+139 Being nice is a luxury only the strong can afford. amirite?

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I don't know anyone who thinks being nice is a weakness.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

It is if you can't defend that niceness.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Weakness in what manner? It seems as though you think nice people can't say no.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Good luck trying to advance you career while being mean to everybody around you.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Assholes aren't mean to everyone, they are only mean if they can get away with it, which is exactly why you need to be able to defend yourself

by Anonymous 1 year ago

No way to say this without sounding rude.. but that's complete non sense that is based on nothing.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I am okay with you thinking that.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Yeah I kinda agree with the world favouring the assholes, some times there are things that are limited by the moral compass, things you can only do if you're an asshole with no guilt and things you'll have to be prepared for because it will make the world see you as an asshole even if you made the right choice. The moral compass is, to a degree, holding you back from success.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Perhaps being underestimated is a strength? Idk I'm a glass apple kind of guy.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Glass apple.. What?..

by Anonymous 1 year ago

You either have a glass half empty or a glass apple.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Wait do you mean a glass half full?

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Na it's just your perception, always be nice until or if the person is being a dick to you then cut off all interaction. If they attack then retaliate with everything you have. Being nice is not the same as being weak

by Anonymous 1 year ago

You literally just proved my point, to be nice you need the strength to defend yourself against assholes

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Not always 90% of the time, if you ignore, they will move on to a perceivable, weaker victim that will cave in earlier and not do the ignoring

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Limited vocabulary to explain complex situations. Nice and Asshole is not enough. Situational awareness is a necessity to act to attract favorability.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

You're saying that just being nice or harmless isn't the same as being friendly but knowing when to stick up for yourself, and I think you're correct.

by Anonymous 1 year ago