Some women really do not know how damn good they have it. amirite?

Countless studies have shown that humanity favors attractive people for everything from jobs to criminal sentencing. Number One rule of life: Be attractive.

by Longjumping-Cow7142 4 weeks ago

Rule number two: Don't be unattractive.

by CraftyDevice 4 weeks ago

Rule number three: Be born to a wealthy family or inherent a large sum of money

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

optional number 4: be da kim

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Option #5: have a good singing voice (like me)

by daron78 4 weeks ago

option 6: pick up sticks

by Jvon 4 weeks ago

Option 7: buy Corolla Levin

by daron78 4 weeks ago

C-C-C-COMBO BREAKER!!!

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

That's rule #2. Rule #1 is "be born into a wealthy family".

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

In order: Rule #1 - Be born wealthy And or Rule #2 - Be born attractive And or Rule #3 - Be born intelligent And or Rule #4 - Be born gifted with talent And or Rule #5 - Be born insane. Naturally the rules can be equally applied as inverse clauses (i.e. "don't be born poor, don't be born ugly, don't be born stupid etc.).

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

The ultimate life hack.

by Tall_Pin_5907 4 weeks ago

This is actually more important than looks

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Yeah this is one of the reasons I believe in always looking clean cut and well dressed. Even though I don't actually give a damn about style. For lack of "scientific words" you can fake the "good looking" judgment people have of you by looking well presented. We literally evolved to function on "judge a book by its cover" and we have to do a lot of critical thinking to over ride that instinct.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

I wish someone would have told me this a long time ago so I wouldn't have chosen to be this homely.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

So those blackpillers are spreading the truth.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

This just in: Attractive people get treated better in society.

by No-Lawfulness 4 weeks ago

It's accurate for men as well. I know a man who is smoking hot. He has an obnoxious personality and his actions would be sexual harassment for anyone else. But he's hot so women love him.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

I know someone like this. I am a woman and frankly if he asked me out I would decline because he is so goddamn obnoxious at times. But know any other woman around this situation would jump at the opportunity.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

I know a guy like this as well. He also just has to be literally anywhere and he immediately finds a girl there without doing anything. I'll never understand how it works for these people.. I'd say I wish I was him but he's become quite the jerk, doesn't have a steady job and is really a tool, so guess he didn't get the whole package.

by Silent_Opposite 4 weeks ago

Men love him too. Even straight men probably treat him better unconsciously. The youngest guys in my company to make career are also the most attractive ones.

by Own_Kiwi5973 4 weeks ago

Yep attractive people are treated better

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Attractiveness is the difference between charming and creep.

by Ethylrath 4 weeks ago

I'm a woman who was sexually hsrrassed by my ex friend who is a woman. She got believed over me because she's a white redhead 90 pound chick and I'm fat and taller and half asian. I'll never forgive society for anything.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Excited about going ta see him, only one more Month!

by Commercial-Split 4 weeks ago

especially with women, this idea that most men will pretend to care about you because they wanna get in your pants sounds hellish

by Unhappy_Upstairs5914 4 weeks ago

Very well said !

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Not really. Being hot is overpowered af.

by True-Leek6926 4 weeks ago

Needs to be nerfed

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

No but they love singling out hot women the most because it scratches that misogyny itch. I guess hot men don't qualify to be included in this cartoon villain fantasy.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

I'm sure that some people do this, but I would caution you against automatically assuming this to be the case whenever this issue is brought up. It might cloud your ability to actually spot genuine biases.

by Curious_Flow 4 weeks ago

Social skills is basically being able to make others feel good in your presence. When you're not hot, you have to actually make an effort, through compliments, being a good listener, being funny, etc. When you're hot, you can just exist and people will feel good in your presence.

by Abigaylemurazik 4 weeks ago

I understand you aren't in a good place right now, but why Is your first instinct to attack a group of people who've done nothing wrong? And that's ignoring the fact that 90% of women don't get this kind of blessing. You only notice attractive women more because that's what you're drawn to, but the average looking man and woman have a lot more in common that you care to admit.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

He is generalizing that that's all women bc. His attention is only being paid to those most beautiful women. He's giving them his special treatment (all be it negative).

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

This. 90% of women aren't so attractive that they can instantly earn 80k on gofundme.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Blaming women instead of the government for going broke from medical expenses is peak incel Also the fact that his own family doesnt care enough to help him speaks volumes!

