+22 The difference between polyamory and cheating is telling the other person about it, amirite?

by Vada81 11 months ago

Plenty of people tell after they cheat, and it's still cheating. The difference is getting permission/consent to do it.

by Own-Professor 11 months ago

Negative, the difference is getting a high five

by Lynchnelle 11 months ago

Op learning about consent

by Advanced-Loquat 11 months ago

Huh, it's almost as if healthy communication with the people who are important to you is... Healthy.

by Anonymous 11 months ago

Well yeah, it's kinda obvious innit

by Anonymous 11 months ago

You know, a lot of people would consider this to be quite obvious, but IT IS NOT. There are so many people out there claiming to be POLY, but in reality, they are just cheating. Or they simply have multiple partners, who might not know they have multiple partners. It gives a bad name to those who actually are legitimately POLY.

by Particular_Listen659 11 months ago

Thank you. What would we do without you?

by Pitiful-Royal 11 months ago

No, the difference is your partner specifically approving it. Just telling them about it is still cheating.

by Reasonable-Access 11 months ago