I think it depends, there is such thing as dressing inappropriately for an occasion, like if you're wearing some outfit that was featured in the Met Gala to a small gathering informal wedding you're probably doing too much.

by Anonymous 5 days ago

It doesn't hurt to check the dress code or ask the couple if not given one... As a rule though, I think it's all good until a guest shows up wearing white, unless explicitly told they can or should anyway. That just feels like stepping on the bride's toes a bit too much.

by Anonymous 5 days ago

Who is this a social norm for?

by Elnora43 5 days ago

I think it's really about what the couple wants/expects, as well as how the other guests will be dressing. If everyone is dressed more casually, that's not the time to be all flashy, and you'll be standing out among the guests which brings extra attention to you. It also matters how extravagant the bride is. This is definitely a case by case thing, and if you don't know what the expectations are, then ask. Power to you if you want everyone flashy at your wedding! Others just might take offense if you overdress at their wedding.

by Upstairs-West 5 days ago

I don't think it's a "social norm" for people to worry about dressing too nice for a wedding, but it's definitely something people should be mindful of. If I have a wedding, the theme will be "Outshine the Couple." If that's the theme, that's one thing. But it's a completely separate issue if you show up in sequins and feathers (or even just a tiara and extravagant gown) to a wedding that is just black tie.

by Anonymous 5 days ago