Huh? I am not projecting, I am giving you an example that's the opposite situation of what you are saying? And I do care about someone who is suffering. For years.

by Few_Fudge 1 day ago

I'm not talking to you specifically, that wasn't clear. I meant this as a message to whoever does this.

by DinnerAlternative644 1 day ago

Depends how many times they've said it to me. Also apparently you can't convince someone to kill themselves.

by Anonymous 1 day ago

My mom said anyone who was really considering it, wouldn't be telling anyone. Anyone talking about it was only doing so for attention and if I was going to do it, make sure I did it the right way.

by veumhoyt 1 day ago

I have a hard time seeking therapy. My dad taught that all psychology was trash and fake scams to take money. He said they'd "tie me to a bed and force me to act normal with drugs." My mom said the things listed above. I've been in a permanent depression loop, too scared to seek help, not wanting to draw attention and afraid of screwing up if I did attempt. I was told that if I tried and failed, I'd become "a bigger burden" on everyone around me.

by veumhoyt 1 day ago

I assume you're an adult, right? It doesn't matter the opinions of others, if you need help, you should get help.

by DinnerAlternative644 1 day ago

I just need some bravery.

by veumhoyt 1 day ago

Someone's misunderstanding isn't 'egging them on'. I accept some people will never grasp mental health, I actively talk to people that get it.

by abshirename 1 day ago

How could any functioning adult genuinely think it would be a good idea to tell this to someone instead of even a generic "I'm sorry." or "It'll get better." Or whatever. "You don't mean that." is just dismissive.

by DinnerAlternative644 1 day ago