Ehh some people just dont care about things you think they should. A lot of people's dating choices arent about 'finding your equal'.

by Anonymous 6 hours ago

I completely agree. You go after people at your level or slightly above imo. I want someone to challenge me, teach me, but it's also open to my knowledge and my teaching. I expect my partner to be at my level because when they aren't, you have nothing in common, nothing to talk about, and nothing to do. That's just my experiences though. My husband and I have been married 16 years, and he is the very meaning of the word 'partner' to me.

by Anonymous 6 hours ago

Or...it could be a multitude of other reasons, such as: Insecurity Character flaws (Trauma?)

by Anonymous 6 hours ago

I dont get it, who cares if they're dumb or smart? Doesn't feel like something to attach so much negative emotion to. Why am I caring about how another guy dates? I'm not trying to ragebait but I genuinely haven't ever cared to think about this type of stuff, feels like high school gossip

by Anonymous 5 hours ago