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Men who feel insecure by their gf/wives huge sex toys are absolutely valid. amirite?
by Open-Regret1 week ago
It's always the Germans
by Adella941 week ago
YOU VILL ENJOY ZIS!!!
by Sea_Fee1 week ago
Just how I like it
by Anonymous1 week ago
No, an ai generated Hitler voice that only speaks in yells
by Brigitteconroy1 week ago
It turns off after 8 hours of operation cause labour laws
by Anonymous1 week ago
Sometimes it's the Japanese
by Fun_Bullfrog80321 week ago
They make precision screws
by Anonymous1 week ago
They dead ass do have the best porn. We need to take note from them and restore the former glory of American pornography.
by Adella941 week ago
Iunno about that one chief, some of their extreme stuff is way too out there for me.
by Adaline201 week ago
Sometimes I just need to see someone eat a semen omelette
by Adella941 week ago
seriously? Americans have always been prudes, you cant even have sex until your an OAP :'D
by Rosie801 week ago
Idk our teen pregnancy rate is higher 💪💪💪
by Adella941 week ago
yes, its not surprising, because when you make something illegal you prevent people doing it in a safe and sensible way of course you will have higher rate of teen pregnancy when you dont allow people condoms or morning after pill until they are 18 as opposed to countries that have them available for basically anyone (as we would rather have kids having underage sex safely than unsafely) your country also classes sex education as porn, and the morning after pill as murder, its really not surprising what the result of all these things is lol
by Rosie801 week ago
Zee Germans
by Anonymous1 week ago
or the Japanese
by Anonymous1 week ago
Ve Germans are not all smiles und sunshine.
by Human-Specialist79151 week ago
German science is the best in the world!!!!!
by spinkaaaliyah1 week ago
Why would you judge a guy for having a fleshlight?
by dallinnitzsche1 week ago
People seem to immediately assume that he can't find a partner and there's something wrong with them. My cousin accidentally found mine, and immediately started to give me dating advice.
by FabulousTale1 week ago
If you have a low voice, you very much can moan/growl like a vibrator during oral.
by Ankundingdino1 week ago
Why did the voice in my head drop to a deep bass when I read Donte...?
by Anonymous1 week ago
Hypothermia ?!
by Anonymous1 week ago
Omggg 😂
by Open-Regret1 week ago
Wait, they make those?! *off to Google search *
by Anonymous1 week ago
diesel thruster those rotary engines hit different fr fr
by Anonymous1 week ago
these names are killing me, lmao
by Anonymous1 week ago
Idk man, how could a woman possibly live up to the unrealistic standards set by that? I only have 20 personalities.
by Anonymous1 week ago
Ah cool. You got in on the Kickstarter?
by Anonymous1 week ago
To be fair you always gotta ask how they got the skin to feel so real
by mulleronie1 week ago
I accept weirdness in this case, where can I buy myself one of these?
by Anonymous1 week ago
You really did yourself a disservice skipping out on the self-cleaning feature...
by Only_Ad1 week ago
Feeling desired by your partner is an important part of sex for most people
by Euphoric-Anxiety71251 week ago
Honestly it's the most important part… otherwise it feels forced and like a chore
by Anonymous1 week ago
yep, the most attractive thing a woman can do is desire me
by baileystreich1 week ago
Yep. I've realized after awhile the common theme between my kinks and fantasies is that they all involve an extra level of enthusiasm, trust and consent from my partner that vanilla sex doesn't.
by Lafayette731 week ago
They can be a fun part of a couples sex life. But I can definitely see situations where it might make someone insecure I.e. over reliance or a lot of private use
by Gold_Pineapple1 week ago
significant private use and then never being in the mood for your partner.
by Technical-Job1 week ago
Of course, if you're feeling insecure, you should have an honest and vulnerable conversation with your partner. I think the issue comes with people using their insecurity to prohibit their partner from having sex toys that they enjoy.
by Anonymous1 week ago
Exactly. My partner has lots of them and I feel great she's exploring and enjoying and everything.
