+76 Many men don't realize their version of pretty privilege is charisma, amirite?

by Anonymous 2 months ago

This is kinda big brain, but also kinda smooth brain. They are separate functions. Pretty girls can be charismatic too. And attractive dudes can be as well. So the two factors are independent. The takeaway is that personality and character SHOULD be more important than appearanceā€¦ but is it?

by Anonymous 3 months ago

>The takeaway is that personality and character SHOULD be more important than appearanceā€¦ but is it? Why? Now we need a standardized blueprint on what you like in other people?

by Anonymous 3 months ago

Ok, fair enough. I think that generally people want a kind and pleasant person over a "pretty" one, but you're right; it is different for everyone and that is how it should be.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

They didn't put many points into my charisma. Mostly perception and wisdom.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

Men have pretty privilege just as well. Good looking men have it easier in life than less good looking men.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

Men can also have it, but a man with charisma can have just as much and honestly more

by Anonymous 3 months ago

I mean kinda but charisma isnt at all set from birth, anyone can be charismatic with enough time but some people have an inherent advantage with looks and looks can only be improved so much

by Anonymous 3 months ago

I did not realize this.

by Anonymous 3 months ago