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

This reply brought me great joy. I wish I had written it myself.

by faefadel 4 weeks ago

If you weren't aware, this is a quote from SpongeBob

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Why are you blaming women for this instead of blaming the horny men who throw money only at women instead of people like you with medical needs?

by Safe-Inevitable 4 weeks ago

Yeah, these dudes act like poor men have no choice but to fork their money and attention over. Maybe they should learn financial responsibility and how to control themselves.

by Reasonable_Active 4 weeks ago

Because he's an incel

by Gloomy_Jello_9649 4 weeks ago

Exactly! Let's take another very sad social trend: girls going to OF as soon as they're 18 Don't be mad at a child who wants easy money, but be mad at men giving her easy money in exchange of her body being exposed Hell, I come from a very poor family and if I had been a gal, I probably would've done the same when I was 18. Wrong? Yes. Understandable? Also yes. But the people who would've enabled my behaviour would've been double as wrong

by MysteriousSweet 4 weeks ago

Pretty privileg may not be systematic, but saying "I never treat anyone better or worse bc of their looks" is straight up ignorant. The Halo effect is well studied and is probaly one of the most powerful social privileg there is.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

People who are considered attractive are also capable of struggling with mental illness.

by Disastrous_Suit 4 weeks ago

Yeah.. I'm saddened to hear what OP is going through and hope they are able to pull through and get better, but that doesn't invalidate the pains of others. It's understandable that maybe they are having a little trouble with empathy right now, they are going through more than I ever have and to make matters worse it sounds like they are feeling very alone in it; but I sincerely hope they recover physically, mentally, and emotionally.

by roconner 4 weeks ago

Oh you're forgetting that those don't count. (Guys, this is sarcasm. Very blatant sarcasm).

by Hot-Distribution4929 4 weeks ago

Not unpopular and you could take any group or class of people and say the same thing Some men really do not know how damn good they have it Some white people really do not know how damn good they have it Some people born into wealth really do not know how damn good they have it Some people born in first world countries really do not know how damn good they have it You get the picture. You are just hyper-focused on a personal scenario where someone is in a better situation than you are.

by Neat_Muscle_6600 4 weeks ago

Funny how you somehow took your sickness and made it about women. And by funny I mean sad.

by Adonis48 4 weeks ago

Somehow his problems are our fault

by Camylleferry 4 weeks ago

Like how can you compare to being attractive to being sick?

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

I can't believe OP's sickness is my fault. I'm sorry OP! Forgive me!

by elverachristian 4 weeks ago

Maybe if you give him some money and call him pretty he'll feel better.

by Adonis48 4 weeks ago

You're getting a grand a month in handouts and griping about how little you're getting. That part is tough to chew.

by Christianbotsfo 4 weeks ago

But these hot chicks and their unique situation should be less important than mine so I deserve more handouts than them. Stupid hot chicks

by stanford53 4 weeks ago

I mean tbf if OP is telling the truth and truly is bedridden and disabled, and therefore cant work, a grand a month is not enough to survive off, with rent and paying for carers

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

But there's always someone higher up on the totem pole, even if OP's situation isn't good there are probably tons of people who wish they got any kind of assistance whatsoever. So spending your time angry that hot chicks have is soooo easy is obviously gonna rub people the wrong way.

by Away-Ad7795 4 weeks ago

I will never understand men getting mad at the woman and not the horny men who are the ones who actually enable these situations. Like it's not the fault of the "hot chick" (as you so politely put it) that they get more social media attention than you, it's the fault of the people giving them the social media attention, aka horny men. This is pretty textbook misogyny.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Attractive people really do not know how damn good they have it. There fixed it for you

by ToothCautious2774 4 weeks ago

Idk man you sound miserable, i probably wouldn't have donated either.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Gross. This has some serious incel energy.

by lee16 4 weeks ago

Why are you making it about women?

by Specialist-Bird-7664 4 weeks ago

Um. You're only noticing this happen to the women because you follow them. If you followed hot dudes it would be similar. Why don't you follow hot dudes? Because you aren't interested in them? Are you not interested because you're not attracted to them? Because you're only interested in people you're attracted to? Yet you're whining that others aren't interested in your unattractive ass? They are the same as you... Rules for thee but not for me? What makes you think the woman doesn't realize how good she has it, maybe she understands exactly where her power comes from and how to wield it... Maybe that's why she's successful enough that you follow her... Why are you placing your blame on the woman for most men being just like you... Only focusing on hot women!

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

I second this. OP WHY AREN'T YOU FOLLOWING THE OLD DYING LADIES ASKING FOR MONEY?!

by elverachristian 4 weeks ago

If it makes you feel any better, I don't care about the hot chicks problems, but I also don't care about yours. Have a nice day!

