It's always good to help people, but either way it's hard to assess the situation given how broadly you describe it. I don't know what your relationship ship is with these people or what you mean by "recruited".

by Unusual_Government 1 month ago

Curious to know if my thinking is wrong? Jesus would say so.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

First off, nobody in Gen X should be helping people move. Thats when you're like 21/22. It's not worth our time; we hire movers and maybe chip in to help our friends buy a mover as a gift. Movers cost less than the time per hour your group of friends are using to help you move.

by Federico72 1 month ago

There is nothing wrong with your thinking. Welcome to adulthood.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

You could also say no, specifically because they wouldn't help you. Expecting relationships to be reciprocal is about as mainstream as you can get.

by Anonymous 1 month ago