>Easier said than done. No, it is not hard to not be untrustworthy scum.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Finally a reasonable take. Thank you

by Anonymous 2 years ago

In this situation, the man (op) absolutely deserves to get screwed over.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Bad people still are able to live happy successful lives full of abundance. Life's not fair like that

by Anonymous 2 years ago

That's true, if you aren't hurting your partner there should be no reason to not appease your male needs

by Anonymous 2 years ago

I genuinely wonder why people who think stuff like this don't just have an honest conversation with their partner about how they're feeling in regards to the relationship. Because, let's be real. If your partner was comfortable with the concept of an open relationship and was fine with you sleeping with other people I guarantee the concept of cheating is no longer "fun." It's like you guys take some sick pleasure from lying to your partner and sneaking around behind their back.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Murdering other people is fine as long as you don't get caught.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Tell your wife man, this is messed up. Even if she doesn't know about it, you're still deceiving her. Look up the meaning of a marriage and go reflect over what you're doing. If you wanted a marriage with "fun on the side" you should have gotten yourself a wife that is okay with it, not do it in secret and expect people to side with you. I feel bad for your wife.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Getting caught is worse if there's proof, in TX the cheater gets less leverage during divorce. Good luck with that

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Well technically everything is fine if you don't get cought, at least for you. Ceating, stealing, fraud, murder, you name it. As long as no one finds out you won't be held acountable or have to deal with the consequences. Doesn't make it any less unacceptable, morally speaking.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Said the person willing to give their significant other a host of std's.. Sounds like you truly care bout people

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Lots of crimes are also fine as long as you don't get caught, murder for example.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

Stfu. I usually laugh at dumb opinions, but this isn't funny ya roach

by Anonymous 2 years ago

i hope ur wife cheats on you and then leaves you for the guy she cheated with

by Anonymous 2 years ago

or a third option, dont lie to your family. you will be found eventually and it will affect your children if any were unfortunate enough to share the same last name as you

by Anonymous 2 years ago

To me the worst part of cheating is that cheater exposes another human to the risk of sexually transmitted diseases. For that reason I think cheating is not only disgusting but ahould also be illegal.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

So is murder, theft, fraud, assault and anything else by that reasoning

by Anonymous 2 years ago