+22 The difference between polyamory and cheating is telling the other person about it, amirite?

by Vada81 1 month ago

Plenty of people tell after they cheat, and it's still cheating. The difference is getting permission/consent to do it.

by Own-Professor 1 month ago

Negative, the difference is getting a high five

by Lynchnelle 1 month ago

Op learning about consent

by Advanced-Loquat 1 month ago

Huh, it's almost as if healthy communication with the people who are important to you is... Healthy.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Well yeah, it's kinda obvious innit

by Anonymous 1 month ago

You know, a lot of people would consider this to be quite obvious, but IT IS NOT. There are so many people out there claiming to be POLY, but in reality, they are just cheating. Or they simply have multiple partners, who might not know they have multiple partners. It gives a bad name to those who actually are legitimately POLY.

by Particular_Listen659 1 month ago

Thank you. What would we do without you?

by Pitiful-Royal 1 month ago

No, the difference is your partner specifically approving it. Just telling them about it is still cheating.

by Reasonable-Access 1 month ago