yeah victim mentality is insane especially when everyone is trying to one up the next person. I hate when people tell me not everyone can be successful. even by saying t his you are planting seeds in peoples head and letting them be comfortable with not succeeding in life. we should encourage everyone. whatever happened to telling kids they can be whatever they want to be. not in todays world, "not everyone can have success" its a load of garbage.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Is this unpopular? I think most people realise it's a fine line between showing empathy and showing some "tough love". It's just that there's been wayyyy less empathy in the past so people tend to focus more on it. Also it's pretty ill-advised for people over the internet to determine how much "tough love" attitude a person needs. Much better to just offer some empathy and advice.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Agreed. I see way too many toxic gym bros saying they insult and bully fat people to motivate them to workout. Like my guy, if you really cared, you'd encourage them to try exercise, not make them hate their body. I feel like people who do it just look for ways to be mean, they don't actually care about your well being or even see you do better.

by Anonymous 1 year ago