refusing to air out your relationship dirty laundry to anyone who asks isn't a red flag for abuse, and nobody owes you personal info no matter how close you are. amirite?

-23 refusing to air out your relationship dirty laundry to anyone who asks isn't a red flag for abuse, and nobody owes you personal info no matter how close you are. amirite?

by Anonymous 1 month ago

This is a pretty reasonable option tbh

by Ok-Lingonberry-7381 1 month ago

Everything is now abuse. We live in an era where looking at someone wrong is now harassment.

by Anonymous 1 month ago

Right? And half the time when I try to talk about it, they're all like, "well CLEARLY he IS abusing you because you wouldn't HAVE to defend him and COVER IT UP if he weren't!1!1!1!1!2!". Like there's no good way to even phrase this because it just sounds incriminating even though he has never laid a finger on me or raised his voice or anything even remotely abusive, and I've been in physically and emotionally abusive relationships before so you'd think id be able to call it when I see it 🤔

by Anonymous 1 month ago