Adultery in an marriage without intimacy, where needs are not met, is justified. amirite?

And what is wrong with divorce?

by Anonymous 2 months ago

Everything. Ripping families apart, destroying children and making them depressed. I wouldn't want to give my children a safe haven of family and then tear it apart in front of them. I'd rather not get married to begin with

by Old_Air5092 2 months ago

Families with distant parents hiding things from another and not solving their issues togheter are much worse for children then divorced parents who are able to be happy.

by Anonymous 2 months ago

So everything that cheating does.

by Anonymous 2 months ago

Cheating is doing the exact same thing but with extra cruelty.

by Anonymous 2 months ago

I'd say don't get married in the first place if you aren't compatible long term, but people don't think ahead enough

by Old_Air5092 2 months ago

I'm sure that if you consider cheating an option, everything elseincluding talking have probably failed. For the kids it would still be better to stay together

by Old_Air5092 2 months ago

No, that is not in the best interest of the kids to stay together and believing that you are only going to set yourself up for world of pain

by Anonymous 2 months ago

What? Like we're adults in an adult relationship? Please be realistic

by Anonymous 2 months ago

Shhh....that sounds like you might be in an adult relationship.

by Anonymous 2 months ago

Of course you should talk to your partner. That doesn't always solve issues though.

by Old_Air5092 2 months ago

Then you divorce what's so difficult about that?

by Anonymous 2 months ago

Although cheating has to do with many things, and independently of the marriage status, if the agreement was to have a monogamous relationship, being unfaithful is a choice a person makes and it's their responsibility, there is no justification for it, it's a betrayal, a break of trust and shows lack of respect for the other person and the relationship. People change, life happens, and relationships evolve, cheating is not justified just because you can't communicate to your partner that your sexual needs are not being met. You can hurt someone deeply, affect their self-esteem and change their life forever, if the relationship is not working for you anymore, better to end it first.

by Anonymous 2 months ago

Cheating is never justified

by Personal-Freedom 2 months ago

Careful there. Her husband finds out and your life could get dramatically shorter- husbands have been known to do things.

by HotelSubstantial322 2 months ago

I like to live on the edge. I'm a bad boy. Shows bicep

by athena47 2 months ago

But did you see my bicep? It's pretty.

by athena47 2 months ago

And yet you do it , so are you not part of the Problem? You morally pretend to be one thing but act out something different

by Old_Air5092 2 months ago

Nope, because I'm single. That marriage has nothing to do with me. If I was also in a relationship then I would be a terrible human for cheating, but I'm not cheating, she is.

by athena47 2 months ago

Cheating involves at least three people and you are clearly directly responsible. If you were so innocent, you'd decline the tempting offer of getting involved in their situation

by Old_Air5092 2 months ago

No cheating involves one selfish person who lacks communication skills and the will to do the emotionally mature and intelligent thing which is to talk to their spouse or leave an unhappy situation.

by Anonymous 2 months ago

So If I cheat with your unhappy partner , knowing that you two are together I'm not at fault? Interesting take.

by Old_Air5092 2 months ago

The person cheating is the unhappy partner. Sleeping with somebody knowing they are cheating doesn't make you a cheater. It shows you lack morality, and are incredibly emotionally immature, possibly a predator.

by Anonymous 2 months ago