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

I mean is this the struggle Olympics? One of the most beautiful woman I kno struggles with extreme ptsd from being brutally sexually assaulted. But she gets free drinks and lots of compliments so yay her life is so good and easy. Some people definitely have it easier in certain ways, doesn't mean life is just perfect and easy.

by Signal-Echidna-9316 4 weeks ago

You wouldn't say that if OP was HoTt

by Delaney02 4 weeks ago

You think thats solely a problem of women? Men can just be as self absorbed

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

People in developed countries don't know how lucky they are. They can have insurance and go online and find people to fund them for their medical problems. And people in poor countries have no way of getting decent treatment and often have to die when they get sick. They are sick of the people in privileged countries complaining too.

by lferry 4 weeks ago

Seems like a great attempt at taking ones frustrations about their life out on a group of people who have absolutely nothing to do with it in the first place.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Why does this apply to women/"hot chicks" specifically? It seems you're just looking for a demographic to point fingers at and take out your suffering on.

by Lucky-Usual 4 weeks ago

That men simp over most women? Who's fault is that?

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

everyone has their own problems, doesnt mean they matter less because others have it worse, nor should it be my problem. and if you think this way, then know that theres people out there who have it worse than you, so shut up

by Critical_Cry2304 4 weeks ago

People have different problems and different things hurt them. Would you tell a three year old that crying when their lolly drops isn't a real problem? The woman was just sad. Rejection hurts, if it happens once or for the fiftieth time. She's not at fault for you sickness or disability. You don't have to take your frustrations put on random people. You have your problems and others have theirs. You wouldn't want someone paralyzed from the head down come online and rant about you, saying you know nothing about real problems and that you have it amazing. This "logic" can be applied to anything and is often used by old people. "Kids these days have it so easy, my life was much harder" all that stuff. And even if it may be true, that's how you sound right now. Not nice.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Double standards exist. Some you benefit from and some you don't.

by Straight-Singer-1752 4 weeks ago

I don't think this is a problem with the woman, but with the men that are simping.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Think about what they actually WANT from this person though. Is she being admired solely for her looks? If so, do you really think she enjoys that?

by christa17 4 weeks ago

I doubt OP has all these problems

by leliaroberts 4 weeks ago

Fortunately for her she will have that opportunity in about 30 or 40 years, and I can almost guarantee she will long for the days of being treated like royalty anywhere she goes just for existing. I remember reading an article about a woman's experience hitting her late 40s and noticeably losing her looks, and becoming angry and spiteful toward attractive women (she lamented this) because she couldn't cope with being treated like every other average looking person. The thing is, attractive people often never fully lose their looks, and they are able to "age gracefully" (ie, still be attractive for their age). So even if they're invisible to the rest of society, they'll still be better off than people who didn't have looks to lose in the first place.

by Wonderful-Report-601 4 weeks ago

OP is a guy I think

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

It's true OP. Pretty privilege is real unfortunately. Just these days I've heard about some lady I know who wants a divorce from her husband. Husband is older than her, yeah but he paid for her studies, saved her from poverty, didn't abuse her financially or physically and gave her what she wanted and just had an easy life. And she dares to threaten him to buy her a house after divorce or she will go to the police and accuse him of tax evasion. She even kicked him out of the house that he bought for her. She cheated on him but he still wants her back. Man is at fault for looking for someone young and pretty instead of finding a decent, loving, kind and honest woman. There are many decent ladies out there but most men only care about beauty and not personality.

by Giovanishanahan 4 weeks ago

This. This right here! The way I see it, yeah, pretty women get all of that, but at the same time, the men are also at fault for creating this monster.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

I dunno. I agree some people have a better experience of life because their good looks make people treat them better. I didn't see "some" in your title and decided I had to read what you had to say. Pretty privilege is real. Some people are used to getting their way all the time, they feel entitled to always being right. Some people just need to be told no.

by xbergnaum 4 weeks ago

Pretty privilege is alive and well. We live in a shallow social media driven society. Dm me and I'll contribute. I hope you feel better.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Pain is relative. I'm sorry for what you have to put up with but the idea that no one can be upset cause someone else has it worse is ridiculous.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Personality and attitude are factors that will definitely determine how attractive someone is. Some people aren't conventionally attractive but because they are sweet, charming and genuinely kind they give off a lot of charisma. Just like someone could be the most physically blessed person within hundreds of miles but if they don't have much else going on for them or aren't a nice person, their physical traits almost don't even matter.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

I'm sorry for what you're going through. I think this is about pretty privilege and ableism, not any kind of female privilege.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

You compared your struggles while invalidating someone else's and throwing a pity party, feel better yet? If you do only have a few years left, this probably isn't a good way to spend that time.

by lavonnekeebler 4 weeks ago

Why do you write this specifically about women?

by Tall_Comb_6456 4 weeks ago

It's not their fault that horny people throw money at them. Also women do have real ass problems. Having hundreds of people hit on you is a real ass problem just like how having no people hit on you is a real ass problem. Some die of thirst, some drown.

by Esperanzaankund 4 weeks ago

Not an unpopular opinion, just mopey and obnoxious. Being attractive has a LOT to do with how you present yourself. How much do you groom, my dude?

