+112 Anxious attachment doesn't get enough hate, amirite?

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Yes, Anxious types would annoy Avoidants the most. Truth is none of us deserve hate. Yes we all have work to put in but our attachment styles are formed in early childhood and none of it was any of our choice.

by SuperAdhesiveness 2 days ago

All I hear about anxious attachment is negative things.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

All I hear is bad things about avoidants

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Yes my goal is to be secure in who I am and my relationships.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Nah. Avoidants don't deserve hate. They deserve understanding and support to work on their attachment wounds, if they so wish. Even if they don't, I might choose not to date them, but I wouldn't hate on them. Same for anxious.

by Eva85 2 days ago

Okay yes, hate was a strong word. I just meant I understand where the critics come from. Same with the anxious, hate is a strong word again.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Sounds like you are just projecting your own insecurities and thinking everyone with anxiety does this.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Except that is what they do though. Anxious is unhealthy. I have been anxious in the past, I just would say for the most part I am more avoidant.

by Anonymous 2 days ago

Disorganized attachment for the win 👌

by Anonymous 2 days ago