There's way more women attracted to younger men/teenagers than anyone wants to admit, amirite?

We had a whole movement based around hot older chicks banging young dudes with cougers

by Anonymous 1 month ago

I do not feel ruined...

by Admirable-Reward8522 1 month ago

Older women want younger men. Older men want younger women. Younger women want older men. Younger men want whatever they can get.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

I'm a younger women and I want a guy my age no older men yack

by rheatorphy 1 month ago

It's a generalization so obviously not everyone is gonna fit perfectly into the box.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

When I say older men I don't mean old enough to be your dad. I mean like a 20 year old woman would go for a guy who is 30.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Why is this true? When I was young I definitely went for older men. I still like older men but recently, I'm 34 now, last few years; I've found younger men extremely interesting. I'm married though so I just talk and flirt and go in with my day

by Antique-Evening 1 month ago

you flirt with other men when married? yikes

by jlebsack 1 month ago

Plenty of married people have an agreement that "flirting but no further" is fine in day-to-day life. I'm not one of them personally, but I know of many couples like this.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

obviously they happen but are extremely uncommon. I also don't know what this idea that when you're old it happens more comes from. it's weird af

by Zboncakeldridge 1 month ago

Just because you don't like it doesn't mean it's "weird af".

by Anonymous 1 month ago

We're one of those couples! I'm just a huge flirt. I'll flirt with anyone. I once flirted with a cop after they arrested me. But my partner knows that's just me, and me genuinely flirting with someone is a lot more forward than just a flirty personality.

by Apprehensive-Form 1 month ago

Yikes, my ass 🙄married people suddenly just become toast and never find anyone attractive ever again, right? Flirting is such a non issue, I don't even know.

by Antique-Evening 1 month ago

There's a massive jump between finding someone attractive and flirting lmao "Oh not, he's so hot! My mouth just moved on its own! I can't help it", the heck kinda pervert logic is that? I don't even know

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Not if it never goes anywhere. Calm the f down.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

It's the attempt that matters Some of you'all are really outing yourselves here. No, there's no justification for it no matter how defensive you feel.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Are you the judge in this situation?

by Interesting_Rough 1 month ago

None of us actually care what you think Mr "spreadyourass" Time to get over it

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Don't you agree flirting makes it more likely to go somewhere?

by Anonymous 1 month ago

I think there's this assumption that flirting is always done with the intent to pursue someone sexually, but that's simply not the case. Sometimes it's just a matter of two people with a bit of chemistry having some lighthearted, flirtatious banter, without any desire to go beyond polite conversation.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

☕

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Your poor husband…

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Getting hit on by cougars is one of the few things I miss about being a young lad.

by After-Emergency 1 month ago

I'm seeing way more stories of HS teachers sleeping with their male students. A lot of them are women.

by Xheaney 1 month ago

I'm 28 and had my first experience with a 40 year old "cougar" at a pub about 6 months ago. Was one of the best damn nights of my life. I understand the hype.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Right, an adult woman sleeping with an underage boy is just as disgusting as when the genders are reversed, but some people will still spin it as the boy being "lucky." It's that assumption that boys always want sex and are basically always consenting, and it's messed up.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

16 isn't underage where I live but it would still be seen as an abuse of power from the circumstances.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

my male psychology teacher who shamelessly grabbed female students asses and breasts in HS only got fired. he is still a teacher in a different district years later.

by arne24 1 month ago

That's more than a bit optimistic he would be held accountable but it certainly is a double standard.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

I mean I had an older woman scenario like that... it was fun.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

you don't know what a pedo is, do you?

by Motor_Principle 1 month ago

Pretty sure I do since I was abused by one

by Sea-Mathematician 1 month ago

sorry to hear. But are you referring to one that's attracted to teens or those in their 20s / early 30s?

