Unironically, I think women have a worse dating experience in the end. amirite?

One of the best quotes I've ever read is: If high quality romantic options are clean drinking water then women live in a swamp and men live in the desert.

by klockolilliana 2 days ago

Women have to constantly be on high alert for violence, r*pe, or even after rejection problems like stalking. Men don't have to fear for their safety (most of the time).

by swiftlee 2 days ago

Look I'm gonna be brutal here. Men seem to resent women for getting so much attention on dating apps but women only have 1000 messages because men will spam pretty girls, or even not pretty girls, just to hit them up for sex with no intention of getting to know them and forging a bond. Those are not 1000 great messages, they are an absolute minefield with maybe a dozen actually good relationship prospects buried in the mix like needles in a haystack

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Ya no dude is interested in forming a bond with some chick who got blasted by a ton of dbags. That's always the sucker spot.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Women like her will pick the best guys who are only hitting her up for easy sex. This is why the cycle continues.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Easy sex? Depends on the woman. Not every girl wants to downgrade to a guy who makes less money than them or isn't up to their standards. Some women seek an equal or, like some guys, try to punch above their weight. Personality also plays a role. They aren't gonna just bang a guy irregardless of his behavior.

by Simple_Beginning 2 days ago

Cheating is not stored in the biceps lol On a more serious note I think what you're missing here is a much more fundamental issue. The most important qualities that everyone needs in a partner (kindness, loyalty, etc) simply cannot be predicted based on the superficial information you get from their socials.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Nope. Even the ugliest woman has more access than the hottest guy. Just the nature of the beast.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Loads of women get few DMs or just men sending dick photos and messages asking for sex.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

You literally proved why they don't have a worse experience

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Who u choose and tolerate in a relationship should also be a factor in your struggles when dating something men seem to understand but not women.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Because they don't need to. They can just pick another one without any effort since there's always options for most women.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Sucks your friend found an abusive man. Hooking up with lots of beautiful people but being sad they aren't better relationship material seems like a much better way to wait for the one than going months between dates. From first hand experience before my first serious relationship, I had an abysmal love life. 8 years later when we broke up I was up to my eye balls in casual sex. Let me tell you, that life is WAY better. Even when I got caught up in the web of an unhinged woman, that was a breeze compared to the loneliness I experienced as a very young adult. I guess if your point is that women are more vulnerable in dating, that is undeniable. But if your point is that women are suffering due to too many options, I don't get it.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

It kinda didn take sense, woman have a worst dating life because they have to many options? It s like saying going to a restaurant is harder if you are rich because you have a lot of restaurants to choose from

by Cold_Boat_11 2 days ago

I don't mean they have a worse time only because they have so many choices, I mean it's because of how the men are filtered out between these unlimited choices. Most women (not all) are naturally looking for specific qualities like height, big biceps, insanely rich etc which I think is totally okay, but I believe this shouldn't be the main factor when it comes to filtering choices for a successful relationship. I think it's a more positive experience if they filtered guys based on their personality first and then they can look for or tolerate physical features, but nobody's gonna do that because it's much easier to filter them based on physical appearance first.

by Capital-Cause7592 2 days ago

So.... What is supposed to be the worse dating experience in the end? Picking out a wacko out of the "thousand" DMs?

by Quiet-Bit 2 days ago

Not saying women don't have problems in dating, but the problem you gave doesn't show that, having more options does not make it worse, that is like saying people who can chose any university has it harder than the people who only have 1 or 2 options. It's on her that she picked the one that had all the looks and money, without learning more about his personality. Ofc there can also just be bad luck, but this can happen for men as well, we just have fewer options.

by Puzzleheaded_Gas3824 2 days ago