by HopeFriendly1 week ago
I could totally see why this could be a valid sociological debate.
by Anonymous1 week ago
My husband buys all the sex toys. I only had one when I met him, now I have like 20, all of them he bought. That includes a very girthy 8 incher. He likes to watch me use them and use them on me. He doesn't have any but I offered to get him a flesh light and he didn't want one. He‘s not insecure about me using the toys, quite the opposite. And he's not a small guy himself, we definitely don't need them.
by Ok-Coach1 week ago
Guilty as charged…. Female orgasms are just hot as hell, plus who wants to listen to some dude grunt lol
by Simple-Requirement741 week ago
plus who wants to listen to some dude grunt ✋
by Anonymous1 week ago
Idk I bought my man a double gawk 6000 . And he got me a 8in Girthy vibrating dildo. He did say he only want it to be used with him tho . But I guess everyone is different
by Anonymous1 week ago
double gawk 6000 is taking me out ðŸ˜
by Anonymous1 week ago
this feels weirdly specific
by Anonymous1 week ago
Sounds like ko found his girls vibrator and started to weep
by Anonymous1 week ago
OP is a woman so
by Apprehensive_Pain2801 week ago
I'm honestly shook.
by Anonymous1 week ago
She's doing a good thing imo. If a guy said this people would just drag him as being insecure like you were doing.
by Apprehensive_Pain2801 week ago
she said she uses zero toys. It sounds like she just has a shelter sex life, and this opinion is based on zero experience.
by Anonymous1 week ago
What are your opinions on using them on each other to enhance the shared activity? That sounds a fairly good boundary if couples were insecure.
by Anonymous1 week ago
A sex toy isn't a problem. This is especially true if used together. Why aren't other men treating toys like a tool/aid instead of competion? Now, if your partner only wants to ever use sex toys instead of sex with you that's an issue. But the toy didn't cause that.
by Wilbert881 week ago
The same reason why many women feel insecure if their guy watches porn. It's an "am I not enough for you" insecurity. It's pretty obvious why having a partner that cannot achieve an orgasm with you alone would be a big hit to someone's self-esteem.
by osteuber1 week ago
I don't care if my man watches porn. As long as it doesn't make him fail to perform in bed. It porn is making him unable to get hard without it then it's an issue. As if a dude cannot get hard ever then it means a sexless relationship. However, what's the harm of dildo as long as the guy still gets to cum through penetrative sex?
by Complex-Direction7481 week ago
OP is really highlighting the differences in how men and women think. To a woman, no sex toy can compare to what her husband/boyfriend provides in the other million aspects of a relationship that don't involve sex; her SO is more than what he provides sexually. Most men can't seem to understand this because…well… you get where I'm going with this.
by CalmDesk21021 week ago
this is so true
by Anonymous1 week ago
This!!! Boys, get you a cordless Hitachi wand and use it on her!!! She will have an amazing time. She will be a happy woman. She will return the favor. Trust me on this...
by Anonymous1 week ago
Also try to use it in the base of your balls. And in doggy style so your balls get vibrated too while penetrating her. I had many men who loves it and one dude cum from just Hitachi vibrating his balls.
by Complex-Direction7481 week ago
Same reason they just pound and pound and refuse to ask women what they can do better — pride. They can't handle the fact that they aren't doing something right and have too much ego to actually work to fix it.
by Whole-Context7491 week ago
yep.
by Bkris1 week ago
Nice strawman.
by Technical-Job1 week ago
Lots don't.
by Anonymous1 week ago
It's fine to feel a certain way, just don't act on it. Don't shame your partner for using it, I see that a lot and it's gross.
by Anonymous1 week ago
If I start feeling jealous towards a piece of silicone it's all over.
by Correct-Fly74141 week ago
nah fr. self-reflection time
by VastWallaby1 week ago
Boys, the dildo is your teammate, not your opponent.