by Motor_Principle 1 month ago

Minors

by Sea-Mathematician 1 month ago

Sorry didn't mean to come off that way

by Sea-Mathematician 1 month ago

all good. I misinterpreted; my bad. Just because there are too many idiots that say that being attracted to someone in that age group as someone older is "p*dophilia"

by Motor_Principle 1 month ago

I'm mid 40s and find guys in their 30s are pretty darn attractive. Not really interested in anyone younger, but if I was out having a great time and some fine 25 year old us in to me, I'm not gonna say no….(less than 25 is gross).

by One_Procedure 1 month ago

I agree. Tons of women secretly want a young teenage boy

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Ew no

by Anonymous 1 month ago

This is the correct response. I think some people are taking this way too far.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

he sounds logical, not evil

by Anonymous 1 month ago

This is oddly specific

by Anonymous 1 month ago

I certainly don't. I'm 38 and when I look at younger guys I just think of how immature and stupid they are. 0 attraction.

by Competitive-Rent8261 1 month ago

Most women don't feel attracted to very young males. Do we find them attractive? Yes. Do we feel attraction? No. It's a different concept. I think OP is just projecting.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

projecting for pointing out a serious problem?

by amaya37 1 month ago

Most women don't feel attracted to very young males. Do we find them attractive? Yes. Do we feel attraction? No. It's a different concept. I get this. I think OP is just projecting. but I don't get this. What am I projecting?

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Do we find them attractive? Yes. Do we feel attraction? No. This doesn't make any sense

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Never had more 35 yr old women hit on me than when I was a 17yr old gas station attendant.

by Wonderful-Sail-9235 1 month ago

I'm in my early 20s in nursing school, it has honestly been hard to keep the ladies away especially since I'm the only young guy around and I am pretty good looking and in shape. I slept with 3 different older nurses one was 30 so guess not that old but to me that's pretty old. I met them all at different clinical placements since starting the program 2 years ago. I don't now how common it is but I've been hit on by a lot of classmates, nurses, cnas and psws since entering this endeavour. But considering I see old men basically trying to sexually assault the women daily I think its a lot more skewed towards older men or at least they are a lot more bold.

by Prior-Temperature957 1 month ago

Everyone knows that cougars exist.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

It's stigmatized. Younger guys are good looking. They do sleep with older women.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

OK you're a Chad, OP. We get it.

by Icy_Marsupial_8167 1 month ago

An adult knowingly "hitting on" a child is always going to be pedophilia, nothing less.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

I swear on my life it's not a brag lol. I was more put off by those interactions. I was very young when most of them happened.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

I feel like the reality of how people tend to perceive teenagers versus the legality of such interactions don't exactly line up. When it comes to children, people are like "How could I? Why would I? I would never" but when it comes to teens, people are internally like "I'd better not". Maybe I'm wrong, but idk, I've seen a lot. I've heard a lot. I see what goes down in other cultures. And I've noticed the way things have been for most of human history.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Same reason that teens can sometimes pull off using a fake ID to buy alcohol, but pre-pubescent children can't. A lot of teens (especially people in their late teens) can "pass" for looking like they're in their 20s. And yeah, historically, people were way more creepy about that.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

So, the overall trend I've been seeing in all stuff with even remotely relative to this is yeah women are exactly the same as men on all this stuff. People just give the behavior a pass

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Younger guys are fit. It's completely natural, but of course there are certain lines you shouldn't cross regardless of gender.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

This guy just learned about double standards. Good for you.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Huh. I feel that this is openly admitted.

by santaking 1 month ago

Pedophilic behavior is more likely to go unnoticed or disregarded among women. People are also more likely to let their guard down and think "Karen? A molester? No way. she's a housewife!"

by Davisdavon 1 month ago

Younger men are obviously very physically attractive, but making someone feel uncomfortable by aggressively coming on to them isn't OK.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Well there you said it: ‘Cougar' label. It's socially acceptable for men to be much older. But for women it's a totally different ball game.

