+39 Calling your romantic partner "bro" or "bruh" is incredibly patronizing and cringe, amirite?

by Effective_Mulberry14 7 hours ago

This is such a weird hill to die on, like, my girlfriend is also my best friend, I'm gonna talk to her like it.

by Anonymous 7 hours ago

Yup. Cringe away, we dont care. Im sure there are many other things ppl cringe at that idgaf about too. People worry about others and compare themselves to others too much.

by Deshawn65 6 hours ago

I think OP more so means during an argument. Me and my boyfriend use bruh and bro, it's fun and silly. Not during an argument though. It would be immature.

by wiegandarne 6 hours ago

No better or worse than using the word cringe.

by Anonymous 6 hours ago

My god yes. It just makes me think the person is 14 years old trying to be cool which is very cringe worthy. Take note little nerd kids, the word is cringworthy when you're an adult.

by Anonymous 6 hours ago

Oh cause nothing can possibly make you cringe right? Get real.

by Loose_Canary_2908 6 hours ago

Except cringe is the actual word that describes how I feel. I guess I could say "I get second-hand embarrassment when I see people use ___ word."

by Effective_Mulberry14 5 hours ago

Infact it's probably better. Not by much but better nonetheless

by Anonymous 5 hours ago

I don't think they know what that word means.

by Anonymous 4 hours ago

I've never seen people using it that way but yeah, I get where you're coming from

by Realistic_Durian 4 hours ago

She calls me bro and I call her dude. She's my girlfriend but she's also my best friend

by Educational_Tax 3 hours ago

I guess this is one way to spend your time being bitter and single

by dillonbauch 3 hours ago

Married with kids.

by Effective_Mulberry14 3 hours ago

Bro, you say things give you "extreme cringe", you aren't going to convince anyone that someone actually married you and gave you kids.

by Anonymous 2 hours ago

"Bruh" is also so much less hostile than so many other options, it's almost playful and helps for the situation to not escalate.

by Anonymous 2 hours ago

My wife is my best friend and I talk to her like it.

by uptonkarson 2 hours ago

Not if the partners themselves don't care. You don't get to decide how someone else feels.

by LimeSuspicious835 2 hours ago

I don't recall trying to tell anyone how they should feel.

by Effective_Mulberry14 2 hours ago

The point is it's not patronizing just because you personally don't like it. You aren't being called the thing. You don't get to decide for a couple that it's patronizing for them if it isn't TO them and how they interact.

by LimeSuspicious835 2 hours ago

Why did you capitalize "to?"

by Effective_Mulberry14 1 hour ago

but why is it cringe i don't get it

by Anonymous 1 hour ago

i'd ask where i was disrespectful, but i'm still waiting for you to tell me where it's cringe to use a word. wishing your wife luck.

by Anonymous 1 hour ago

When you cant address their point, you just focus on the way it was packaged.

by Anonymous 58 minutes ago

You don't use other pet names? Dude, man, mates, kiddo and the rest?

by Anonymous 43 minutes ago

I don't use any of those on my husband. I use hon, love, babe. Different set of pet names.

by Anonymous 40 minutes ago

But she is my "bro," too. I love her so much :)

by Appropriate-Sea-9418 21 minutes ago

Well… being annoyed by things that don't concern you, or affect you, is generally unpopular so well done.

by Kiehnkatelin 5 minutes ago