In 10-20 years , most adult couples will be made of an older woman dating a younger man, amirite?

Nah women generally like men that are older and men generally like younger women. As women pursue their careers more there may be more cougars looking for young men but the overall dynamic is not just gonna change because of economics.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

It's changing already

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Women are generally hypergamous, meaning they date men who have similar or higher social status. Most women would rather remain single than support an unsuccessful partner.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

They won't support an unsuccessful partner who is their age but they will cut the young men some slack and enjoy their youth instead

by Anonymous 1 year ago

What's the point for a young guy to date a grandma?

by Anonymous 1 year ago

35 -45 year old woman isn't a grandma

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I am 47, 35 is not older. If I was 30, would date 40 no problem, and I did, but would date a 20 yo at the same time

by Anonymous 1 year ago

no, no, and no what you'll continue to see is some older career women settling and many male incels that well, stay incels. Can't change millions of years of biology.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

It's biology for women to be attracted to young attractive guys though

by Anonymous 1 year ago

No, it s biology for women to be attracted to protectors and providers. Guys will always be attracted to young fertile women.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

When I was younger I used to date guys up to 11 years older than me. Now in my 30s I'm married to a guy younger than me and he's probably the most mature one I've been with. I'm not doing this for "fun and attention" lol. Plus it's not like it's all up to the women to choose. If men don't want to be with older women then it wouldn't work.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I'm CF and have a good career but unlike men I have no desire to be with someone much younger than me, maybe 4-5 years at the max. Women don't obsess nearly as much about dating younger people like men do.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Men don't "obsess" about being with younger people, it's just a simple preference Preference =/= Obsession

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Really? I think men are less ageist than women when it comes to dating. Men generally don't care about age as long as you're not to much older or too much younger than them, whereas women strictly tend to prefer older men or men around the same age as them.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

4-5 years younger is still younger

by Anonymous 1 year ago

If you're over the age of 35, then 4-5 years isn't a big difference, but a 25 year old is a big difference.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

You're over 35?

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Well it's gonna become more common for women to go for young guys it won't be enough attractive men their age to go around

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Only if those young guys learn how to cook and clean up after themselves, otherwise what's the point.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I am 47. 52 yo woman is a grandma who needs no sex, likes her tv alcohol and cats, I better pass

by Anonymous 1 year ago

You're not 47 years old.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Yes 🙈 I am 12...🧒

by Anonymous 1 year ago

You could date number of man and woman at the same time, if being cf, it doesn't matter

by Anonymous 1 year ago

That's not something I do, having random sex just because I can is not my thing.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Old fashioned, things could change in 20ys

by Anonymous 1 year ago

The way I feel isn't "old fashioned". Not everything is about sex to everyone.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

This 😆

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Sex is good. Good sex is a glue for people to stay together. That is why it was invented by nature.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

That doesn't mean that someone should hump anything they can. Good sex can be had without numerous partners.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Yeah, but it gets boring with one. If there are no kids, why not try someone else

by Anonymous 1 year ago

yikes

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I think he means a trophy husband. Like women would grab men for pleasure, not life long partnership

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Do you know actually know any women? Serious question. Women are already heavily complaining that men their age lack the basic life skills and maturity they expect in an equal partner, and you think they are all collectively gonna start going for less capable men? Hahahahah

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I know lots of women, and they make more than their partners/husbands. The ones who are single and not looking for serious relationships do date younger men, and as OP said it's for "pleasure, attention and fun", they don't care how capable they are if that's all they're looking for.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

It isn't just about money and success though, most women I know are just more attracted older men than younger men. It has nothing to do with how much money they have or their education or how successful their career is. I don't see that reversing just because women are becoming more successful on average than they used to be.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

How old are the women you know ?

by Anonymous 1 year ago

20s, 30s and 40s. It seems almost universal in my experience. Obviously there are exceptions and even the women I know who have/are dating a younger man don't actually have a preference for younger men, it's more of an anomoly for them.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

OP is a 45 year old woman trying to convince herself that hot college jocks will finally want her

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Opposite

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Happy cougar hunting sir

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Women will also more commonly date other women.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Why would you think that lol 😂 it's not going to change their sexuality I mean I think more gay men and women will be comfortable having relationships as time passes, but not because woman make more money…

by Anonymous 1 year ago

That too

by Anonymous 1 year ago

That is way more likely than dating a young guy

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I don't see any reason for dating an old woman except $.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Older doesn't mean grandma status

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I am 47, some of my classmates probably have grandkids already

by Anonymous 1 year ago

The older a woman gets the less her status becomes. Grandma is just that to an extreme.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Women are doing worse than men. Even though they are given many advantages, they still earn less than men because they don't want to work as hard. Even though they get way more college degrees than men, they still get most of the lowering paying professions because they don't want to do the stuff that pays like engineering. It is no coincidence that there is no female Elon musk or bill gates.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

There is no much difference makes she 80k or he 120, same life

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Men are just better at what they do than women is all. You are right, 80k is still comfortable.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

For company women are easier to deal with, most are "I love my job"

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Won't last, best dynamic is younger female and older male

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Weird take that means nothing

by Anonymous 1 year ago

X to doubt Spinsters will continue

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Nah

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I think you're overstating the degree of these effects and ignoring the fact that it's increasingly difficult to make a go of things on one income. So women still need men for "provision" just as much as the man needs the woman for "provision." More importantly, you're missing that women don't date older men for money. They date older men because they think they're mature and perceive a certain type of protection and stability that comes from a man like that.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Even if it happened, so?

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Nha there will just be less couples

by Anonymous 1 year ago

That's just your fantasy

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I can agree with your premise and maybe with your conclusion but I don't see how one follows from the other unless you're assuming that most people get into relationships only for economic interest.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

Pfft, I ain't waiting 10-20 years, I've been jumping on that train for ages now. \*roars in Cougar\*

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I just don't think this is true. There are absolutely some women who are into younger guys, but generally speaking, women want mature men because relationships are not primarily about sex for us. I'm 33 and the idea of dating anyone even age 25 is gross to me. They are not emotionally or mentally mature enough. They don't have the life experience to meet me halfway in a relationship.

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I should have said most dating situations rather than couples

by Anonymous 1 year ago

I bet you $50 dollars this won't be the case. We can donate it to charity, if you wish. Hell, let's make it $100.

by Anonymous 1 year ago