Toxic positivity in general is annoying. I like me someone who has a little "mindless hater" to them.
by franeckivernice1 week ago
Most toxic people I've ever met were people who preached no toxicity. People who literally dropped stuff in their lives to make sure I was okay and actually help me with serious issues? They were the assholes. Keep your nice assholes close. They actually care. They're that way for a reason usually.
by zulaufjoelle1 week ago
Same as how cheaters are the fastest to accuse their partners of cheating, or thieves are the most afraid of being robbed, or how politicians tell on themselves with how they attack their opponents. Any man who must say, "I am the King", is no true king
by Expensive-Extent1 week ago
Yes, a thief will never trust you and a liar will never believe you.
by Anonymous1 week ago
They also like to trot out generic and empty platitudes as their bread and butter. It's just a show in the end.
by littelewell1 week ago
Absolutely. The English-speaking Internet is contaminated by the toxic positivity. I tried hanging on Facebook before, and just felt sick of it
by Anonymous1 week ago
Yeah, how am I supposed to connect with someone if they dont hate something? hating together makes the bond stronger
by awaelchi1 week ago
Toxic positivity is a real thing. People who mask their disgust in polite discourse are worse than the most unhinged people struggling to make their point. Candor is the only real measure of goodness.
by Nelson371 week ago
True. It's hard to read emotions through text though, but you are right.
by Nelson371 week ago
I can't lie, people that espouse "good vibes only" really irk me. It's completely unrealistic. I don't care how wonderful of a life someone might have, they WILL have a bad day at some point. Are they going to oust someone when they briefly have some "bad" vibes and choose to express it?
by Anonymous1 week ago
I understand why people say it but it's an annoying cliche.
by Calecorkery1 week ago
It used to be called "No Drama! I Hate Drama!"... and what do you know? It's the people who always attract drama. It's as old as time.
by Anonymous1 week ago
I generally agree (maybe not in every situation though). It seems like the majority of those types of people have an air of superiority about them and think they're super enlightened while ignoring a huge part of the human experience, which directly contradicts the teachings and actions of enlightened/awakened teachers (Buddha, Jesus, Krishna, countless yogis, saints, and mystics, etc.).
by schmelerjordan1 week ago
Yea and "No fat chicks"
by Pauline591 week ago
How's that self-contradictory?
by Expensive-Extent1 week ago
Hey at least they have a warning sign now.
by Terrible_Bid34621 week ago
Agree, I watched a short and it was a person saying we only want God vibes here, then proceeds to physically attack someone. .
by yundtearline1 week ago
If it's a space that you established, why shouldn't you have the vibe that you want?
by Top_Buy1 week ago
You absolutely can, but then it's not only good vibes, it's only vibes you want.
by Expensive-Extent1 week ago
Which they would define as good. Are you just stuck on the fact that the person talking is using their own version of the word good? Because that's always the case with any word like that, it's not unexpected.
by Anonymous1 week ago
Yeah it's "get your differing opinions out of our circlejerk cult group"
by Anonymous1 week ago
My point is that saying "Good vibes only" IS bringing negativity. Going into the psychonaut realm, you know well that good and bad are relatively arbitrary labels.
by Expensive-Extent1 week ago
Toxic positivity Good Vibes Only types are the most avoidant when it comes to anything mildly inconvenient let alone serious.
by Big-Log-10221 week ago
The term is "toxic positivity"
by Anonymous1 week ago
L take. My vibes are excellent and I don't want randoms ruining that. So we put up a sign, "good vibes only".
by Ok-Victory1 week ago
Sounds kinda toxic tbh
by Expensive-Extent1 week ago
That's ok, I'm happy to keep to good vibes to myself.
by Ok-Victory1 week ago
I like it, thanks, I'll keep it.
by Ok-Victory1 week ago
You're most welcome.
by Expensive-Extent1 week ago
Ok I was sorta with you but you have to be dumb or an ah to not realize or care with what's going on in the photos
by Daisy081 week ago
You forgot one: Or entirely aware that that's a ridiculous comparison.
by Ok-Victory1 week ago
Nah I can't read your mind And technically also nah as those guys do use the saying too
by Daisy081 week ago
Ok, so should I change good vibes only to something like wholesome humans only, would that protect me from your righteous judgement, or?
by Ok-Victory1 week ago
Personally I would just say "no negativity please" only during some situations. Not 24/7 Secondly you're not really addressing the part where people like that do have the same thinking as you.
by Daisy081 week ago
i think it's pretty universal what constitutes somebody giving off good or bad vibes to be honest
by Anonymous1 week ago
Let's be real, men don't say this lmao we know exactly who you're talking about
by Anonymous1 week ago
Definitely have heard men say it.
by Expensive-Extent1 week ago
Agreed. Good Vibes Only are for really soft people.
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