Because there is not a single person that wont annoy You ocasionally. So You gotta acept it to some point or just be used to changing partners every few months/years till the rest of Your life

by Anonymous 3 days ago

These people will be alone forever in their quest to surround themselves with people that perfectly match their criteria

by kellyrutherford 3 days ago

While i do agree with you on most points, one major part of being in an abusive relationship is the constant shift of your normal. You seriously don't know what's wrong or right anymore. Think of the frog in water slowly heating up. Sometimes you need someone on the outside to tell you, no, this is not normal, let alone ok behavior.

by Mertie75 3 days ago

Not to be crass but alot of men and women just want to have a hot partner who they like having sex with, and then the rest of the realtionship being bad is excused by them

by Anonymous 3 days ago

My mum said to me that everyone is going to annoy you, just have to find that person that you can stand to be annoyed around. Lol

by Anonymous 3 days ago

Everyone has flaws though. Its hard to judge someone when you don't know if they were at their lowest

by Anonymous 3 days ago

it's so much harder when you're in that relationship though. i was in an abusive relationship on and off for 7/8 years, i'm now only 23 and the relationship only officially ended for good this year. that's all our formative years we've spent together, in an incredibly toxic relationship and if i told people what he was doing or saying to me people would say ‘just leave him' but i was stuck in a cycle. even when he'd do mildly inconvenient or annoying things people would say ‘just leave him', but to me those things were great because my spectrum of good and bad behaviour with him had shifted drastically

by mccluregolda 3 days ago

I honestly never understood why people stay in relationships they're clearly miserable in or settle for someone who is an awful partner for whatever reason. Outside of abusive relationships and relationships where kids are involved since I know that makes things more difficult, do people in general not realize they can just find someone who actually makes them happy and treats them well? Especially people who are just dating and not married. Relationships are meant to add to your life, not make it harder.

by Labadieabby 3 days ago

It's easier said than done for people to dump someone they love even if they actually know deep down inside that this person is toxic and that they can find better. That being said, I do agree with you that people should rip off the bandaid and just break up with their partners if they're unhappy.

by Anonymous 3 days ago

The secret is to build them up until they realize they deserve better.

by Greedy_Tie 3 days ago

So it's better to immediately break up over mild inconveniences instead of just letting the frustration out and going back to normal day to day life?

by Appropriate-Baby-275 3 days ago