Definitely but most people lack any real passions or hobbies. They work and have a world view based on pop-culture, thinking dinner dates and going out for drinks is all that exists. They get boxed into a lifestyle that doesn't offer very much fulfillment, and they fill the void with a relationship. All their friends start dating so they have to, same cycle with marriage and kids. That's where the "normies" get trapped. You don't see the same behavior with people that have passions or purpose in their life, they appreciate and make good use of their extra time & resources.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Exactly so when I feel a bit bad about me not beign in a romantic relationship now I close my eyes and see the amount of things that I feel passionate about and need to do it like it makes me feel so giddy:) like i still need to try so many things

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Sure but sharing the things you love with a person you love is way better then alone

by Anonymous 1 year ago

That is I addressed in first para plus beign desperate to want relationship definitely dosent help. You can't really force yourself into beign one Yes sharing the things you love with a person you love is way better but it doesn't mean you can't love that thing alone only. It's magnitude might diminish, but never 0 at all. Lastly I have so many female friends who i love platonically and i absolutely feel delighted in sharing the thing. So not exactly true that you can't share things too

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Yea but doesn't it make sense that most people want/Are looking for that ? I mean someone you love can make something unfun fun, who wouldn't want that. Not saying people should solely focus on it. But understandable why people get hung up on it.

by Anonymous 1 year ago