by Rkovacek 1 month ago

No, men also don't want to admit it. Men who are aging especially.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Yes, but it's usually women who aren't as mature as their peers. I include myself in that. I've always been a bit more immature than my age and get along well with those a bit younger than me. I'm not creepy about it, but my husband is younger by about 4 years lol. So I guess I prove your point xD

by Shanon27 1 month ago

It's really not that bad, but we're still separated by some generational things. But literally nothing that we can't understand in each other lol

by Shanon27 1 month ago

What is your goofy ass saying lmao. It's always the rich entrepreneur women. Ones who have their own business, and make six figures at minimum who turn into cougars. The less mature girls who just work a bum job aren't cougars.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Well I'm definitely not rich or own my own business. I don't know what you're so upset about lmao. Just because I go younger doesn't mean I'm a bum. Sounds like you need a bong hit or a cig or something my guy.

by Shanon27 1 month ago

I had a lover who was 30 years my elder when I was younger. I can explain it this way. Women go through a sexual awakening in their 40-50s when they peak and men peak 20-30s. They want a young one that can keep up.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Women peak in 30s sexually, maybe some in early 40s. Not 40s, 50s sorry

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Tbf I'm sure everyone is different. Some peak in 30s and maybe others in their 40s and 50s

by Davisdavon 1 month ago

Must be just me because I had a 52 year old girlfriend when I was in my 20s. Probably because they have less worry of getting pregnant. I mean what do I know I've only done porn and been with over 150 women in my life but you're probably right.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Women's sexual peak is 30s to 40s pornstar. I am probably right. I am. Just looked it up. Men late teens to early 20s. Women mid 30s to 40s. What do you know? Apparently not that.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Apparently I know nothing and this ganaherplsiphilitis isn't even real!

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Herpegonasyphilaids

by Anonymous 1 month ago

See…I don't even know that. I'm living a lie man.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

I don't know why anyone is surprised. They shouldn't be. Men shamelessly ogle after, watch porn of, and marry younger women. What the f is so special about you as a male that gives you this right exclusively ??? No offense but you're living in a fantasy if you think women just let that insidiously abused and one-sided agism continue kicking us around and down the street. Older women are pretty universally dismissed and lose their status in society. Cry me a river really. 😘

by Anonymous 1 month ago

I'm sure.

by No_Economics 1 month ago

i'm in my late 20s and my wife is in her early 30s. i don't really think about the age much or notice it

by Anonymous 1 month ago

That's because you're basically the same age.

by Wonderful-Sail-9235 1 month ago

Can confirm. Some of the things I've experienced and heard would have had serious consequences if the gender roles were reversed. The double standard is real.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

I'm still a teenager, no old women yet

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Because the guys in the 30-40 range are trash. What options do we have at this point. At least the young ones aren't jaded

by Timely-Personality57 1 month ago

I would consider this an unpopular opinion just because I'm a 26yo female that prefers older men lol

by Anonymous 1 month ago

When 18-20 I found woman in their 30's and 40's were attracted to me and flirted with me. In my 30's now and that flipped to younger woman flirting with me. My fiancée is 2 years older than me and I rather be with her than someone immature. Younger guys I work with try their best to flirt with woman my age that have kids and a partner. It's amusing.

by Mammoth_Tailor 1 month ago

Absolutely. I slept with two of my high-school teachers. One while in higshchool and one when I was 19.

by Maryjaneemard 1 month ago

I know that men absolutely chase younger women and it's culturally acceptable to do so. Depends. It's generally seen as pretty gross when a man is dating someone who's too young for him. I'm a 45 year old man, if I saw a guy my age chasing women that were 30 I'd think it was pretty gross. Really, I'd think it was pretty weird in general if that same 45 year old guy was chasing women under 35, but I'd find it gross if she was under 30. Personally, I'd need to meet someone pretty special to even consider dating a woman under 40.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

okay! fair enough

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Women are also most attracted to men who are around the age of 20, because that is their hormonal and sexual peak.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

I can't even IMAGINE being intimate with someone 2 years younger than me. No matter if I'm 20, 30, 40, 50…if I'm 50 and you're 48…to me you're a child. That's how my brain perceives it

by Era72 1 month ago

The reason why the older women you mentioned are approaching you is because the men their age don't want them.

by Least-Lab 1 month ago