People's "abnormalities" in their physical and psychological appearance attract me more to them than those that appear "perfect" or "typically attractive", amirite?
What's an example? I find traits that aren't stereotypically attractive, attractive because it makes people look individual: scars, crooked nose, crooked teeth, far apart eyes. Eg: I find Benedict cumberbatch more attractive than Chris Evans just because there's more unique characteristics.
However if they had a massive deformity or cyst that covered half their face than yeah I probably wouldn't be into it.
I don't know why so many people are being assholes. Of course there are limits to what I find attractive, but I do like unconventional beauty. Stretch marks, acne scars, being overweight (within reason), etc don't immediately turn me off.
Yup I hear you OP. Tired of Americanism shoving down my throat that I have to be attracted to blondes with big tits and fat asses. I wouldn't even look at them twice.
I've grown an odd attraction to women with more of a just unique look, I guess. It's hard to explain. Girls with wide set eyes, gapped front teeth, morning hair, are extremely tall, have big or oddly shaped noses, hella freckles, over or under bites, etc. stuff like that.
Agree with you 100%. The standardisation of "beauty" seems to be an unremarkable cardboard copy and paste, I find it difficult to distinguish celebs and celebrated "pretty" people due to their almost exact reminiscent features. & the beauty trends I find ghastly unappealing, such as the long nails and fake eyelashes that seem to have come rampant.
Well, I suppose it's my opinion of attractiveness. Which seems to contradict a larger community narrative of what beauty and attractiveness are. And I'm talking social attraction as well as sexual.
From thr physical perspective, I call this "ugly pretty". It doesn't necessarily mean the person is ugly but rather their features are so perplexing when viewed as a whole that you can't decide If they're truly objectively attractive or not but there's just something you're drawn to.
I'd be more concerned about the person who perceives someone as perfect. To not be able to see the different angles or read into someone and be practical and acknowledge they are imperfect like all people seems like an intense trait that could lead to some challenges in a relationship!
You do not find all abnormalities attractive. Just the cute ones lol
Naw. That's not what I think actually.
Just the not-disgusting ones*
What's an example? I find traits that aren't stereotypically attractive, attractive because it makes people look individual: scars, crooked nose, crooked teeth, far apart eyes. Eg: I find Benedict cumberbatch more attractive than Chris Evans just because there's more unique characteristics.
However if they had a massive deformity or cyst that covered half their face than yeah I probably wouldn't be into it.
Those are quite mild compared to what I had in mind.
Growing up with pectus carinatum taught me a lot of things, one was that everyone has their limits when it comes to abnormalities in a person.
Perfection does not exist amongst humans, so does that mean you love everyone??
I am drawn to the uniqueness of humans. Yeah.
Hm. An interesting take.
I don't know why so many people are being assholes. Of course there are limits to what I find attractive, but I do like unconventional beauty. Stretch marks, acne scars, being overweight (within reason), etc don't immediately turn me off.
Haha I know. It's fascinating to see all the different human behavior in response to an idea.
Yup I hear you OP. Tired of Americanism shoving down my throat that I have to be attracted to blondes with big tits and fat asses. I wouldn't even look at them twice.
Because you see your defects in them and it makes you more comfortable
How evolved of you.
Thanks, I was hoping to have my ego stoked, and you pulled in just in time to validate my righteousness. Thanks! 100 emoji
You seem to be stroking yourself just fine. Leave my insult out of it.
Do you consider hairy girls attractive then?
Since most girls choose wax and shave and stitch these days😂💀
The definition of the perfect person changes but the special features of the person will not change that fast.
Bring back WW1 German dueling scars.
I've grown an odd attraction to women with more of a just unique look, I guess. It's hard to explain. Girls with wide set eyes, gapped front teeth, morning hair, are extremely tall, have big or oddly shaped noses, hella freckles, over or under bites, etc. stuff like that.
I get it. I am sexually attracted to hairy older chubby dudes.
Hey! who gave you my personal opinion lol, yeah I honestly agree, haven't scrolled down far enough to know if it's unpopular or not but regardless
Agree with you 100%. The standardisation of "beauty" seems to be an unremarkable cardboard copy and paste, I find it difficult to distinguish celebs and celebrated "pretty" people due to their almost exact reminiscent features. & the beauty trends I find ghastly unappealing, such as the long nails and fake eyelashes that seem to have come rampant.
Your just saying that cause you have "abnormalities" and feel the best you can do is someone with their own "abnormalities"
Naw. That's not why I'm saying it. Though it's true those that have suffered are known to have more empathy and compassion toward others.
But you're not talking about compassion towards others, you're talking about attraction
Uhh.. regardless.. you are not accurate in your summation of how I feel.
"There is no excellent beauty that hath not some strangeness in the proportion."
I too like British girls
Haha this made me giggle. I'm gay though
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She's gorgeous. Can't take my eyes off her.
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L is for the way you look at me
O is for the only one I see
V is very, very extraordinary
E is even more than anyone that you adore can
Love is all that I can give to you!
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the thing that you are attracted to personally is not really an "unpopular" opinion. nobody else can relate to this opinion other than yourself.
Well, I suppose it's my opinion of attractiveness. Which seems to contradict a larger community narrative of what beauty and attractiveness are. And I'm talking social attraction as well as sexual.
You don't find certain personalities attractive and some not?
Same
Ok like… narcissism??
Look up the definition of narcissism please and then come back and explain what you mean.
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From thr physical perspective, I call this "ugly pretty". It doesn't necessarily mean the person is ugly but rather their features are so perplexing when viewed as a whole that you can't decide If they're truly objectively attractive or not but there's just something you're drawn to.
It's like the uncanny valley of attractiveness.
This isn't rocket science, but maybe OP doesn't know.
If you're seeing someone who is perfect? No metaphorical stains or issues? Run. Run as far as you can.
I'd be more concerned about the person who perceives someone as perfect. To not be able to see the different angles or read into someone and be practical and acknowledge they are imperfect like all people seems like an intense trait that could lead to some challenges in a relationship!
You'd be surprised brother. We
All make mistakes.