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When dating is treated like a job interview, people inherently just "settle". amirite?
by Anonymous1 year ago
When people hold potential partners to the standards they would like to be held to immature people call it "settling."
by Anonymous1 year ago
How did you get that from what OP wrote?
by Anonymous1 year ago
I just had this conversation with some of my friends yesterday. And I agree with you, mostly.
I don't think dating apps are inherently a problem. I do agree with the fact that I see people handling romantic relationships like business transactions. Almost just having a checklist of the minimum requirements and as long as someone fulfills them they start a romantic relationship although sometimes there's no actual feelings involved.
Especially as I see people getting older the more common it becomes. I assume it's a mix of probably a looming fear of ending up "alone" and also social pressure.
Now, obviously it's none of my business what people do in their personal relationships but I would be lying if I said that seeing friends settle with people they don't really have any feelings for doesn't make me kinda sad.
I also disagree with the whole cheating angle. If someone isn't happy in their relationship just break up. Cheating is just dumb.
by Anonymous1 year ago
I would say that starting a relationship through online dating where most people start by texting, video calling, or calling each other is a great way to really get to know the individual based off their personality and just about them as a person.
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