+180 Women who share nudes with their bfs have to be ok with them not deleting it after you've broken up, amirite?

by Anonymous 3 months ago

>He doesn't even have to send it to their machines. He can just show them on his. Is that illegal anywhere? Revenge porn is in fact, illegal.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

It is, but is that any consolation to the victims? Honestly… best just not to share the pics in the first place.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

Yes sharing nudes without consent is literally illegal, do you seriously not get that? You also seem to blur the lines between "men are going to do this" and "women should be okay with it"… just because it happens doesn't make it okay?

by Anonymous 3 months ago

Welp, if you send nudes to someone with "pls dont share". You kinda deserve what you get. Ilegal or not.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

Welp, if you walk down the street with a UFC or MMA shirt on, and someone punches you in the face, you kinda deserve what you get. Illegal or not. This is what you sound like...

by Anonymous 3 months ago

Thats terrible analogy. If you send nudes to someone, its your decision. Like asking someone to fight and being suprised you get punched.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

I know it is, but I honestly don't know how enforceable it is if they are just showing someone a picture on their phone. Honestly… I don't even know if that's covered by the law. Is it?

by Anonymous 3 months ago

Just because there's not much they can do doesn't mean women should be ok with it. They should have legal recourse. When I walk around I accept the risk of getting hit by a car but I'm not ok with it. I should have legal recourse against negligent drivers.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

I wouldn't want them. If they broke up with me, I'm sad so I keep nudes? No. If I broke up with them, delete everything about them on my devices, because of decency I guess.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

Horniness > decency

by Anonymous 3 months ago

OP definitely has a fap stash with all his exes nudes

by Anonymous 3 months ago

No, they don't have to be okay with it. They can share the picture with the condition that the boyfriend not ever share it, and if he breaks that trust then he has done a bad thing, and in some places a crime. If you think that a person should never extend trust to someone else without being okay with having that trust violated, why extend trust to anybody, ever? Why would a woman get into a relationship with a man who can't be trusted to respect this very basic request?

by Anonymous 3 months ago

This isn't unpopular. It's just a gross view to have.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

incel take

by Anonymous 3 months ago

This an't it chief. I've been there. First thing you do when the relationship ends is delete the nono vids and pics.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

Why keep naked photos of someone you no longer want to see? Doesn't make sense. Sounds like a mental illness to me.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

As a man, I have always considered it an act of common courtesy to delete all explicit pictures after a breakup.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

Don't take and send nude pics to anyone. Problem solved

by Anonymous 3 months ago

Victim blaming of course 🙄

by Anonymous 3 months ago

Saying to people to be smart is victim blaming? Wouldn't you say to someone not to walk on the highway?

by Anonymous 3 months ago

They don't have to be okay with it. They just have to accept it. Don't want to risk nudes being shared? Then don't send them in the first place. It just is what it is.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

Does your country not have revenge porn laws? In most countries what you're describing could be considered illegal in some form or another. The only portion of your opinion that's not specifically illegal is holding on to nudes for strictly personal use. But of course, the morals of this decision are dubious at best.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

put them in a flash drive and bury it in the sand like a good pirate

by Anonymous 3 months ago

I will now hide a picture of my ass and note that says "you found my booty". I'll also leave a map with vague descriptions of what the treasure is to keep interest. Jk. Lol.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

Brilliant ☠️🦜

by Anonymous 3 months ago

I mean you would get slapped with a lawsuit for sharing but by all means. It also shows what kind of character a man has if he refuses to delete photos of you regardless if you ask them to or not.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

I love all the people saying it's illegal. To extend is it actually prosecuted? Heroin is illegal how's that working out for us?

by Anonymous 3 months ago

I don't think anyone should be "okay" with it. I think you need to be aware that some shady people exist and they might not delete your nudes just because you broke up with them, and exercise caution.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

> I don't think anyone should be "okay" with it. The alternative being crying in the dark. Might as well be ok with it.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

Op doesn't understand the concept of consent. If someone sends nudes they constented to you looking at them not sharing them with the internet. Nevermind that is technically illegal and could actually ruin someone's life. And people have killed themselves over their nude photos being released

by Anonymous 3 months ago

Keeping them is one thing. Sharing them without consent is in fact illegal.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

Also why the misleading title? That's like you made your title "If someone consents to having sex with you then it's okay". Then going to describe a completely different situation that isn't that scenario.

by Anonymous 3 months ago

Why would that be ok? It's illegal ​ You sound like the type of person that will do anything to justify 50 year old men saving intimate images of 12 year olds on their hard drives

by Anonymous 3 months ago