by Anonymous1 week ago
I actually kind of agree with you that it's understandable to be insecure. But toys don't feel like the real thing so they kind of have to be big or have something special to compensate for the feeling of another person. There's a lot less stimulation when using a dildo vs having sex with someone who has a comparably sized penis.
by dean101 week ago
I don't get people being upset by their partners sex toys. Bigger than me or longer, idc. It's just a piece of plastic so to speak. I honestly think it's hot seeing it and using them on her. As long as they aren't using them to replace you then toys are fine.
by Character-Wait1 week ago
Yeah I guess so but I don't think someone should be so insecure that a toy upset them. There are things you can do to satisfy your partner. You just have to put in the efforts.
by Character-Wait1 week ago
Yeah. I guess it depends on how it's done? Like if someone has a dead bedroom / neglected sex life and one of them is using a toy but won't discuss improving sex life? So many ways it could either backfire or maybe even improve sex life depending on how it's handled really
by Open-Regret1 week ago
Bingo. That's where the problems start.
by Character-Wait1 week ago
I get what u mean , but she isn't taking the dildo out to dinner or anything ..right?
by Anonymous1 week ago
💀
by Open-Regret1 week ago
Sincere question - if you masturbate to women who are physically opposite from what your gf/wife will ever look like, is it valid for her to feel insecure about it?
by Jerel971 week ago
Where are you hearing about all these women buying dildos. Is that like a common thing in your social circle
by London571 week ago
Who's gonna tell him
by Anonymous1 week ago
Honestly as a woman, most women I know seem to prefer vibrators.
by Busy_Orchid1 week ago
Everyone's bodies are different. If dildos work best for you that's fine. Do you like clitoral stimulation? Maybe it's too much for you.
by Busy_Orchid1 week ago
I don't like vibrators either. the feeling is too strong and it makes me go numb TBH
by London571 week ago
this reminds me about why im single. my exwife never really used oversized sextoys, but this reminds me about all those insecurities and conversations about insecurities and jesus its nice to not have to deal with that.
by Slight-Shock-68021 week ago
I honestly don't like dildos/toys. They do nothing for me. They feel fake and it's not the same as having real sex with real penis
by Anonymous1 week ago
We pretty much exclusively use them with one another. I didn't even own any before my partner and I got together. Now that said Fleshlight I really just felt like I was working a butter churn Somehow all the laughing about "churning butter on the porch before supper" didn't kill the mood It's honestly wild to me how advanced toys for women are vs how basic mens are. Or rather Super basic or insanely advanced with no in between
by Anonymous1 week ago
OP, I don't care what you say. I am NOT intimidated by my wife's 3 pound mega-vibrating car battery operated Dildo and neither are her 3 boyfriends
by Anonymous1 week ago
Insecurities like this are why the orgasm gap is such a huge issue.
by FlatExcitement1 week ago
It's valid, it's just not productive. There's better ways to react to sex toys than allowing your base insecurities to form the entirety of your reaction. I'd agree that there's nothing wrong with having a gut feeling of insecurity.
by No-Phase1 week ago
Best response i've seen so far. People in happy relationships aren't policing each other's masturbation
by Anonymous1 week ago
"you shouldn't have self-care unless its my weenie" head ass. i get why that could be an insecurity, but really? sobbing over ur s/o having a vibrator? maybe sex isn't as important to me as it is to you, but still, really???
by VastWallaby1 week ago
I think any secure person would understand that a 8inch plastic toy doesn't actually compare at all to real human intercourse so they wouldn't feel threatened. I'll update your unpopular opinion - people who get jealous of their partners sex toys are just insecure people worrying about a lifeless plastic gizmo
by Anonymous1 week ago
Is this a real issue? Or is it just memes but guys with no relationship experience whatsoever took it as reality? I truly don't believe most women enjoy big dildos
by Secret-Refuse1 week ago
The issue is when the guy is like 5 inch and I get a 6 inch dildo. My exhusband used to be sooo offended my dildo is bigger than his cock.
