People's "abnormalities" in their physical and psychological appearance attract me more to them than those that appear "perfect" or "typically attractive", amirite?

"There is no excellent beauty that hath not some strangeness in the proportion." - Sir Francis Bacon (but less famous than Poe's paraphrase)

by Anonymous 11 months ago

You do not find all abnormalities attractive. Just the cute ones lol

by Anonymous 11 months ago

What's an example? I find traits that aren't stereotypically attractive, attractive because it makes people look individual: scars, crooked nose, crooked teeth, far apart eyes. Eg: I find Benedict cumberbatch more attractive than Chris Evans just because there's more unique characteristics. However if they had a massive deformity or cyst that covered half their face than yeah I probably wouldn't be into it.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Those are quite mild compared to what I had in mind. Growing up with pectus carinatum taught me a lot of things, one was that everyone has their limits when it comes to abnormalities in a person.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Naw. That's not what I think actually.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Just the not-disgusting ones*

by Anonymous 11 months ago

I too like British girls

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Haha this made me giggle. I'm gay though

by Anonymous 11 months ago

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by Anonymous 11 months ago

She's gorgeous. Can't take my eyes off her.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

😂😂😅

by Anonymous 11 months ago

L is for the way you look at me

by Anonymous 11 months ago

O is for the only one I see

by Anonymous 11 months ago

V is very, very extraordinary

by Anonymous 11 months ago

E is even more than anyone that you adore can

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Love is all that I can give to you!

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Y? Or Y not? Do or do not, there is no Y. But there's always a Y for doing so! 😵‍💫

by Anonymous 11 months ago

mommy

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Would.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

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by Anonymous 11 months ago

Perfection does not exist amongst humans, so does that mean you love everyone??

by Anonymous 11 months ago

I am drawn to the uniqueness of humans. Yeah.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Hm. An interesting take.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

I don't know why so many people are being assholes. Of course there are limits to what I find attractive, but I do like unconventional beauty. Stretch marks, acne scars, being overweight (within reason), etc don't immediately turn me off.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Haha I know. It's fascinating to see all the different human behavior in response to an idea.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Bring back WW1 German dueling scars.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Yup I hear you OP. Tired of Americanism shoving down my throat that I have to be attracted to blondes with big tits and fat asses. I wouldn't even look at them twice.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

the thing that you are attracted to personally is not really an "unpopular" opinion. nobody else can relate to this opinion other than yourself.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

You don't find certain personalities attractive and some not?

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Well, I suppose it's my opinion of attractiveness. Which seems to contradict a larger community narrative of what beauty and attractiveness are. And I'm talking social attraction as well as sexual.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Same

by Anonymous 11 months ago

I've grown an odd attraction to women with more of a just unique look, I guess. It's hard to explain. Girls with wide set eyes, gapped front teeth, morning hair, are extremely tall, have big or oddly shaped noses, hella freckles, over or under bites, etc. stuff like that.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

I get it. I am sexually attracted to hairy older chubby dudes.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Ok like… narcissism??

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Look up the definition of narcissism please and then come back and explain what you mean.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Hey! who gave you my personal opinion lol, yeah I honestly agree, haven't scrolled down far enough to know if it's unpopular or not but regardless

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Agree with you 100%. The standardisation of "beauty" seems to be an unremarkable cardboard copy and paste, I find it difficult to distinguish celebs and celebrated "pretty" people due to their almost exact reminiscent features. & the beauty trends I find ghastly unappealing, such as the long nails and fake eyelashes that seem to have come rampant.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Your just saying that cause you have "abnormalities" and feel the best you can do is someone with their own "abnormalities"

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Naw. That's not why I'm saying it. Though it's true those that have suffered are known to have more empathy and compassion toward others.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

But you're not talking about compassion towards others, you're talking about attraction

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Uhh.. regardless.. you are not accurate in your summation of how I feel.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Because you see your defects in them and it makes you more comfortable

by Anonymous 11 months ago

How evolved of you.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Thanks, I was hoping to have my ego stoked, and you pulled in just in time to validate my righteousness. Thanks! *100 emoji*

by Anonymous 11 months ago

You seem to be stroking yourself just fine. Leave my insult out of it.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Do you consider hairy girls attractive then? Since most girls choose wax and shave and stitch these days😂💀

by Anonymous 11 months ago

The definition of the perfect person changes but the special features of the person will not change that fast.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Wanna see me hobble around?

by Anonymous 11 months ago

From thr physical perspective, I call this "ugly pretty". It doesn't necessarily mean the person is ugly but rather their features are so perplexing when viewed as a whole that you can't decide If they're truly objectively attractive or not but there's just something you're drawn to. It's like the uncanny valley of attractiveness.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

This isn't rocket science, but maybe OP doesn't know. If you're seeing someone who is perfect? No metaphorical stains or issues? Run. Run as far as you can.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

I'd be more concerned about the person who perceives someone as perfect. To not be able to see the different angles or read into someone and be practical and acknowledge they are imperfect like all people seems like an intense trait that could lead to some challenges in a relationship!

by Anonymous 11 months ago

You'd be surprised brother. We All make mistakes.

by Anonymous 11 months ago