Not everyone is meant to be in a relationship and find there person, amirite?

Its cold thing to say, but the pros and cons are pretty equal all things considered. Its a good point.

by Anonymous 1 day ago

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by Intelligent_Face 1 day ago

🤣🤣🤣 sorry for the typo lol

by Key-Ambition-3939 1 day ago

I don't usually but that one really sticks in my craw...

by Intelligent_Face 1 day ago

Especially in a title. FFS 🤦🏻‍♀️

by Anonymous 1 day ago

Was it a typo or did you really think it was there💀

by Impossible_Mammoth 1 day ago

It was a typo. I'm half asleep right now lol

by Key-Ambition-3939 1 day ago

We're not meant to do anything, some people find love and some don't

by Fit-Editor-6268 1 day ago

You never know until its over. Attractive, unattractive, kind, mean, cool, uncool, etc. people of all types are doing it. Its difficult to connect with someone, but no reason to lose hope. Although I might argue that our species is doing far from what I would consider natural selection, for better or worse

by Fit-Editor-6268 1 day ago

"Meant to be" is bad terminology because it suggests that it is fate-reliant and I genuinely believe that if you put enough effort into yourself and put yourself out there, you can find someone. It might take time, but I think it is wildly rare that someone who developed their personality and character to be involuntarily single; I say this as someone who is fat, not particularly attractive, and poor sense of style who landed a genuinely wonderful wife who loves me just as much as I do her. Don't be down on yourself too hard, it takes time

by Anxious_Barber2021 1 day ago

It is fate reliant though. People, whether it's in their genetic makeup or how they grew up and how there personalities developed just don't have the qualities to get people of the opposite sex to find them attractive enough to want to be in a romantic relationship with them. Now I've had women express interest in me but I wasn't interested in them in that way. And since I'm a pretty empathetic person I'm not going to be in a relationship with a person just because. It wouldn't be fair to them or me.

by Key-Ambition-3939 1 day ago

What I meant by alone I meant partnership. Cause technically I'm not alone I have plenty of friends and family that I socialize with including women friends. But I do come home everyday to an empty house and bed and that gets lonely after awhile

by Key-Ambition-3939 1 day ago

Bummer. Well personally I have found living with others -- family, roommates, or even pets is like at least half as good as living with a partner fwiw.

by Anonymous 1 day ago

Darwinism's cold, calculating fingers weave the web of human emotion. I think this is one of those uncomfortable truths we try to avert our gaze from. We're animals. The chemicals in our heads just make it look like something grander

by SlideCompetitive1315 1 day ago

I agree 100% but from past relationships I don't trust anyone and I am happier by myself than to have to worry about someone else.

by BullfrogGlad4845 23 hours ago

You can. Lots of people are in childfree by choice relationships. And even in companionship marriages. I've been in a childfree by choice relationship for 11 years. And being poly my other serious partner is also childfree by choice.

by Leopoldschaden 23 hours ago

How old are you and how much time do you spend with people in person? Really ugly and very poor people find partners and even reproduce.

by Gulgowskimyah 23 hours ago

OP could go to Walmart and see itany given Sunday... Just kidding, Walmart. You know I love you.

by That_Total 23 hours ago

I'm 32 years old. Now I have been in one relationship in my life but that wasn't until I turned 25 and it only lasted a few years. I spend lots of time with people in person and have lots of friends including women so I'm not antisocial, I just don't have the personality to want them to be more than friends with me. I'm not funny by the way.

by Key-Ambition-3939 22 hours ago

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by Key-Ambition-3939 22 hours ago

I agree. I feel that most people in general want to love and be loved by someone. There are also people who meet, get married and then divorce. And some people who divorce stay single forever as they realized they may be happier alone.

by Anonymous 22 hours ago

Dair.

by Clementina73 21 hours ago

Also think it goes without saying you dont ever need someone to make your life whole. Nor should you waste your time on someone thinking that's what youre supposed to be doing. The person will come along, but you live life for you. You dont live for them.