by Complex-Direction7481 week ago
You're upset over her vibrator? K. Toss your special lube, your little special pills, your Fleshlight, and those jerk it sleeves away
by Anonymous1 week ago
my husband likes it when i compare his penis size to my dildos but to be fair he is usually bigger lol
by Anonymous1 week ago
"Size queens" are really not as common as y'all think
by deven871 week ago
Most real men can't get women off bc they refuse to learn about their partners bodies and the things that actually get them off (which is VERY RARELY penetrative sex)
by Anonymous1 week ago
Valid is logical. In scheme of things its like leaving the toilet seat up
by Tillmannicola1 week ago
The only time that feeling is invalid is if your partner has repeatedly told you that they are not feeling fulfilled by your sex life & given clear & reasonable things to try & you have ignored all of them because you only care about your own pleasure. Then you have no business feeling insecure if she has a massive dildo or he has a fleshlight.
by Ihaag1 week ago
I don't really care about dildos/vibrators or whatever if they use them while they masturbate, but not cool with them being used during sex, it's basically like AI taking your job…now stuff like vibrating cock rings or butt plugs, etc I'm a little more chill with during sex
by Jeremycollier1 week ago
Eh true. But when my ex threw my dildo at me that crossed a line
by ComprehensiveAct88511 week ago
My GF straight up told me "you are good enough at sex that I have no need to get a toy" it would destroy me if she all of a sudden decided that she needed one
by turnerzola1 week ago
Most women I know in relationships use vibrators instead of dildos
by Anonymous1 week ago
I bought one for her but it was the same size as mine.
by Adventurous-Sun1 week ago
I mean, by that logic, you should also feel insecure if your significant other masturbates by hand.
by Anonymous1 week ago
I don't feel like toys are in a competition with myself, actually my ex-partner had a wireless Hitachi and that became one of my best friends when we were in the bedroom together. I've never felt jealous towards toys and I'd consider myself average size. I read a book called " She comes first" and that really opened a lot of doors. Sides, sex isn't the defining thing of a relationship for me.
by Anonymous1 week ago
This but for porn
by dietrichpreston1 week ago
Use it with her.
by Anonymous1 week ago
My friend and her husband have a sex toy collection that they use together. No reason to feel insecure if mutual pleasure is the goal. Also a monster dong is not enjoyable to have shoved up your cooch every time you bone.
by Ready-Wave88121 week ago
What if I use sex toys AND have sex with my partner?
by Anonymous1 week ago
I wouldn't hold my gf back from getting them, but it definitely feels like your replacement. If I'm bad at my job help me git gud, don't order 9 inches from Amazon and expect me to feel nothing.
by addison711 week ago
Feeling insecure is pretty normal when you're made to feel like you're not good enough. But in the case of sexual needs, I think some societies have developed very unhealthy views on how important it is in a relationship to for one person to provide sexual gratification to the other. In these societies, we often see a relationship develop between sexual gratification and power. And I think if you're using sex as a power dynamic in your relationship then you're likely going to be insecure if you think you've lost that power to something else including a dildo. But think about that last sentence. A simple tool now has the power. How silly is that. But the only reason it has the power is because you let it and not because you weren't it's equal sexually but because you've made sex an unhealthy part of your relationship and your ego.
by UniqueBarnacle1 week ago
I'll care (maybe a little) when men take the time to satisfy women with whatever size they have. You know, instead of just using her body as a sex toy.
by breanne561 week ago
Their feelings may be valid… but that doesn't mean they get to have a say on what I use on or in my body. If they don't like it, they can go find someone else.
by Kristopherswani1 week ago
Yeah, the good old ultimatum. The foundation of every healthy relationship
by Anonymous1 week ago
Hit your wife, and divorce the gym.
by kirlinonie1 week ago
I do agree with this. I think people are entitled to their feelings, but no one should tell you what to do with your body.. Yeah, okay ya got me there lol
by Open-Regret1 week ago
they are valid but it's better to shrug it off you're not going to get anywhere showing your weaknesses with women
by Anonymous1 week ago
You're not going to get anywhere with women with this mentality in the first place
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