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

This just in...people don't realize their privilege or advantages. Lol, on a serious note people tend not to realize their disadvantages either. About as unpopular as the grass is greener.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

People love to deny pretty privilege but it is very real!!

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Unfortunately, life isn't always fair.

by Tall_Pin_5907 4 weeks ago

Let's be real though 9/10 it's the men putting them on a pedestal.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

I'm very lucky. But I wasn't always…life really sucked before my streak of luck. I never forget that.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Look at it this way, at least you have less of a chance of being murdered by some obsessed dude. Those true crime shows are always like "she was so beautiful, everyone loved her" etc. and look where it got her

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

So the hot chick that got injured in a car accident is complaining about nothing?

by jastiva 4 weeks ago

Have you seen how good handsome tall men have it in the world?

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

So she can't be upset because you have it worse?

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Have you tried being hot? /s

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

someone's jelly

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Hell ya I'm jelly. Do you know how happy I would be if I could pay my medical bills by having a sugar daddy or selling nudes on only fans. There's also women with this disease who just live off their husbands.

by Adventurous-Ball 4 weeks ago

You realize you can still get a sugar daddy? There are plenty of rich gay dudes

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

But most white men don't realize how damn good they have it. You're literally born into the most powerful privileged group in history. So yeah there might be a handful of "women" that have it good, but that's like a grain of sand in the beach of humanity

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

That power and privilege isn't extended to all white people though. You can be poor and white. Being white doesn't magically make all your problems go away

by Foreign_Whereas 4 weeks ago

Try being poor in a non white country. Being poor in europe is still miles better than being poor in eritrea.

by lydiagulgowski 4 weeks ago

Im not white. So you're telling me i have it worse than the white homeless guy i see everyday ? Damn atleast hide your racism

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

I think you missed how women & children suddenly became the most precious and sacred thing in the West. Not to me, but to the majority of Western society.

by VariousScientist 4 weeks ago

Relative privation. Remember, if they can't be upset because they have it better, you can never be happy because you have it worse.

by True_Ad1031 4 weeks ago

People like hot people and the halo effect exists. welcome to earth

by Sad_Dragonfruit481 4 weeks ago

Halo effect goes crazyyy

by xmcdermott 4 weeks ago

This isn't groundbreaking.

by Normal-Broccoli 4 weeks ago

I would say this is not exclusive to women. Any human can be oblivious to how bad life can be. And only by knowing how bad things can be will anyone be genuinely able to appreciate how good things are.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Fully, fully agree. I would not say all. However, I would say most. Especially American women. The problem is they have everything already, so giving them more is literally impossible.

by Goyettezoe 4 weeks ago

Some people*

by Illustrious_Tip_8148 4 weeks ago

*couldn't care less (not could care less)

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Not.an unpopular opinion, there are even scientific studies that show this" beautiful"bias.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

And somebody crawling around a muddy street in the third world with no legs begging for change might say your problems are a joke if they were literate with acess to the internet Of your course problems are not a joke it sounds like a terrible mess that's not fair sorry you're family are being useless assholes my point is dunking on you would help that beggar as much as dunking on the hot girl who got rejected is helping you

by okeefexavier 4 weeks ago

Life is unfair. Nothing more to it really.

by Any_Spirit3736 4 weeks ago

So, I don't think the issue is how attractive or not someone is, or how much money others are donated vs you. I'm sorry for your situation - but as someone who has had cancer and reliant on my husband and others etc. like… no one owes you anything.

by PatientAd2202 4 weeks ago

*"some people"

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Many people in general don't understand how good they have it.

by OutrageousBreath 4 weeks ago

Someone doesn't have it good just because they don't get rejected often wtf

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

You're absolutely right and the privileged will never admit it.

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

could care less I was with you until this. Lost all sympathy now. jk

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Pretty privilege strikes again

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago

Some *people

by Anonymous 4 weeks ago