by Anonymous 21 hours ago

Not everyone is meant to be in a relationship and find there person How is inequality and thus natural selection an unpopular opinion. I feel like everyone with a high school degree should be aware of this fact.

by Anonymous 21 hours ago

It's because people want to be nice and uplifting to people who struggle to attract members of the opposite sex. So they say things like "stay positive your person will come when you least expect it" or things like that, but in reality a lot of people with go their whole lives maybe only getting into one relationship or non at all. And if there lucky that one relationship turns out to be good.

by Key-Ambition-3939 21 hours ago

I haven't found a single one.

by Alejandrinschul 21 hours ago

I don't even think everyone should have a relationship. Free and unshackled sexuality kinda sounds better for society and more fun ngl. Orgies like in ancient Rome. That kinda stuff. And yeah some people would probably need some help ro be more attractive. I'm thinking a really advanced cosmetic medicine sector in the beginning and designer babies later.

by Anonymous 20 hours ago

I think there is someone for everyone. But that doesn't necessarily mean you'll find them. And there's some people who don't want to find them and are happy being single.

by Anonymous 20 hours ago

The senko style is what I use 80% of the time rigged in different ways so yea.

by West-Sell76 19 hours ago

Unfortunately same with jobs, that's why there's an unemployment rate.

by Lakinabigale 19 hours ago

When it comes to pure looks I feel I don't shoot out of my league as long as the person is a healthy weight I find them physically attractive

by Key-Ambition-3939 19 hours ago

My husband and I have so many single men as friends. For whatever reason, they have gotten to mid-fifties without finding someone to settle down with. Just how it is, I guess.

by Pschultz 18 hours ago

While factually correct it is an unpopularopinion by the perspective that it is in the popular opinion of society that "we are all meant to be in a relationship".

by Beattymarquis 18 hours ago

The fact the majority of relationships fail seem to prove this point. I thinks its worth taking a shot at it, but there are people that won't succeed at it.

by Anonymous 18 hours ago

If there's a will, there is a way. No will = no way. Your fate/destiny is in your hands. If you sit on your hands and wait for it to come knocking on your door, it will never come.

by Anonymous 17 hours ago

I just have to disagree because honestly, wealth and attractiveness mean nothing to me. If you have a good heart and are kind and funny, you'll win my heart forever. I married what many would say, is way below my "station," I've been made fun of by my colleagues. I'm a surgical fellow that is almost done and my husband never completed college. I've been told I'm way out of my husband's league. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I find him extremely attractive, even though, admittedly I didn't at first. Maybe it comes later in life but I do believe with the amount of people in this world and the internet, everyone can find someone if they try. Just because it takes too long, it doesn't mean that it's not meant to happen.

by Anonymous 17 hours ago

That's my specific problem though. I'm not funny. Even when talking to men I don't really crack jokes that is just not who I am, now don't get me wrong I have a sense of humor I can laugh at other people's jokes. I just don't have the ability to make those jokes myself. And just being kind and having a good heart unfortunately doesn't make you attractive it just make you a good person and a good friend.

by Key-Ambition-3939 17 hours ago

A good person with a good heart is hard to come by. Empathy. Understanding. Someone with the same hobbies/interests/world views. Unless you're a brick wall, there's someone that will care for you. I'm married but even if I wasn't, you seem very unapproachable because you aren't confident. You need to be happy with yourself and who you are. How people see you does not equate to your value. I can cry the sky is green all day long but that does not make it green. Best of luck. Only you can change your own mind. I have a good male friend who is the entire package but goes for damsels in distress - this has hurt his self esteem so badly that he thinks he doesn't deserve/wont find anyone.

by Anonymous 17 hours ago

its nearly always the ones who thinks this way needs to reproduce.. cause i have seen things ...

by Anonymous 17 hours ago

Wait what do you mean? Can you elaborate?

by Key-Ambition-3939 17 hours ago

They're

by Funklisandro 16 hours ago

That sounds like a super sad life. Men live for their families. It drives them

by Anonymous 16 hours ago

It is a super sad life, but the more i accept it and the more I just focus on myself and don't care the easier it gets

by Key-Ambition-3939 16 hours ago