+19 opportunist girl get a good treatment and nice girl get treated badly, amirite?

by Loose-Flamingo 4 hours ago

So for you people that get abused are a doormat and boring?

by Loose-Flamingo 4 hours ago

What? No, abuse is difficult to escape for anyone. But a partner who is just an asshole isn't abuse by itself. If there is no threat to your safety, financial wellbeing, etc. from leaving, and you still don't leave, then yes you're a doormat.

by Anonymous 3 hours ago

That is not even close to what this person said.

by No-Stuff 3 hours ago

They get the princess treatment because they demand it and won't accept any other treatment. But you can be a caring and generous girl, and STILL expect and demand others to treat you with respect and care. Don't let anyone use you as their doormat because you have been drilled into thinking "good girls make no fuss".

by Anonymous 3 hours ago

Yeah, it's unfair that kind girls get treated poorly and taken advantage of. But I think it's odd to put these phenomenons side by side, as if there was some sort of limited supply of kindness in the world and it was wrongly allocated. Girls who are ‘kind of mean' might just be more confident and better at enforcing boundaries. And good for them—even if some of them aren't angels either. Let's not divide ourselves up like this!

by Superb-Initial 3 hours ago

That doesn't mean that a good person can't be treated good , it's just the observation of a paradox

by Loose-Flamingo 3 hours ago

And no one likes a pick-me girl like yourself?

by zhilll 2 hours ago

Nobody likes an annoying holier-than-thou person either

by Optimal-Let 2 hours ago

It's like you guys learn terms on social media, then just start using it when you don't agree with someone's viewpoint

by Anonymous 2 hours ago